FabSwingers.com forum: What is a player....?

By *il-widge OP Man
2 weeks ago

Stone Staffordshire

Met several people over the last few months, and the vast majority on numerous occasions. I'm always open and honest about what I'm doing and who I'm seeing, but if I dont see one of my earlier meets as often as I used to, due to meeting new friends, does this make me a player....? Having googled the definition (dont judge...🤦‍♂️😂) I'm like wtf....no I dont play mind games or false promises I'm honest with everyone, granted I am like a kid in a sweet shop so making friends on a fairly regular basis but mind games are definitely not being played....🤷‍♂️😕🙄

By *riel13Woman
2 weeks ago

Northampton

You don't owe anyone, that you are not in some kind of relationship with, anything. Don't worry about it... If you had made promises or not stuck to some kind of arrangement then that might be different

By *heOldFuckMan
2 weeks ago

London

"Met several people over the last few months, and the vast majority on numerous occasions. I'm always open and honest about what I'm doing and who I'm seeing, but if I dont see one of my earlier meets as often as I used to, due to meeting new friends, does this make me a player....? Having googled the definition (dont judge...🤦‍♂️😂) I'm like wtf....no I dont play mind games or false promises I'm honest with everyone, granted I am like a kid in a sweet shop so making friends on a fairly regular basis but mind games are definitely not being played....🤷‍♂️😕🙄"

Im exactly the same. If you are honest and upfront with people then you are not playing them. Its your life, no-one else's