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Why Do Some Meets Insist On Bareback Or No Meet

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By *anks101 OP   Man
41 weeks ago

Blackburn

Am I the only one that feels some kinda way when a certain meets insist a meet should be bareback or no meet…. As mush as we all are having fun and all, I still believe we should be more careful and not just go bareback on anyone we meet on here.. this is sickening to me !

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By *igboobstCouple
41 weeks ago

barrow

That's what they like,.not for us personally but if thats what they are into thats what they are into........their choice at the end of the day

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By *ucka39Man
41 weeks ago

Newcastle

I was asked they said they didn't mind if I did and I said I'm happy sticking my glove on and we continued to enjoy the playful stuff

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By *anks101 OP   Man
41 weeks ago

Blackburn

That's what they like,.not for us personally but if thats what they are into thats what they are into........their choice at the end of the day

Yes sure you are right but then to me I feel there’s more to that, cos I personally feel some people might have some STIs and all. Was just wondering thou

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By *anks101 OP   Man
41 weeks ago

Blackburn

I was asked they said they didn't mind if I did and I said I'm happy sticking my glove on and we continued to enjoy the playful stuff

Lucky you, I have had a few that will play safe but the more I get lately will say bareback or no meet! It scares me thou lol

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

First time no, if regular she happy too

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By *una_RaineCouple
41 weeks ago

worcester

That’s strange, every single person I’ve spoken to in club or on apps/sites always play safe, I’ve not met one yet that has said bareback or no meet

Suppose it’s just their preference because of how it feels or allergies/sensitivities but I’d hope they at least prove everyone has recently been tested

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By *anks101 OP   Man
41 weeks ago

Blackburn

That’s strange, every single person I’ve spoken to in club or on apps/sites always play safe, I’ve not met one yet that has said bareback or no meet

Suppose it’s just their preference because of how it feels or allergies/sensitivities but I’d hope they at least prove everyone has recently been tested

You have a good point and I will play Bareback if I know we all are clean but risking my life just for some fun is not worth it for me. I’ve met a few couples and ladies that insist Bare or nothing! Just wondering 🤔

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By *una_RaineCouple
41 weeks ago

worcester

I’m curious to see the comments of those people, I’m curious what their reasons are

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Bolton

Because it's their kink?

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By *all me FlikWoman
41 weeks ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

The only guaranteed safe sex is no sex at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

We would prefer the people who want bareback to be this honest and up front then the people who want the same thing can get in touch and those that don't like ourselves can keep clear everyone gets what they Want

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By *llGoodFun76Couple
41 weeks ago

Angus

We all make our own choices, respect that xx

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By *tlanshiaWoman
41 weeks ago

Chatham

Just means your not compatible, not worth thinking more about.

If they want to be riddled let them at it.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Chichester


"Am I the only one that feels some kinda way when a certain meets insist a meet should be bareback or no meet…. As mush as we all are having fun and all, I still believe we should be more careful and not just go bareback on anyone we meet on here.. this is sickening to me ! "

It’s called preference They are not for you so you woukd not be meeting them

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
41 weeks ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

We are a bareback couple. It’s our preference simple as that. We do not play with lots of different people

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By *asher11Man
40 weeks ago

mkt harboro

Lets face it mate if you only want safe sex why do you contact couples who want it bare just read the profile first before sending random messages

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
40 weeks ago

Manchester


"Am I the only one that feels some kinda way when a certain meets insist a meet should be bareback or no meet…. As mush as we all are having fun and all, I still believe we should be more careful and not just go bareback on anyone we meet on here.. this is sickening to me ! "

Here is a suggestion. You avoid bareback couples and we will avoid you.

If you find it “sickening” then that’s the obvious solution.

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By *eavy Metal BallzMan
40 weeks ago

Birmingham


"The only guaranteed safe sex is no sex at all."

