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How far does a bull go?

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By *acklongtongue OP   Man
51 weeks ago

solihull

Just wondering about the bull dynamic? Do they humiliate the guy? Completely dominate the female or are there degrees? I’ve seen couples even write ‘not into the bull dynamic’. Has just made me curious.

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By *ungLewisMan
51 weeks ago

West of Exeter

It varies with every couple and scenario.

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By *orphia2003Woman
51 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

It goes as far as whatever has been consented to beforehand. Every dynamic will be different.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

conquer and destroy…… make here yours…. that’s a bull

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By *ickedwillyCouple
51 weeks ago

Bangor

The wife calls the shots.

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By *he Black ExperienceMan
51 weeks ago

Kidlington


"Just wondering about the bull dynamic? Do they humiliate the guy? Completely dominate the female or are there degrees? I’ve seen couples even write ‘not into the bull dynamic’. Has just made me curious. "

This comes with discussions from Lloyds involved. Every couple is different and you'd be a fool to try the same thing with everyone thinking it will work.

Talk to the couple see what they enjoy, be sure to say what you enjoy, this is always important. You will find the more you play with them, and more comfortable you all feel the more boundaries are explored and pushed.

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By *couseTravisMan
51 weeks ago

liverpool

Iv been a bull a few times.

For me, it’s all down to the dynamic that the couple wants to experience.

Or in these cases, normally what the woman wants.

You can’t turn up acting all arrogant and super bossy, if that’s not what they want.

On the flip side you can’t turn up submissive if they want a more dominant experience.

So in my head, being a good bull is about accommodating the couples needs

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By *tanlee1512Man
51 weeks ago

Epsom

Establish what the couple wants and then go from there

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
51 weeks ago

Stoke

The term 'Bull' 🤮

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By *w funwifeWoman
51 weeks ago

near taunton

as a lifestyle cuckold couple we no longer look for bulls and we know lots of others who dont either ''the bull'' is not a true part of cuckolding its more of a porn addative therefor made popular by guys watching american porn 99% of guys who call themselves bulls in our experience are bulls but with the added shitter..

in real cuckold relationships the wife always has the full control of the cuck thats not to say the third cant humiliate the cuck in anyway but its down to the wife at the end of the day after all the wife and the cuck are the most important bit at all times the only time that will change is if there are regular guys whom we have known for years but thats different because of the relationship developed

porn / content makers / books and other platforoms have muddied the water on real cuckolding making people new to it think porn is right but its not

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By *oiluvfunMan
51 weeks ago

Penrith

I've met several cuckold couples over the years, but none of them used the term Bull. It's been either 'Lover' or 'Alpha male', as they (but usually the wife) wish...

Every cuckold couple has their own desires for how the arrangement plays out. I've been seeing the wife of one couple for over 8 years now, we've been to swinger clubs by ourselves as a couple, and have sex in their marital bed. I've never met cuck though, as it's her wish he doesn't know who I am, so that I could be any man he passes in the street......

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By *ampire69Man
51 weeks ago

Birmingham West Midlands

the dynamic varies from couple to couple the bull is principly there to service the wifes needs if done properly she is the one who calls the shots she is the one in control of the meeting

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By *onnie 90Woman
51 weeks ago

Leeds


"It goes as far as whatever has been consented to beforehand. Every dynamic will be different."

This ^

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By *yeSureMan
51 weeks ago

Glasgow

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By *yeSureMan
51 weeks ago

Glasgow


"It goes as far as whatever has been consented to beforehand. Every dynamic will be different."

As a cuck wannabe this sounds ideal

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By *rad670Man
51 weeks ago

South Lakes

I'd love to see the definition of bull, I don't like the term really unless it has a specific meaning and one task. I understand it to mean an extra male and if that's correct I think bull is a pretty crap term. A single male joining a couple is merely an extra, an extension to facilitate a fantsy for the couple really, it's a win win situation all round for single males as most of the time you discuss the scenario, set rules and boundaries and everything usualy goes well, everyone leaves happy. There are so many scenarios for the extra, I think there are a few common terms for different scenarios but when I hear bull it does kind of suggest some dominant rough play that I imagine could get out of hand at times. I could do with a dictionary myself to help with all the terms and like DDLG, CNC ect, Google doesn't always help.

