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By *leafordian75 OP   Man
50 weeks ago

Newark

I have been on here on and off for around ten years now and never told anyone close to me.

At a dinner party last night, after two or three drinks too many, I appear to have 'outed' myself to some of my closest friends.

I'm just reading through the text message responses! they seem to fall into three categories:

1. Two messages from blokes asking details of what I've been up to.

2. Two messages from two other blokes saying that me revealing my lifestyle choice had made their wives feel very uncomfortable.

3. One message from the wife of a friend imploring me to practice safe sex.

Seems I'm the talk of my friendship group!!

Is it really THAT big a deal?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
50 weeks ago

East Sussex

To some people it is.

I think once you've been swinging for a while it's easy to forget we're in the minority and a very small one at that.

Oh and the men who say you made their wives feel uncomfortable probably mean you made *them* feel uncomfortable.

We wouldn't out ourselves deliberately because people judge

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By *ieandteaseMan
50 weeks ago

Wiltshire

That's your ex friendship group. Watch them disappear.

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By *samyhotwifeWoman
50 weeks ago

Dublin

I have a few close people that know. No problems from it

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Everyone at work

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Woman at asda checkout this morning.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
50 weeks ago

Round the bend

My sister and brother in law know

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago


"Woman at asda checkout this morning. "

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *leafordian75 OP   Man
50 weeks ago

Newark

This is a bit of a fear tbh. I think a couple of women believe I'm going to try and convince their hubbies to join the scene with me.

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By *bflirtyCouple
50 weeks ago

Leighton Buzzard

We've told most people we know and tell new acquaintances pretty early on because we don't want them to hear it from other people and think we were only talking them to try and chat them up.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

girlfriends mates know! one of them even joined herself.

my best mate knows, she likes to hear all the stories

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Both our friend groups know. Mrs friends are usually fascinated to hear aboutnour exploits and have even took them to a club to have a fun night out and meet our swing friends.

My mates are a mixed bag of jealousy, curiosity or thinking I'm a cuck 😂

But so far no negative reactions.

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By *eaches254Woman
50 weeks ago

Bury

I have 3 friends that are aware, thats it. 2 of them use fab themselves and one of them always asks me questions about it when he has had a drink.

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By *smith87Man
50 weeks ago

totton

I told my neighbour/friend I was on here and she was like erm I know. Loving your pics. We fucked every now and then till she got a boyfriend

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By *ittlemisshotbotCouple
50 weeks ago

near you

it’s a great way of finding out who your true friends are and seeing which ones are bigoted and fear you will fuck their husbands / wives and slowly disappear

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By *reasyMan
50 weeks ago

Caerphilly


"I have been on here on and off for around ten years now and never told anyone close to me.

At a dinner party last night, after two or three drinks too many, I appear to have 'outed' myself to some of my closest friends.

I'm just reading through the text message responses! they seem to fall into three categories:

1. Two messages from blokes asking details of what I've been up to.

2. Two messages from two other blokes saying that me revealing my lifestyle choice had made their wives feel very uncomfortable.

3. One message from the wife of a friend imploring me to practice safe sex.

Seems I'm the talk of my friendship group!!

Is it really THAT big a deal?"

Personally, I don’t think it is that big of a deal inside the lifestyle but accidentally talking about it can raise eyebrows amongst your vanilla friends

But you won’t be talk of the group for long something else will come along and take the focus but I bet there will be plenty of people in our group that will be curious and want to know more and want the detail details what you share those is entirely up to you

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By *tirlingMorty13Man
50 weeks ago

Herts / Essex borders

That's a lovely way in and conclusion 😊

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By *xoticFrolicMan
50 weeks ago

Gosport

I've told a few people. Mostly the response is amazement at how naughty so many of us are. Although I did pick those with a personality that wouldn't be offended.

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By *haosAfterDarkCouple
50 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

I have one close friend who's also on here and we share stories, then my husband had a couple of texts for two different pals who saw us on here 🤣

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By *ucka39Man
50 weeks ago

Newcastle

Most of my friends know and I'm a perv but are few of them on here also (friends)

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By *teve691000Man
50 weeks ago

West Midlands

I’ve told a few very close friends and my x wife who I used to swing with years ago

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By *ike_looking_forMan
50 weeks ago

Cumbria

only people I've met thos way or people I'll never meet again/don't cross any of my day job life

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

They all know and approve.

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