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what to discuss on a first social meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi we are due to meet a cpl for the first time this evening

just after some do's and dont's

what's ok to discuss, whats not etc etc

any advice gladly received

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If say you can discuss anything and everything. We normally just talk about the same stuff as mates we have a drink with plus boundaries. The less you worry about what your going to talk about the more fun you will have

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for that guys, i know we'll be fine but just a bit nervous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is not script for what to say, as usually all will be nervous, unless had lots of meets or done it for years lol I would just say be yourselves and relax and just have a good chin wag about anything and everything... after all its only a social where you will be dressed... maybe different if you were having a nude meet lol but if that was the case doubt you would do much talking lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ha ha cheers for that naughty dog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You very welcome sugar and maybe we can have a social some time X X lol X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ha ha yeah right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ask them what they like and what they dont like as i have met lots of people who assumed i liked doing the same things as everyone else, or tried to get me to do things i didnt realy want to do, and they took pics of me without asking.

dont talk about other people you have met too much.

act like you are pleased to see them, thats if you are.

dont moan about things, be positive

dont talk about yourself all the time, tell them they look nice.

dont be too serious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually ask what size tits they have .if they got a bald pussy . And too see any naked pics they have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are newish to this stuff as well, we normally find the chat drifts to the lifestyle, some of the things that occur on the site etc, never actually about do's and don'ts, that normally after social

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By *ettering-couple76Couple
over a year ago

Kettering

Just be yourselves, relax and enjoy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I thought the most important things to discuss we're the prices of Milk, Bread, Butter, Cheese & Eggs

After all they do say those are the important factors in our daily life's

If that fails then talk about anything & enjoy yourselves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks to everyone for the advice

it all sounds good, even steve's lol

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go with the flow. If you all click, the the conversations would arise naturally.

Deep breath, let your hair down and enjoy x

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourselfs, relex. Chat will fall into place, just enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met a cpl for a drink to see ifwe clicked

They spent the lunchtime telling us how jealous he gets and how their kids were taken off then and how shes working as a prostitute

Needless to say we made excuses to leave and there wasnt a second meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourselves....nothing worse than a bad thespian..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy socials , all part of the build up. Nothing to be nervous about , you will soon be chatting away and if you have a change of heart you can just walk away and take it no further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met a cpl for a drink to see ifwe clicked

They spent the lunchtime telling us how jealous he gets and how their kids were taken off then and how shes working as a prostitute

Needless to say we made excuses to leave and there wasnt a second meet

"

Pmsl !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well anything really, love, film, telly, the current surge in popularity of UKIP, how twitter/Facebook have revolutionised how we communicate, the OK tornado, do they like it up the gary, will we ever go to Mars, the likelyhood of all humans being wiped out by a disease within 30 years.

That sort of thing I suppose.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"Well anything really, love, film, telly, the current surge in popularity of UKIP, how twitter/Facebook have revolutionised how we communicate, the OK tornado, do they like it up the gary, will we ever go to Mars, the likelyhood of all humans being wiped out by a disease within 30 years.

That sort of thing I suppose. "

yes - definitely the bumluv question - saves pain and embarrassment later on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the last social meet I had, a few weeks ago, conversation was flowing nicely. Chatting about holidays, good places to eat etc. All was going well until the lady said, in a slightly too loud voice "So what's it like being bi?". Suddenly I realised that other conversations had stopped!

My reply was a simple "great". At least the walk back to their hotel was fun!

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