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"why are you single?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
51 weeks ago

Am I the arsehole for being a little bit tired of being asked this.

Like what's wrong with wanting to be single?

It's almost like it's a bad thing to be single at my age and experiment sexually.

Anyway, I'm single because I have commitment issues.

If I was a bloke I'd get a pat on the back...

Do guys get this too?

What do you get asked often on here that just rubs you up the wrong way?

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By *ung-Horny-in-SelsdonMan
51 weeks ago

Selsdon

I hear you Clem Fandango.

But also yes, some people are happy single. I don't get why it's a big deal.

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
51 weeks ago

Bristol

If I was/looked like you and in your situation I'd be single too.

Enjoy life with zero commitment.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Yes OP, forever asked why I'm single. My well intentioned friends are forever trying to “fix” me up or persuade me to join a dating site. I get really peed off tbh.

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By *WANDTGCouple
51 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

We get asked from all those under our age preference " why won't you give me a chance, I'm mature for my age !"

Which in itself shows immaturity !!

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Every day the same question as well!

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Not on here i don't but by people who know me i have and do yes. I'm single and happy that way until i meet someone worth changing that for.... pretty simple really. Me being single bothers other people more than it does me it seems.

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By *tms1xCouple
51 weeks ago

Chelmsford


"Am I the arsehole for being a little bit tired of being asked this.

Like what's wrong with wanting to be single?

It's almost like it's a bad thing to be single at my age and experiment sexually.

Anyway, I'm single because I have commitment issues.

If I was a bloke I'd get a pat on the back...

Do guys get this too?

What do you get asked often on here that just rubs you up the wrong way?

"

If your single through you own choice then who’s to judge you. If you happy single then be single this ain’t no dress rehearsal you’ve one shot so enjoy

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By *ete hMan
51 weeks ago

Penzance

I don't really get asked much, but I'm terrible at relationships/commitment/ responsibility of all kinds so I guess people who know me well know not to ask and people who don't know me well just don't know my character. I have a very close female friend who wishes I was different but alas I can't really change who I am

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
51 weeks ago


"I hear you Clem Fandango.

But also yes, some people are happy single. I don't get why it's a big deal."

Sometimes I get a head tilt and a look of pity because I'm single and honestly I don't understand why either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
51 weeks ago


"If I was/looked like you and in your situation I'd be single too.

Enjoy life with zero commitment.

"

I'm not sure I understand, do I look single? I'm confused.

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By *ete hMan
51 weeks ago

Penzance


"I hear you Clem Fandango.

But also yes, some people are happy single. I don't get why it's a big deal.

Sometimes I get a head tilt and a look of pity because I'm single and honestly I don't understand why either. "

Bridget Jones influence I reckon

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By *sWyldWoman
51 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Why am I single, why am I here, are my boob's real, meet now?

All of those questions happen at least several times a week on fab.

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By *ee1967Man
51 weeks ago

rickmansworth

Cos ex gf inherited money lol

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Single by choice (which I reckon comes with age and experience)

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By *uvs2watchherCouple
51 weeks ago

newcastle

I have 3 cousins all single some kids but going out is the best time ever. They just tell men to eff off if the try to. Grab. Feeble etc. I could never do that! Xx

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By *entleman JayMan
51 weeks ago

Leeds

I love being single. I have no intention of changing that.

OP, you do you!

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

well, I see it depends on the people who ask you this, if they're genuinely sincere and just curious, it's fine, but if they have preconceived notions about the way things "should be", then I would probably get fed up about it too, and want them to have a deeper look into it all by themselves

it's totally up to you if you want to be single or not, there's no right or wrong answer to being single

it's only societies conditionings about relationships e.g. preconceived notions, expectations, assumptions, etc

if you want to be single and explore you're sexuality and have fun, that's up to you

both men and women deal with the same problem you're stating OP, it's not one sided

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By *ty31Man
51 weeks ago

NW London

Yes guys get this too. I actually think sometimes people mean it as a compliment?

I'll take it cos obviously I know I'm amazing and all that

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By *lubchuckerMan
51 weeks ago

South Oxfordshire

For me its a mix of circumstances and choice, sometimes i prefer being single but mostly hate being single

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By *ammy696969Woman
51 weeks ago

Stockport

Why are you single

Why do you like older guys

Feel like a parrot sometimes lol

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
51 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Are you meeting?

Or

Are you meeting yet?

.

My profile tag reads - "Not currently meeting".

Sometimes I ask if they've read my profile. "Yes", they say, but I thought I'd ask anyway. 🤬

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By *aulaxd2020TV/TS
51 weeks ago

Dudley

Single because I hate people making my life complicated

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
51 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I get asked it all the time even though the profile clarifies not single, just solo 💜

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Single because my wife wasn't keen on me fucking her sister.

Infairnes her sister wasn't that Impressed either.

Normally if a guy asks a woman "why are you single ?"

It's ment as a complement ie. How is such a catch like you still around.

If a woman asks a man, it's probably more ment as in " what is wrong with you"

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By *ildoshagginsWoman
51 weeks ago

South Wales

"I can't believe someone hasn't snapped you up yet"

"I don't know how you're still single"

Um, it's called free will....

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By *parkle1974Woman
51 weeks ago

Leeds

I get asked 2:

1. Are your tits real

2. Are you a real redhead

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
51 weeks ago

Aberdeen

I do get asked thos quite a bit

I haven't found anyone good enough is always my answer!

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