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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just been watching a you tube vid under Pedestrian Question - Have You Slept with Over or Under 6 Women,

they recon the average man sleeps with 6 people in his life time,

i was totally shocked with the 6 number,

i personally recon that number is bull as i slept with over 6 people the year i lost the big V.

its obvious we on this site have slept with a lot more than that, myself having slept with over 100 women and new to this site and swinging. i dont keep count anymore but know its not over 150 (yet)

some people might not want to say and some probably cant say due to losing count, but how many do you recon???

steven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's private

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Definitely more than 6!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't keep count, but I know its less than ten.

yours,

Mr Boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 ?

Jeez it wasn't that long ago i would have regarded that as a bad night

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"6 ?

Jeez it wasn't that long ago i would have regarded that as a bad night "

hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not telling u ,dnt put notches on bed post ,,,,,,,

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I do know the number, location, name and what we did that made it memorable. I'm too gentlemanly to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slept with ?, the one , that will be Mrs J.

Shagged , well that's a different question.

Until we started swinging three or four years ago Mrs J was the only woman I had had sex with, we married young.

Since then, hmm, nearly thirty I suppose .

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By *aster of a mindCouple
over a year ago

York

(male) Well I can tell you that before we started swinging, it was 5......and here we are a year later and that number has risen to more than 5

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to work away alot. Remember being up in the highlands working and slept with 6 in one week so I have to say it's proabally incorrect. I know for a fact both my sons have

And most freinds have so needs updated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its definately more than 6 t hats probably one night for me !!! , bad poppy xx

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

not telling

it mite shock you

but will say ,its a lot more than 6

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just googled it and says,

Average man has 9 sexual partners in lifetime, women have 4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just googled it and says,

Average man has 9 sexual partners in lifetime, women have 4"

well i well over that in a night usually .poppyxc

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Next question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just googled it and says,

Average man has 9 sexual partners in lifetime, women have 4"

Depends where you look, I've just read women have more sexual partners than men.

Personally don't think a survey will tell us truths.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

do my left and right hands count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not telling u ,dnt put notches on bed post ,,,,,,, "

Can't count the notches on mine as I haven't got one...take from that what you will!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just googled it and says,

Average man has 9 sexual partners in lifetime, women have 4well i well over that in a night usually .poppyxc "

You are a team player Poppy

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By *goodlengthMan
over a year ago

near Trowbridge

I wouldn't say I am too far from normal / average but I have slept with 9.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 and a half

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"just googled it and says,

Average man has 9 sexual partners in lifetime, women have 4"

Thats probably true, though sexual conquests is probably different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just googled it and says,

Average man has 9 sexual partners in lifetime, women have 4well i well over that in a night usually .poppyxc

You are a team player Poppy "

i sure am a tag team.lol.poppyxx

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I don't sleep with. Usaually they manage to go home before falling asleep or i sneak out their house before they wake up...

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By *ong_legs2Couple
over a year ago

essex

I've only slept with 2,' lost it to Jane n then we had our first ffm before we joined fabs

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few answers in here that would do a politician proud.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"not telling u ,dnt put notches on bed post ,,,,,,, "

Just chiselled another notch tonight and now the fecking bed's collapsed

Getting on for 150 by now I think, was well into the 20s before I got out of my teen years, then marriage with only about a dozen opportunities for flings and one nighters then I was the gay divorcee and discovered swinging as opposed to catting around -with the exception of a coupla years relationship with a tosser, been happy as a pig in muck ever since

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"I wouldn't say I am too far from normal / average but I have slept with 9. "
Jeez I've done at least 100 no joke...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not many

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"not telling u ,dnt put notches on bed post ,,,,,,, "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *leasurehunters7Couple
over a year ago

Youghal, Co. Cork

I've only ever 'slept' with maybe 6 men but I've shagged an awful lot more than that and no, I dont know the number...many weren't worth remembering although of course I'm not referring to anyone that we have met through this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slept with, as in more than sex is 4 I would think, as to had sex with OMG it must be hundreds. Sounds shallow but I used to go to a lot of gg parties so they all add up.

I am so going to regret this post in the morning!

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By *andd2Couple
over a year ago

The Dungeon

I (Mr) was a redcoat for 5 holiday seasons, 1 as a bluecoat, average 44 weeks per season, at least 1 girl per week and that was before I met the wife at Butlins as a bar manager so I had a pretty good track record as that. So no real idea but more than a few hundred. I won't regret this post in the morning

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By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

Not enough yet.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I've shagged more than I've slept with

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

I've only slept with one woman, all the others (probably 50+) kept me up all night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am still a virgin, not sure where my kids came from lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That must be guys who married young and dont swing but even then i find that hard to believe. My number was higher than that when i meet my hubby and i was 20 then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only gaz till a few months ago now 18 men 4 women.

