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By *oupleforVWE69 OP   Couple
1 day ago

horny ville

Hi all

Any advice on how my wife can learn to take cock in her bum as at present she finds it to painful?

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By *ever2old4toysCouple
1 day ago

Abingdon

Toys and solo anal is a good way to start. I learned how to relax and let that first getting it in part happen. Then after that it's communication when you do anal.

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
1 day ago

Gloucester

If this is something she wants to do start very slowly with small plugs and toys, use lots of lube. Anal sex takes a while to get used to. You can’t rush it.

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By *ravelling ChappieMan
1 day ago

Stroud


"Toys and solo anal is a good way to start. I learned how to relax and let that first getting it in part happen. Then after that it's communication when you do anal. "

Absolutely this. But also have to be aware some people can't or won't and ultimately you have you just accept that.

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By *udge1Man
1 day ago

Oswestry

By starting gently and remember it's for her pleasure too. If she isn't enjoying it then what's the point

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By *itter78Couple
1 day ago

durham

Playing with herself first

Lots of lube

If she lies on her side and raises her top leg at a 90° angle, like a sleeping position, she will find it much easier - this is how doctors do rectal exams as it ensures the least amount of tension in the anus

Go very slow, communicate constantly

She needs to be excited about the idea though. If she's nervous it will be painful and could cause long term damage

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By *Clem-Fandango-Woman
1 day ago

Yarm

If she has any anxiety around anal, sometimes preparation is key. Obviously hygiene is essential. I find I am much more relaxed after I've douched.

Like the above comments have said, toys and teasing/ playing first. Let's not forget about that liquid gold.

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By *illxxMan
1 day ago

motherwell

Not all women like anal sex and find it very uncomfortable it a marmite situation if trying it the woman has git to want to try it never force it. And if they do want to try it take things very slowly and use lots of lube

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By *azmar62Couple
1 day ago

Hinckley

It took my wife 6 months of very careful penetration with different sized toys and vibrators, starting small and gradually increasing the size. We woke up early one Sunday Monday, my cock was solid. Cuddled up, she turned to me and said. “ M. Fuck my arse now” so in a spoon position I lubed her up, positioned myself. I very slowly made contact with her hole and held it there. From this point I told her she was in charge. She backed onto slow but steady. I told her to breathe and I started on her anal journey. After the initial pain and discomfort and the pop as I went past that resistance bit. She pushed me balls deep and held it there until she was ready. After a few minutes she start to move, slowly at first. When her discomfort subsided she sped up. Her moans were fairly loud. I started a rhythm of slow thrusts. As her pleasure started to rise, her impatience faltered. Will you effing fuck me . I didn’t need telling twice. I pummelled her arse and she came multiple times, literally screaming the house down. So the moral of the story guys. Don’t ever push her. Don’t ever think it’s not painful and don’t ever rush. It’ll payoff ten fold. It has with us and now anal is part of our play. Oh and be prepared to be pegged yourself.

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By *tanlee1512Man
1 day ago

Epsom

Plenty of lube and don't rush it

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By *hunky GentMan
1 day ago

Nottingham and Stamford

A karcher washer.

Don't forget that.

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By *okemanGoMan
1 day ago

Willenhall

Lube and more lube

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