FabSwingers.com forum: Help and advice

By *ugden123 OP Man
51 weeks ago

manchester

Morning all

Just after a bit of advice please if that’s okay .. ladies and couples what do you expect or want to see in a message from a single guy .. my messages are polite respectful and I tell them about me ( can send privately to show you) they just get deleted or just read 9 times out of 10 without a reply

they aren’t crude there respectful and polite .. any help advice or hints where I’m going wrong .. it would be appreciated

Thanks fir taking the time to read this

By *issmorganWoman
51 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op, I look at the senders profile, before I decide to reply or delete.

If that's unappealing or shows they haven't read my profile, I'd delete.

For me, I prefer a message where u can tell they've read my bio and maybe referred to something in that, they genuinely liked.

By *rinceless PrincessWoman
51 weeks ago

"Hi op, I look at the senders profile, before I decide to reply or delete.

If that's unappealing or shows they haven't read my profile, I'd delete.

For me, I prefer a message where u can tell they've read my bio and maybe referred to something in that, they genuinely liked. "

This.

By *aGaGagging for itCouple
50 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Your post seems to imply an expectation that a well worded message is all that is required. You may not meet the recipient's criteria even if you think you do. There are many unstated preferences that people have. Bear in mind that single guys on here outnumber couples and females massively, so they have the pick of the bunch according to their preferences.

By *lternative lifestyleCouple
50 weeks ago

Louth

Simple - go to socials and clubs, then make real life connections. We only meet single guys we really know well.