True, but you can have safer sex

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By *w funwifeWoman
40 weeks ago

near taunton


"Am I the only one that feels some kinda way when a certain meets insist a meet should be bareback or no meet…. As mush as we all are having fun and all, I still believe we should be more careful and not just go bareback on anyone we meet on here.. this is sickening to me ! "

because its thier choice as its your choiice to play safer ... thiers no suck thing as safe sex just safer ... and after being on this scene a long long time id say ive seen more couples/woman go bare than safe way way more..

me i test every 6 weeks im lucky as i do some work for a couple of sexual health charities so easy access .. too many think that its safe sex but its really not its reduced risk sex a rubber on a cock means youve made your cock safer but what about your mouth or any other parts of your body that comes in contact plus i find more bareback people get tested than thos safe sexers as they think they dont need too but yes they do..

its a choice if you dont agree then thats easy look for those who suit your choice

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By *ustus5555Woman
40 weeks ago

Nottingham

It's thier choice. It's a great filter for me tho. Never have, never will.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"Am I the only one that feels some kinda way when a certain meets insist a meet should be bareback or no meet…. As mush as we all are having fun and all, I still believe we should be more careful and not just go bareback on anyone we meet on here.. this is sickening to me ! "

Don't meet them then!!!

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By *untimeswithme69Man
40 weeks ago

London

That's their preference and choice, glad they are communicating it so that they find like minded people to enjoy that with and filter out those who aren't compatible. I see no problem.

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By *issmorganWoman
40 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It's up to each individual, but if they're upfront, at least they are giving people the choice.

I don't do bare, except with my partner and profiles full of people having bare sex do put me off.

I've had men try for bare in the past, trying to tell me they never usually do it and wouldnt with others. Yeah, I was born yesterday lol.

Just do what's right for you and avoid those who play differently to you op.

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By *emptme1993Man
40 weeks ago

manchester

Each to their own, I only do condom unless it’s with a trusted partner and they don’t come around often

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By *plelikesfun123Couple
39 weeks ago

Basildon

I think if you go to a meet where it’s made clear from the start that it’s bareback, then by choosing to attend you’ve essentially made that decision for yourself. What feels more problematic is when it isn’t mentioned beforehand, and in the heat of the moment the pressure is on, that’s a very different situation.

We’ve been swinging for many years and have had encounters both with and without condoms, to be honest we prefer bareback and creampies any day, but to manage the risks when we decide to swing, we test through the NHS every six weeks and we’re both on PrEP. We’ve also used instant tests from Amazon as an extra layer of reassurance before some private meets.

Something worth keeping in mind: you can still catch STIs through oral and manual play. We’ve often seen guys stroking themselves, with precum or semen on their hands, and then immediately fingering a woman. This happens a lot at clubs, house parties, etc. In reality, that’s just another form of bareback, even if penetration is covered. So while condoms are a good step, the truth is that most of us are probably exposed to some level of risk anyway.

For that reason, when swinging our approach is to use PrEP, stay on top of regular testing, and be realistic about the fact that no method is 100% safe. It’s about making informed choices and managing risk in a way that works for you.

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By *ilthy couple 111Couple
39 weeks ago

boston

Its bareback or no meet for us

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By *oxy-RedWoman
39 weeks ago

pink panther territory

Each to there own,but it's a huge red flag and a no from me

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By *ilverfox for youMan
39 weeks ago

Hull

It’s their choice !! If you don’t want it then just move on !!

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
39 weeks ago

wonderland.


"Am I the only one that feels some kinda way when a certain meets insist a meet should be bareback or no meet…. As mush as we all are having fun and all, I still believe we should be more careful and not just go bareback on anyone we meet on here.. this is sickening to me ! "
For us it just means that they arent compatible with us. Doesn't sicken us, just isnt for us.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Because some people like it 🤷‍♀️ ... its not for me but each to there own.

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By *elly1012Woman
38 weeks ago

houston

yes, because some people love it, and its a must.

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