FabSwingers.com forum: Clubs & Parties ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi everyone, now we like outdoor fun & we have a great life & sex life together.

Now we have been pondering the idea of going to a club or possibly a private party for the 1st time.

So our enquiry is this;

Just because you are interested in this idea, when attending either do you have to play or can you just chill out, natter & see where the mood takes you?

Would being normally dressed make you out of place & do people understand why you are there?

Any thoughts on the above are gratefully received & thanks for your input

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok then, for parties - the host should give you a good idea of what to wear, though normally, it is what ever you are comfortable in..

For clubs - pretty much the same to be honest, although many clubs have wet areas, so towel wear occurs later on..

But in both cases, there is never a compulsion to play, if you dont want to, then dont..

We often go to JayDees and have many times just treated it as a glorified social - ok there may be some kissing and light feeling/groping, but if you dont want to play, you dont have to, and once you explain that you just want to have a look around, people will respect that... if someone doesnt, speak to the hostr and they will deal with them...

Most of all, relax and have fun xxxx

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and just for the record you two look fine, so you wont have a problem ... just chat away and dont be afreaid to let the hands rove .. as long as the people you are with know that you are newbies... xx

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for your kind remarks.

Perhaps we'll look into finding a club which would be suitable for us to attend

By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Party I went to was themed, held in a big house with a dj and then rooms upstairs for anyone that wanted to go off. Was bloody brilliant!! X