FabSwingers.com forum: Is no kissing a deal breaker for guys ?

By *ynergy OP Man
3 days ago

Manchester

We experienced our first threesome at the weekend. We really enjoyed it but Mrs said next time she wouldn't want to kiss him she said it felt abit too intimate! She said she struggled the next day to get her head around it she thought it would be ok obviously or we would set a boundarie. She said if we do it again she wouldn't wanna kiss him. That's absolutely fine with me but do even guys meet couples with that rule ?

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By *illabongboy1971Man
3 days ago

Penicuik

Some do. Some don't.

Kissing is essential for me

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
3 days ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

Yes, plenty do. We have never been knocked back because of it either.

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By *pandjMan
3 days ago

Sparkford

It's a massive turn on for me and would be strange without but do what makes you comfortable

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By *evonrobMan
3 days ago

Kingsbridge

Be hard to get that real sense of intimacy and eroticism without kissing being involved, both M and F!

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By *randmrs 1st timeCouple
3 days ago

bolton

It’s what works for each couple that matters

In our fun has to be kissing involved but that’s our preference

Hope it works out for you

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By *n the cloudsMan
3 days ago

warlingham

Passionate kissing is a big turn on for me and a very intimate part of any relationship.

I would be less interested in meeting if it were a hard no.

I’ll always respect boundaries but would not be my preference

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
3 days ago

Bristol

You will find people that are OK with it, and some where its a deal breaker.

For us, kissing is a must have as both of us need it in order to get properly turned on. It's about compatibility, and we would find a couple with this rule incompatible and wish you the best and move on - just like we do with some other preferences and I'm sure people do with ours too.

But that's the hard yards we choose to put in to make sure we get what we want out of a meet, it's the price to pay

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By *iss DevilWoman
3 days ago

Bedford

No kissing would be a deal breaker for me. It's part of the intimacy, part of the whole experience.

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By *etwife8230Couple
3 days ago

Newport

Kissing is a huge turn on for me so both lips come together, wouldn't do one without the other 💋

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By *tanlee1512Man
3 days ago

Epsom

Love kissing but will always respect boundaries

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By *andb69Couple
3 days ago

leeds

"We experienced our first threesome at the weekend. We really enjoyed it but Mrs said next time she wouldn't want to kiss him she said it felt abit too intimate! She said she struggled the next day to get her head around it she thought it would be ok obviously or we would set a boundarie. She said if we do it again she wouldn't wanna kiss him. That's absolutely fine with me but do even guys meet couples with that rule ?"

I wouldn't believe all those men that claim it's a deal breaker. Over a decade ago I found myself feeling like your wife: fucking is fun, erotic and fantasy fulfilling, but kisses for me (except with other women) implies closeness, intimacy and romance. I don't want that with random guys - I'm swinging not dating. Yet, in all the threesomes, foursomes and moresomes I've had with other guys not one man has ever complained, and most have asked to come back for more. So kissing is a deal breaker, except when good sex is on offer.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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3 days ago

East Sussex

Yes they do. Plenty of men met us and we made it clear beforehand that we didn't kiss in the mouth.

Just make it clear in your couples profile

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
3 days ago

East Sussex

Yes and not one man has refused a blow job because I wouldn't kiss him.

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By *cgmcgMan
3 days ago

kingston

I had a meet with a couple where she did not want to be touched, just watch. That was cool for me , as the boundaries were set. So, a lovely surprise when she offered to peg me! No kissing though!

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By *cottyl1983Man
3 days ago

Tyne and Wear

Probably, love kissing to be fair

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By *ensman100Man
3 days ago

Hounslow

Have had a no kissing ... fine by me. We play by the rules laid out at the beginning. Same goes for safe sex or no penetrative sex. As long as everyone knows the boundaries we can all have fun

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By *eardedguy83Man
3 days ago

Worcestershire

Kissing is essential. No passion without kissing 😘

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
3 days ago

Wolverhampton

An absolute deal breaker. There's no magic without it.

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By *andb69Couple
3 days ago

leeds

"Kissing is essential. No passion without kissing 😘 "

What makes you think most women want passion? Many get all that they want from their partner. They want to fuck others purely for sex, spice and raunch.

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
3 days ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

"Kissing is essential. No passion without kissing 😘

What makes you think most women want passion? Many get all that they want from their partner. They want to fuck others purely for sex, spice and raunch. "

This is exactly it.