Gaz is on 8

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

ive had 3 serious men in my life (41) and my partner has had 2 ..had it not been for swinging we would look like complete light weights if 6 is the average

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 ish!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where do you find these 6 women....... Still a virgin myself!! lol.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House


"I (Mr) was a redcoat for 5 holiday seasons, 1 as a bluecoat, average 44 weeks per season, at least 1 girl per week and that was before I met the wife at Butlins as a bar manager so I had a pretty good track record as that. So no real idea but more than a few hundred. I won't regret this post in the morning"

Slut!! That's why I love him the naughty boy xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That must be guys who married young and dont swing but even then i find that hard to believe. My number was higher than that when i meet my hubby and i was 20 then "

Remember half the world has arranged marriages and only sleep with that person. So I can believe that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well mine is a few more the 6

I think that most normal people when asked will pick 6 as a number... Because it's more than 5... But not so close to double figures..

I remember telling an ex I'd only had 6 partners and him being horrified that it was double his tally...

I've not been keeping count this year though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Lauz) have lost count. But am unwilling to say what number it could be close to

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By *aptzogMan
over a year ago

Ledbury

Not enough lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lost count a long time ago. Started having regular sex in Singapore, Malaya, and the Philippines at the age of 14. One of the advantages of an expat upbringing, and attending the co-ed International Schools in the Far East. And I've just kept on since, working, and having terrific sexual relationships all over the world. If I had to guess, way over a hundred 121 relationships, and more than twenty MFM and FFM relationships. If this seems excessive, its actually not ... in the Far East, Middle East, North America and Africa, active sex with multiple partners is the norm.


"just been watching a you tube vid under Pedestrian Question - Have You Slept with Over or Under 6 Women,

they recon the average man sleeps with 6 people in his life time,

i was totally shocked with the 6 number,

i personally recon that number is bull as i slept with over 6 people the year i lost the big V.

its obvious we on this site have slept with a lot more than that, myself having slept with over 100 women and new to this site and swinging. i dont keep count anymore but know its not over 150 (yet)

some people might not want to say and some probably cant say due to losing count, but how many do you recon???

steven"

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By *inful_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Fact is, people on here aren't average

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enough any volunteers pm me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None were both still virgins lol

The problem with the statistics they use for research is where do they get them from? If you go and ask people in the street will they tell the truth or lower it? If you ask at sexual health clinic or on a swingers site , those people aren't the "average" representation, then you have to add age demagraphic into that? Most people my age I know lost the big v at 13 so that changes things .... It's a hard cruel world servays can be manipulated to say whatever you wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh only 1,slept with,my ex wife.

But had sex with more than 30 ,both sexes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say more than 40 less than 100

Not ever thought to keep numbers I just shag the guys I like the look of, mind I know how many women there have been, oh who am I trying to kid, it's over 10 and it's the jacuzzis fault!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Away from fab 60ish, meets from fab 2 I do not do well on here haha

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Until a couple of years ago it was only 9 or 10...

It's considerably more than that now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think fab is representative of the whole

world. I suspect out of the few billion men on the planet, 6 is about right, or possibly high. If

we are just considering this little this island of ours, 6 may be too low.

Personally I lost count years ago. I am not especially proud of it though lol.

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By *tomComMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

My partner and myself tried to work it out the other day.. Is it a bad thing that we was not able to? We even had trouble get it to the closest 10.. Is that bad ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it stands just short of 10.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before joining this site it was about 35 .now I couldnt say . I have so many great meets off here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're what we call in data analysis outliers, swingers are statistically unusual, what average do they refer to, mean or median, with the amount of people who married young in the population or have only had long term relationships I could maybe believe the mean is 6, certainly ican believe that the median number is 6.

I think I've probably had sex with somewhere between 50-55 women and a similar number of men.

Again I am statistically unusual, I do think people of my generation (28) will have a higher average than other generations as a whole but an average is over all living people.

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By *hynottsCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

Only one at a time lol

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Neither of us have kept a count - we both did when younger but both gave up. If you don't know their names it's easy to forget.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

It was getting to about 100 in my 30s - I reckon it's 200+ by now. Not really sure to be honest. Never bothered counting as it's really not that important. I have just been lucky to meet a lot of really great guys - some not so great but not many of them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That must be guys who married young and dont swing but even then i find that hard to believe. My number was higher than that when i meet my hubby and i was 20 then

Remember half the world has arranged marriages and only sleep with that person. So I can believe that! "

true...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

made love to under 6, but had sex with well into three figures, but not sure on exact numbers x

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

6 is a low number - they must have interviewed some of the men in front of their current partners! haha

Me, I have never kept count, but certainly more than 6, 6 to the power of something else is more accurate.

