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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, I have a regular partner now of a few month. we don't bareback with others, we have built up trust in each other.

How long is it wise to wait before bareback, we have spoke about it and we are considering it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you`ve both been tested and its come back clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When ye both get tested and are 100% STD free. Then ye can play bareback safe in the knowledge ye cant catch anything off each other

Unless either has bareback sex with soneone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally i wouldn't bareback with a fuck buddie, i see it like this is they can bareback with me they can do it with others, and i always feel a little weary of anyone who expect me to believe they will go bare with me but not with anyone else, how much can you really trust someone who only meets you for sex, but then im very cynical lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get ur bums down to the GUM clinic and get tested

If both are clear of everything then give it a go

Regular testing required afterwards too tho if you are swinging together, safe or not

Romantic eh ?

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

When you've both been tested, been monogamous and tested again around 3 months later IMO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're both adults and know what you want. Get checked and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all, we are now more than fuck buddies. We are bf and gf, we don't see anyone else unless together and with condoms. She told me she has been tested and is certainly clean. I do trust her and so has always proven herself to be truthful. Am I stupid to trust her though with this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all, we are now more than fuck buddies. We are bf and gf, we don't see anyone else unless together and with condoms. She told me she has been tested and is certainly clean. I do trust her and so has always proven herself to be truthful. Am I stupid to trust her though with this?"

Potentially, yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When ye both get tested and are 100% STD free. Then ye can play bareback safe in the knowledge ye cant catch anything off each other

Unless either has bareback sex with soneone else."

Actually you still can catch STIs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would you feel if she said Im late?

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By *unTimezPlzWoman
over a year ago

stoke

The fact you're asking says everything. If in doubt,do nowt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all, we are now more than fuck buddies. We are bf and gf, we don't see anyone else unless together and with condoms. She told me she has been tested and is certainly clean. I do trust her and so has always proven herself to be truthful. Am I stupid to trust her though with this?"

this girl is now your girlfriend and your asking a bunch of strangers if your stupid for trushing her?

i think the fact you have to ask such a thing about a woman you consider your partner is the answer, you obviously don't trust her or you wouldn't be asking

damn did that even make sense lol

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Depends on if you think trust is earned or given.

If it's given, then sure trust what she says. If you think trust is earned, then she needs to prove that she has been tested.

I would not say she needs to get tested every other month, but if she is happy to do it once for your benefit then trust is earned for me.

Of course the same would be required of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would you feel if she said Im late?"

im sure she's using birth control us women arnt stupid you know lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks all, we are now more than fuck buddies. We are bf and gf, we don't see anyone else unless together and with condoms. She told me she has been tested and is certainly clean. I do trust her and so has always proven herself to be truthful. Am I stupid to trust her though with this?

this girl is now your girlfriend and your asking a bunch of strangers if your stupid for trushing her?

i think the fact you have to ask such a thing about a woman you consider your partner is the answer, you obviously don't trust her or you wouldn't be asking

damn did that even make sense lol "

This isn't that I don't trust her, she has proven herself to me so far and always been honest, when it's been at her expense. To be honest I do trust she is clean and honest. This is more that I don't trust myself to make correct decisions. If that makes sense?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How would you feel if she said Im late?

im sure she's using birth control us women arnt stupid you know lol"

yes she is on the injection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would you feel if she said Im late?

im sure she's using birth control us women arnt stupid you know lol

yes she is on the injection "

Where you with her when she got the injection?

Us men can be stupid you know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all, we are now more than fuck buddies. We are bf and gf, we don't see anyone else unless together and with condoms. She told me she has been tested and is certainly clean. I do trust her and so has always proven herself to be truthful. Am I stupid to trust her though with this?"

On the flipside, is she stupid to trust you?

If you're appalled by such a notion then maybe you should trust her as you feel she has nothing to worry about from you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont see why anyone would want to have unprotected sex with anyone other than a "partner" imagin getting her pregnant and saying to your child, your mum was a bareback swinger..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks all, we are now more than fuck buddies. We are bf and gf, we don't see anyone else unless together and with condoms. She told me she has been tested and is certainly clean. I do trust her and so has always proven herself to be truthful. Am I stupid to trust her though with this?

On the flipside, is she stupid to trust you?

If you're appalled by such a notion then maybe you should trust her as you feel she has nothing to worry about from you. "

I am clean I know that, but it is my words. I have told her that I will go get tested and she can come with me if she wants me to infront of her so she can see with her own eyes.

She says she trusts me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont see why anyone would want to have unprotected sex with anyone other than a "partner" imagin getting her pregnant and saying to your child, your mum was a bareback swinger.."

I totally agree with you there, and she is my partner now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only play bare with very trusted people..and ones I trust to be tested and not go with others bare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont see why anyone would want to have unprotected sex with anyone other than a "partner" imagin getting her pregnant and saying to your child, your mum was a bareback swinger.."

Wait a minute,

They are effectively a new couple, not some who met five minutes ago and people have found love on fabs before.

and I think there are a lot of parents on fabs who wouldn't appreciate such words, bareback or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regret doing this with someone I thought was trustworthy but who lied the whole time. If you are totally honest there should not be any problems but...people are not always honest. Don't know you so can't comment on your relationship but would suggest caution to anyone asking this question.

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Why do most people come on this forum and act like they've been condom safe all their lives? Absolute BS!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do most people come on this forum and act like they've been condom safe all their lives? Absolute BS!"

I don't think it is. I have myself always used a condom except with one long term partner quite some time ago. we had been together some years and I was only 17 area when I met her. So stopped at about 18 ish then we split up sometime after. Ever since I have always used a condom with everyone

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By *cEvil and BlueangelCouple
over a year ago

Co Durham

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By *cEvil and BlueangelCouple
over a year ago

Co Durham


"Thanks all, we are now more than fuck buddies. We are bf and gf, we don't see anyone else unless together and with condoms. She told me she has been tested and is certainly clean. I do trust her and so has always proven herself to be truthful. Am I stupid to trust her though with this?"

Try again...typo before

You know her...we dont

Why ask a bunch of strangers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you`ve both been tested and its come back clear "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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