FabSwingers.com forum: Home meets Vs Clubs?

By *etitesara OP TV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

By this i mean do you find meeting at your home to be more fun that a club?

Maybe it's cos i'm a TV that i prefer clubs. The whole 'getting dressed & going out' is scary - especially getting a taxi - so it adds to the effect for me.

Never actually gone to anyone's home yet though, think that would be just as scary/a turn on as going to a club.

The thought of tottering down someones driveway not knowing if they will open the door is strangely hot!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

We personally prefer home meets as the whole sexual build up before the other couple arrive and the chatting before everything starts is so exciting.

Clubs tend to be a bit wham bam if you know what i mean.

Steve

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By *etitesara OP TV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

"We personally prefer home meets as the whole sexual build up before the other couple arrive and the chatting before everything starts is so exciting.

Clubs tend to be a bit wham bam if you know what i mean.

Steve

Maybe it's just us but we spend time (probably too much) talking with people, event to the point of not playing if we don't get the buzz. Perhaps it's a social thing for us?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer meeting in the comfort and intimacy of my own home. For me the thought of a club is a bit unsavory.

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By *etitesara OP TV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

"I prefer meeting in the comfort and intimacy of my own home. For me the thought of a club is a bit unsavory."

I think that's what we like!

We go to one club that has a 'no playing in the lounge' rule & TBH it feels a bit like a social club - does have two great dungeons though.

The other place we go allows play pretty much anywhere, but the dungeon room isn't as good.

Guess which one we frequent the most?

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We started in clubs but over the years have come to prefer the comforts of swinging in our, or our friends homes. When we started R was a bit dubious about allowing other couples into our bed, but like most things connected with swinging, once you've tried it you find it's OK!

We do love the hectic atmosphere of a large playroom absolutely full of fucking couples, though. We've been to a few private parties but you don't usually get as many in one room as you do in a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs for me, as my home is to intimate to share with peeps - mainly because I am not a very tidy person!

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over a year ago

I love clubs as I love the atmosphere, the dressing up and the opportunity to be as naughty as I want to be if I feel like it

We have met people at home before and would still do that with people we know but I still prefer clubs

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By *etitesara OP TV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

"I love clubs as I love the atmosphere, the dressing up and the opportunity to be as naughty as I want to be if I feel like it

We have met people at home before and would still do that with people we know but I still prefer clubs

Me too!

It's the 'naughtyness in public' aspect for me.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Clubs for me are a social event, if i play its an added bonus but i like the comfort of my own home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

much prefer home meets , for me its more relaxed and less hassle .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy one on ones at home more intimate but if i am out to play then i buzz of the clubs love them cant beat the atmosphere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer home meets as as a single man it can all go pete tong in a club with other men trying to get involved. home meets are more relaxed and you get to know someone better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like many others, for us it depends what we are looking for at the time.

We love home meets for a number of reasons.

With home meets the sex is much less "arranged" during the course of the evening it just tends to happen, or not, but that's not important, much less contrived than heading off to a room with someone.

The sex also goes on all night, you can take a break for a drink or a smoke or for something to eat (we always put a small buffet on when entertaining) sometimes two will carry on while two rest or one rests and 3 carry on etc.

There is usually a lot more foreplay (which we love) in home meets and often sexy games before the fun really starts.

But we love clubs too and if we have nobody specific to meet we prefer the fact that there are lots of couples present that may or may not work out to be fun.

We love the social side of clubs and love meeting up with all our friends there but we rarely play at clubs, we are lucky though and live only 30 seconds from our local club so if we do meet that special person (couple) we can always come back here to play.

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I meet both at home and at clubs

If I am honest I probaly prefer clubs because if things are a let down (which they rarely are) I always have someone I know close by

The club I go to is amazing and I know so many people there, I feel very safe.

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

We prefer to meet at our caravan which is our home for the weekend, some people ask us do we go to any caravan sites near to them, as they would like to meet up with us, but they cant accommodate at home, if we do go to any site near to them we tell them the name of the site then set a date to meet, there are other coupes on this site that have caravans asking can we meet them at a site for some adult fun.

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By *umpingJackFlashMan
over a year ago

Somewhere near you?

"We prefer to meet at our caravan which is our home for the weekend, some people ask us do we go to any caravan sites near to them, as they would like to meet up with us, but they cant accommodate at home, if we do go to any site near to them we tell them the name of the site then set a date to meet, there are other coupes on this site that have caravans asking can we meet them at a site for some adult fun.

Sounds like fun, methinks I'll have to invest in a motor home!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i prefure home meets, i dont do them tho as i have kids, so i tend to use clubs more, i do prefure hotel meets to clubs but just getting dressed and going to a club is just so much less hassle than sorting a meet on here, i suppose for me its the lazy, easy option lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both i guess but a home meet can be more fun in some ways as you can really stretch it out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like both but prefer specific clubs if its out. Home we can take it at our pace as we do like to entertain people we like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having small kids does make it differcult to meet at home so when do we have lots of fun and games. A quick drrink in the local and back to our place is the order of the day. We generally know if going to play with the person or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ooooh ooooh ooooh missed that one, yes caravan meets are good, well mobile homes anyway, we are lucky cos my sister has 7 of them in Wales so we can borrow one or two at anytime (in return for a bit of maintenance work lol) we have had a few meets there and also taken some couples there with us for a week of socialising, holidaying and fun.

The change of scenery also adds to the fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love "home meets2 with my "friend" as we can chill, eat and socialise as well as having "fun"

No rush and all warm and cosy.

I also love hotel /travel lodge meets tho dont have them now...

Can have a wicked time and no making the bed.

pure decadence

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By *cottishcoupleCouple
over a year ago

near irvine, ayrshire

we prefer home meets then u dont have the uncertainty of "is she bi" lol means when someones comin to your home u know what to expect before they arrive

sayin that still nosey about some clubs just incase we are missing somethin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we prefer home meets then u dont have the uncertainty of "is she bi" lol means when someones comin to your home u know what to expect before they arrive

sayin that still nosey about some clubs just incase we are missing somethin

The new club in Gloucester Club Mystique is ace in this regard as its a hotel as well so if you find somebody you really hit it off with when the club closes you can take them back to your room for the rest of the night and even get them a full English breakfast the next morning. Cant fault that

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By *imnher2Woman
over a year ago

watford

we only ever had home meets but not ours as we got kids we find them intimate.. but would like 2 try out the clubs.. maybe 1 day lol

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