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By *tannersMan
51 weeks ago

stanley

So, there was a young bull and an old bull stood on a hill they look down upon a field full of sexy looking heifers. The young bull says “ hey let’s sprint down there and hump some of those lovely heifers “ the old bull says “ no lad let’s walk slowly and hump all of them “

I’m assured by my farmer buddy that this is a true story

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By *e13guyMan
51 weeks ago

Lewisham

I don't know what a bull is for most people but I did have a wife guide me inside her husband once and get extremely aroused watching me having sex with him. Is that going too far? I guess you can judge yourself. I really enjoyed it

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By *ee And MikeCouple
51 weeks ago

Cannock

The term bull although used in cuckolding circles is really not a suitable term for couples like ourselves.

We look for males that can give Dee the sex she wants but also take her out for drinks, weekends away, stuff like that, of course as a cuck I like to watch but a lot of the time I’m not present.

Perhaps we are a bit weird in cuckolding circles with our dynamic but we aren’t just looking for a gut with a big cock that can come over and ‘destroy’ Dee, which is the usual ‘bull’ messages we get on here.

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By *avexxMan
51 weeks ago

cheshire

it goes no further than top field

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By *vonladMan
51 weeks ago

warwick

What a great explanation … I’ve helped couples enjoy the cuckold lifestyle over many years and it’s always been a role that is defined by them but not with a label but by actions

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By *vonladMan
51 weeks ago

warwick

Nothing weird in wanting exactly what you want from the experience

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By *poolGuyMan
51 weeks ago

Liverpool

As already stated it'll vary with different people. Communicate and find out. Remember it's all in context and only a role being played.

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By *vonladMan
51 weeks ago

warwick


"as a lifestyle cuckold couple we no longer look for bulls and we know lots of others who dont either ''the bull'' is not a true part of cuckolding its more of a porn addative therefor made popular by guys watching american porn 99% of guys who call themselves bulls in our experience are bulls but with the added shitter..

in real cuckold relationships the wife always has the full control of the cuck thats not to say the third cant humiliate the cuck in anyway but its down to the wife at the end of the day after all the wife and the cuck are the most important bit at all times the only time that will change is if there are regular guys whom we have known for years but thats different because of the relationship developed

porn / content makers / books and other platforoms have muddied the water on real cuckolding making people new to it think porn is right but its not"

What a great explanation … I’ve helped couples enjoy the cuckold lifestyle over many years and it’s always been a role that is defined by them but not with a label but by actions

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By *vonladMan
51 weeks ago

warwick


"The term bull although used in cuckolding circles is really not a suitable term for couples like ourselves.

We look for males that can give Dee the sex she wants but also take her out for drinks, weekends away, stuff like that, of course as a cuck I like to watch but a lot of the time I’m not present.

Perhaps we are a bit weird in cuckolding circles with our dynamic but we aren’t just looking for a gut with a big cock that can come over and ‘destroy’ Dee, which is the usual ‘bull’ messages we get on here."

Nothing weird in wanting exactly what you want from the experience

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By *heelerMan
51 weeks ago

Northants

Depends on how far the red rag is.

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
51 weeks ago

glasgow


"The wife calls the shots. "

Exactly. Some bulls think they can swagger in and take over with absolutely no concern for a wife’s feelings or wishes.

We have been approached by a few like this who are clearly only interested in pursuing their own fantasies. Right from the get go they are telling us what they are going to do without showing any interest whatsoever in our wishes.

Needless to say we bring the conversation with these guys to an abrupt finish.

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
51 weeks ago

Ryde

For us, a Bull is for exactly the same use as those in farming - to give the females a damn good screw, bringing things to the desired conclusion.

The husband is essentially the farmer, with the job of bringing them both together so as to allow the mating to happen.

You never saw Farmer Barleymow doing this sort of thing on "Bod".

If you get that one, you're as old as I am...

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