If the guy wants kissing they can kiss hubby 😂

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By *ntercouplemaCouple
3 days ago

Around and about

kissing is must for us, heightens the passion and intimacy

mrs xx

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By *ust-meatMan
3 days ago

hull

Definitely a must

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
3 days ago

Wolverhampton

"Kissing is essential. No passion without kissing 😘

What makes you think most women want passion? Many get all that they want from their partner. They want to fuck others purely for sex, spice and raunch. "

It's personal preference at the end of the day. I'm sure if there was any potential to meet someone, boundaries would be discussed prior to it, and a decision can be made whether to go forward or not.

If someone was to tell me that kissing was off the cards, I wouldn't entertain them for one minute. Because that's MY preference.

Also, BG was talking about passion from his side. Not theirs.

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By *eardedguy83Man
3 days ago

Worcestershire

"Kissing is essential. No passion without kissing 😘

What makes you think most women want passion? Many get all that they want from their partner. They want to fuck others purely for sex, spice and raunch.

If someone was to tell me that kissing was off the cards, I wouldn't entertain them for one minute. Because that's MY preference.

Also, BG was talking about passion from his side. Not theirs."

I was indeed. I respect everyone has their own preferences.

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By *orders-cplCouple
3 days ago

middx cpl

no kissing means no meet with us

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By *netobeextraMan
3 days ago

location varies

Lots of couples have their own boundaries and things they save for themselves.

It’s never an issue with me as long as these things are discussed beforehand and everyone is clear on the boundaries.

I’ve met many couples with a no kissing rule, as well as other things. It’s never been a dealbreaker and I’ve always had a great time

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By *lym4realCouple
3 days ago

plymouth

Do wahatever you are both happy doing and if afew can't/won't accept it ?? and where having some kind of conversation before hand helps ! xx

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
3 days ago

South Wales

I like the kissing, that’s our preference and I wouldn’t want a meet with no kissing…….but everyone has their own preferences xx 😘

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By *rK MrsJCouple
3 days ago

Kidderminster

Kissing is part of the fun and a turn on.

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By *r SensualMan
3 days ago

London

It’s now become a deal breaker for me… it’s something I ask about very early on to save everyone’s time.

Each to their own but if kissing is off the cards then it all just feels robotic, transactional and awkward trying not to kiss the person mid sex, let alone beforehand…

Totally respect of boundaries, however a no kissing rule makes me think I’m just a human dildo and nothing more.

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By *pagedMan
3 days ago

Doncaster

Kissing is nice but iv met couples who both kiss and others don't. Is there choice at the end ofvthe day .. and I respect there wishes

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By *etal and MayhemCouple
3 days ago

Allestree

"It’s now become a deal breaker for me… it’s something I ask about very early on to save everyone’s time.

Each to their own but if kissing is off the cards then it all just feels robotic, transactional and awkward trying not to kiss the person mid sex, let alone beforehand…

Totally respect of boundaries, however a no kissing rule makes me think I’m just a human dildo and nothing more. "

We tried no kissing once it felt very robotic as you say and went straight out the window.

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By *hat.coupleCouple
3 days ago

Kent

It doesn't bother me at all, kissing or no kissing. I consider sex to be far more inimate then kissing but, we are all different x

Mrs x

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By *udyLondonMan
3 days ago

Bournemouth

Yes it’s a deal breaker for me

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By *couseTravisMan
3 days ago

liverpool L4

I don’t often kiss on meets that are purely just sex.

I actually met a couple and asked if they were ok with no kissing, they thanked me, stating that they wanted to ask me the same but they were worried that would come off as weird for asking.

No one should be feel obliged to do anything they don’t want to in a meet.

If it doesn’t feel right then it doesn’t feel right

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
3 days ago

north

Deal breaker for me. I won’t meet without it. I respect peoples boundaries but it’s important to me.

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By *iredhand2Man
3 days ago

Sale

Ideally kissing should be involved, but as others have said, this is just sex, and I expect most guys wouldn’t see no kissing as a barrier to that. The main thing is to make everything clear so there aren’t any prior expectations.

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By *peedyGMan
3 days ago

Telford

I would find it weird not Kissing tbh.

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
3 days ago

Manchester

I appreciate on the kissing situation everyone is different but not kissing seems a bit odd to us. After my wife has licked their cock, their nipples, their balls and even their bums or toes it seems strange to say mouth to mouth kissing is then too intimate!

Each to their own though.

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