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By *heffmistressWoman
over a year ago

sheffield

When I am in "whore mode" the most is 10 in 2 hours. Last night 4 fucked me in a hour. Sometimes a girl just has to whore herself

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By *aster of a mindCouple
over a year ago

York


"When I am in "whore mode" the most is 10 in 2 hours. Last night 4 fucked me in a hour. Sometimes a girl just has to whore herself "

Just love an honest lady just read your profile and LMFAO...straight talking Domme

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I am in "whore mode" the most is 10 in 2 hours. Last night 4 fucked me in a hour. Sometimes a girl just has to whore herself "

Love the attitude... But does that make me a super whore lol..

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By *heffmistressWoman
over a year ago

sheffield


"When I am in "whore mode" the most is 10 in 2 hours. Last night 4 fucked me in a hour. Sometimes a girl just has to whore herself

Love the attitude... But does that make me a super whore lol.. "

Is that a challenge? Lol. When men fuck everything that moves they are studs, when we do it we're sluts/whores. Personally I love being a whore

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By *its The Spot AlotMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I tend to go for quality over quantity but did start with counting in letters a-b-c-d etc then when got round to A again didnt bother anymore.

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By *heffmistressWoman
over a year ago

sheffield


"When I am in "whore mode" the most is 10 in 2 hours. Last night 4 fucked me in a hour. Sometimes a girl just has to whore herself

Just love an honest lady just read your profile and LMFAO...straight talking Domme "

Has to be 'straight' talking as, sadly, the site is full of people who think the are 'special' and therefore can ignore what I say on profile. That aside, I do bite!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I am in "whore mode" the most is 10 in 2 hours. Last night 4 fucked me in a hour. Sometimes a girl just has to whore herself

Love the attitude... But does that make me a super whore lol..

Is that a challenge? Lol. When men fuck everything that moves they are studs, when we do it we're sluts/whores. Personally I love being a whore "

I can raise your ten to 36 in two hours.. but I agree... but personally I'm a whore and proud... But these days I'm tending to have 5 or 6 good guys for two hours or so. Lol

I've got picky... Well until the mood takes me.

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We're virgins

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm about average, 7.5 for me....fuck, wrong thread! Sorry!

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By *wencatWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"just googled it and says,

Average man has 9 sexual partners in lifetime, women have 4"

thats confirmed it I not average whoooops oh well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excluding my necrophylia adventures 32

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

166 mates and i use to target 6 telephone numbers on a saturday night then do shagging in the week.early on i realised what a sunroof is for. Lady sat on me in car. Her head bobbing in and out of sunroof

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Well the OP obviously decided that they did not like the numbers. Was so shocked they left the site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one or two ish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped counting a while back but I know its around 300. I'm in no way ashamed of that either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just been watching a you tube vid under Pedestrian Question - Have You Slept with Over or Under 6 Women,

they recon the average man sleeps with 6 people in his life time,

i was totally shocked with the 6 number,

i personally recon that number is bull as i slept with over 6 people the year i lost the big V.

its obvious we on this site have slept with a lot more than that, myself having slept with over 100 women and new to this site and swinging. i dont keep count anymore but know its not over 150 (yet)

some people might not want to say and some probably cant say due to losing count, but how many do you recon???

steven"

6 yes but thats in 1 night

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By *pikey34Man
over a year ago

Merstham

wow 6 is a very low number in this day and age im well over that number so not in the average

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I am in "whore mode" the most is 10 in 2 hours. Last night 4 fucked me in a hour. Sometimes a girl just has to whore herself

Love the attitude... But does that make me a super whore lol..

Is that a challenge? Lol. When men fuck everything that moves they are studs, when we do it we're sluts/whores. Personally I love being a whore

I can raise your ten to 36 in two hours.. but I agree... but personally I'm a whore and proud... But these days I'm tending to have 5 or 6 good guys for two hours or so. Lol

I've got picky... Well until the mood takes me. "

your not a whore, you just crave sex like some people crave chocolate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stopped counting a while back but I know its around 300. I'm in no way ashamed of that either."
we knew there something we liked when we were in Aberdare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well the OP obviously decided that they did not like the numbers. Was so shocked they left the site! "
he gone to do a re count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself and ju were having this conversation only last week and it transpires that she has slept with more women than I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost count at 60 but that was a year and lots and lots of sex ago. I imagine the number is close to 120 ish now

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

there are some tall stories in this thread

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Amy = 7.

Vince = 20-something pre-Fab (As he's a whore, lol). x

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By *heffmistressWoman
over a year ago

sheffield

My aim is 100 men this year. Currently standing at 31 since Jan. Bugger I have to average over 10 a month, oh dear what will I do?!

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Couple of hundred I think (mr new)

Although an awful lot of those would back in the day doing gay porn

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By *amslam1000Man
over a year ago

willenhall

me well over 100 women

and

way over 300 men

got to well over 30 when still at school

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