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By *mandamark99 OP   Couple
6 days ago

Bridgnorth

We began our cuckolding journey about 3 years ago when listening to podcast about an English couple in the lifestyle gave us the confidence to turn a long held and shared fantasy into reality.

It took a very long search to find the right man for our first meet, and although he was a really nice guy, the chemistry just wasn't there for Amanda, so that was a one off.

The next man we met became Amanda's first long term regular. We had explained that we didn't want any cuckold humiliation for Mark, and he turned out to be not only a very skilled lover for Amanda, but someone we considered a friend.

It became clear though, after a while, that although the build-up and the afterwards were very erotic for Mark, the actual event itself was much less so, in fact he found it quite dull. After much discussion we decided that the lack of any humiliation was at least one of the causes of the problem.

So, we are now looking for that very rare beast, an experienced man who can provide just the right amount of humiliation for Mark (who is naturally dominant himself) to get the cuckold buzz he needs. It isn't a one size fits all cuckold arrangement, and it will require working on and developing. We are not looking for a bull type, Amanda has no interest at all in being dominated. Does that man exist? We hope so, but time will tell.

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
6 days ago

Rotherham

Although I have been in two cuckold relationships we never had this problem as both myself and my girlfriends were/are submissive

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By *urvy and CuckyCouple
6 days ago

Cheltenham

Interesting to hear this as we had similar experiences. We would like to work towards my husband not actually being there to heighten his mental stimulation rather than simply being there to watch. That requires a lot of trust and connection with a bull though which we haven't yet found.

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By *mandamark99 OP   Couple
6 days ago

Bridgnorth

Happy to discuss this further with you. Being excluded from the room didn't do it for Mark either, it needs to be a more explicitly cuckold scenario.

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By *he-Travelling GentlemanMan
6 days ago

Traveling

In the roll with a long time couple I play with it took time. First he was there and watched then slowly we moved him to corner and her describing what we were doing in detail. We then moved him outside the door and now he's not aloud in the house bar to prep her and for clean up afterwards. The last session we actually made videos on Snapchat she could send him diffrent snippets of the night outside the dynamic after a discussion its absolutely heightened his enjoyability of it all. Just have to remember every person has there own shape so no one solution fits all its about working together with someone yiu can trust to come up with a creative solution.

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By *mandamark99 OP   Couple
6 days ago

Bridgnorth


"In the roll with a long time couple I play with it took time. First he was there and watched then slowly we moved him to corner and her describing what we were doing in detail. We then moved him outside the door and now he's not aloud in the house bar to prep her and for clean up afterwards. The last session we actually made videos on Snapchat she could send him diffrent snippets of the night outside the dynamic after a discussion its absolutely heightened his enjoyability of it all. Just have to remember every person has there own shape so no one solution fits all its about working together with someone yiu can trust to come up with a creative solution. "

You are totally right. Every person/couple is different in their needs/wants. It all takes time. Unfortunately most men who contact us either just want a shag or they want the porn version of cuckolding.

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By *he-Travelling GentlemanMan
6 days ago

Traveling


"In the roll with a long time couple I play with it took time. First he was there and watched then slowly we moved him to corner and her describing what we were doing in detail. We then moved him outside the door and now he's not aloud in the house bar to prep her and for clean up afterwards. The last session we actually made videos on Snapchat she could send him diffrent snippets of the night outside the dynamic after a discussion its absolutely heightened his enjoyability of it all. Just have to remember every person has there own shape so no one solution fits all its about working together with someone yiu can trust to come up with a creative solution.

You are totally right. Every person/couple is different in their needs/wants. It all takes time. Unfortunately most men who contact us either just want a shag or they want the porn version of cuckolding. "

100% its took a long time to create and curate the right likes and you are very right porn has absolutely destroyed it with men thinking they can just walk in shouting at any cuck and he will instantly be like yess sir and roll over isn't how it works! Weird that alot of the time people cant distinguish between reality and porn🙃

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By *wguy100Man
6 days ago

Exeter


"In the roll with a long time couple I play with it took time. First he was there and watched then slowly we moved him to corner and her describing what we were doing in detail. We then moved him outside the door and now he's not aloud in the house bar to prep her and for clean up afterwards. The last session we actually made videos on Snapchat she could send him diffrent snippets of the night outside the dynamic after a discussion its absolutely heightened his enjoyability of it all. Just have to remember every person has there own shape so no one solution fits all its about working together with someone yiu can trust to come up with a creative solution.

You are totally right. Every person/couple is different in their needs/wants. It all takes time. Unfortunately most men who contact us either just want a shag or they want the porn version of cuckolding.

100% its took a long time to create and curate the right likes and you are very right porn has absolutely destroyed it with men thinking they can just walk in shouting at any cuck and he will instantly be like yess sir and roll over isn't how it works! Weird that alot of the time people cant distinguish between reality and porn🙃"

100%

It’s all about the dynamic that is different in every circumstance based on my experience of helping couples.

Happy to chat - DMs are open

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By *omis.69Man
6 days ago

Birmingham

I believe that it has to work for all parties involved, if it’s not working for one, then it’s not working for all

I have dm’d you in more detail

Mark

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By *tag and curvey HotwifeCouple
6 days ago

herts

Hubby is an extremely into being a cuck and likes the humiliation but with struggled to find a set up. I find it hard to be mean and humiliate him even though he asks for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 days ago

As a ex cuck only ex as my partner passed away . I never found the 3rd wheel humiliating me exciting , however I did when my partner did it telling me I wasnt man enough to satisfy her or my manhood was tiny loved holding her hand while she was been serviced or looking into her eyes . She also liked me to suck I hated it still do but did it because she wanted me to do so , what I did enjoy though was the final clean up and hearing her tell me I was only good with my tongue

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By *iganpairCouple
6 days ago

Wigan, Lancs.

The humiliation is a massive part in our cuckold relationship

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By *wguy100Man
3 days ago

Exeter

DMs are open

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By *aughtynice100Couple
3 days ago

Aylesbury

We have a slightly different arrangement , me and my wife both like being submissive, we take turns , we have a regular trusted bi guy and as he’s trusted he doesn’t wear a condom with my wife , on the occasions that I ( the bi bottom husband ) am submissive my wife and our fb decide how I’m involved , sometimes she will watch him fuck me and when they decide to fuck I’m there to give oral to both of them and clean up duties afterwards, when she is submissive we both fuck and spank the wife , I love watching him fuck my wife hard , as he is younger than us he can go much longer and harder , our favourite thing is fucklicking , me and wife in 69 with her on top and as I’m licking her our fb comes up behind her and fucks her , I get a great view and alternate between licking his balls and licking her pussy , sometimes he comes out and I give his cock a suck before guiding his cock back into my wife , I continue licking her pussy as he fills my wife with his cum and when he pulls out my wife loves grinding her spunky pussy all over my face

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By *mandamark99 OP   Couple
3 days ago

Bridgnorth

I think it will become a bigger part of ours.

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