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"Looking for ways to improve my profile for better responses? I struggle to get replies from women...(not men though as they message me endlessly but unfortunately I don't swing that way) Is my looks and such too below average to be on here? I do okay on dating apps just struggle on here" Personally for me (and everybody is different) the pics of you actually ‘in’ somebody else doesn’t do anything - so I would move that to friends only.. (but some people may enjoy that?) Your bio doesn’t really say much of what you want or are looking for and is quite short (abit half arsed) So if you were to message unless it was a stand out message I wouldn’t reply? (We do get an awful lot of messages - it’s really not to be rude) | |||
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"Looking for ways to improve my profile for better responses? I struggle to get replies from women...(not men though as they message me endlessly but unfortunately I don't swing that way) Is my looks and such too below average to be on here? I do okay on dating apps just struggle on here" It’s not like I’m a FabGuru or something but I’ve found out that if you’d add more pictures of showing yourself it will definitely strike more attention. You’ve got an amazing physique so try showing it off a little bit more and tease the ladies. Take sometime read some other profiles and add more to your bio. It’s basically nothing there. Let them know who you are and what to expect. As a wise woman (can’t remember who) on one of the similar forums said “Think of your profile as selling yourself and seeing if you’d buy you if you are looking for someone.” I hope it helps  | |||
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"Cheers brother, Great advice! Will work on that 👌" Hiya pal If you use the reply+quote per comment it helps who you are referring to | |||
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"So my first question would be do the ladies pictured have consent for their images to be shown? How can I check that? I’m a bit of a stickler for consent so this would be an issue for me You’ve got a great body, get some more pics up of you. Think teasing and sensual rather than BAM here’s my penis! Clothed, nude, different angles, good lighting. Have fun playing around with it. Then your bio. It tells us what you want which is good but nothing about what you bring to the table? If in doubt …If your best mate was acting wingman for you, what would they say about you? Write that down " Hey, yes all consented. I have a gallery of all consented pics from swinging over the years. No phones in the room is person denies pics/vids I'll work on my pics and without the penis haha I can bring effort to the table but not bringing 8+ inches stallion unfortunately🤣 Like the wingman thing, I'll have a think on that.. thanks for the reply | |||
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"Cheers brother, Great advice! Will work on that 👌 Hiya pal If you use the reply+quote per comment it helps who you are referring to "Legend! Thought I was doing something wrong | |||
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"A forums advice try using the Reply +quote button 😂 " Thank 🙏 | |||
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