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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am the female half of Rachel and Andy, I do all the arrangements for meets, messages and forum posts here on Fab.

I'm surprised by the amount of messages I receive from males explicitly writing to Andy telling him what they would like to me and how they should go about it, stuff along the lines off "I can come over and we can take turns fucking her all night" etc.

Is this because with most couples on here its the male doing the leg work or is it just assumption?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's the assumption, we both talk but the wife arranges the meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am the female half of Rachel and Andy, I do all the arrangements for meets, messages and forum posts here on Fab.

I'm surprised by the amount of messages I receive from males explicitly writing to Andy telling him what they would like to me and how they should go about it, stuff along the lines off "I can come over and we can take turns fucking her all night" etc.

Is this because with most couples on here its the male doing the leg work or is it just assumption?"

We both do the leg work lol, sam is just as much a perv as me so she likes to have a look and send messages too If im honest though its her call at the end of the day and personally the women are alwasy the ones who make the ultimate decision

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Assumption I guess that it's the m...

We both log in so take it in turns to chat/message - depends on who's horniest I guess, lol.

He probably arranges more than I do, but i enjoy posting on the forums more than he does (f here)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs Spunky-Tits here - I do most of the messaging and OH reads them all to keep up to date. Then I let him know who to progress to "interview stage" so he arranges the meets. Works for us.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

its assumption, we get lots of messages saying things like "your Mrs is fit" or more explicit but they go straight in the bin, it shows what their attitude to women is.We also find that after an initial message to us both some people just talk to me (f) they also go straight in the bin.

Having said that we also get lots of messages from people who address us both the whole way through

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By *ILLY aka SirslagWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Prince Bishops

on my cpls profile i usually ans m/f cpl msgs but leave them for Mark to read and add to, single guys he does and leaves them for me to read he does all the arranging for meets etc and i do all the profile txt and meet posts once i have the relevent info xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"its assumption, we get lots of messages saying things like "your Mrs is fit" or more explicit but they go straight in the bin, it shows what their attitude to women is.We also find that after an initial message to us both some people just talk to me (f) they also go straight in the bin.

Having said that we also get lots of messages from people who address us both the whole way through "

that's exactly what I do.

If someone messages us and I like the sound of them I then show Andy before arranging a meet so I guess I do the screening lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if we get a message not addressed to us both then i will delete or not reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its assumption, we get lots of messages saying things like "your Mrs is fit" or more explicit but they go straight in the bin, it shows what their attitude to women is.We also find that after an initial message to us both some people just talk to me (f) they also go straight in the bin.

Having said that we also get lots of messages from people who address us both the whole way through "

Totally agree with this.

You also get this from couples too where the male half does all the messaging etc.

It goes to show their disrespect for their partner too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On our couples profile it says that I do most of the messaging and use the account the most. We've never had mail the same as you describe. Maybe we've been lucky, maybe it's because they know it's me on there not him. I don't know.

Some people are idiots. Thankfully the ones that show it in their first message makes it easier to avoid them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i understand fully what your on about i female hlf martine i read an replie an go in forums ,h goes on reads mesages an sees whats being said but im the one that replies an talks xx but its mostly men that replie

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By *wingersrus465Couple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"On our couples profile it says that I do most of the messaging and use the account the most. We've never had mail the same as you describe. Maybe we've been lucky, maybe it's because they know it's me on there not him. I don't know.

Some people are idiots. Thankfully the ones that show it in their first message makes it easier to avoid them. "

Same here, I do all the mail (Jill) although save most of the messages for Jack to read. He leaves it all to me!!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I deal with all messages on ours...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP: yes

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

I think there is a general (incorrect) assumption by single males that the male is always the driving force when it comes to swinging, probably based on lack of experience of the joys of having a partner who both wants it and is fine with saying she does. Guys do that, we are not as smart as you lot frankly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes its a case of the male half sending out the mails, actually flirting...then u do wonder why the whole communication breakdown appears when u start talking about meeting..and its not just newbies/unverifieds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Martyn do 99% of all messages and forum posts on the sites we are members of.

Reason being is that my gorgeous wife knows what we are and are not looking for and trusts my judgement in finding the fun we both seek together.

We do state this on our profile and to date no one seems to be bothered by it.

I do run all messages and interested people by her and we discuss who we would like to meet or not and we look at pics and profiles together.

Also as she hates computers and mobile phones then it's left to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its assumption, we get lots of messages saying things like "your Mrs is fit" or more explicit but they go straight in the bin, it shows what their attitude to women is.We also find that after an initial message to us both some people just talk to me (f) they also go straight in the bin.

Having said that we also get lots of messages from people who address us both the whole way through

Totally agree with this.

You also get this from couples too where the male half does all the messaging etc.

It goes to show their disrespect for their partner too.

Bit of a sweeping generalisation there..

Maybe the couple have an arrangement where he does the hunting, and therefore he is speaking in the singular? Ultimately they both have to agree.

Whats the problem if the gent states "hi its fred here" ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I Martyn do 99% of all messages and forum posts on the sites we are members of.

Reason being is that my gorgeous wife knows what we are and are not looking for and trusts my judgement in finding the fun we both seek together.

We do state this on our profile and to date no one seems to be bothered by it.

I do run all messages and interested people by her and we discuss who we would like to meet or not and we look at pics and profiles together.

Also as she hates computers and mobile phones then it's left to me"

Lol you posted this as i was posting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both do it but it is mainly C as he has a little more time than me as I seem to be rushing about all the time. Whenever I finally sit down we go through things together and I catch up when I'm on my phone when I'm on the go.

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