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Advice on a FMF relationship type thing

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By *weetnjuicycouple OP   Couple
5 days ago

Northumberland

Any advice on a FMF dynamic and how to handle it - two females both enthusiastically bisexual and a straight male - regular playmates and colleagues and friends too - fm are married

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By *rsGodwinCouple
5 days ago

Brighton

They're already regular playmates of yours?

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By *weetnjuicycouple OP   Couple
5 days ago

Northumberland

We are the couple x

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By *uca500Man
5 days ago

Aylesbury

I’ve been involved in a mff relationship previously. It’s one that I enjoyed but struggled with at times.

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By *weetnjuicycouple OP   Couple
5 days ago

Northumberland


"I’ve been involved in a mff relationship previously. It’s one that I enjoyed but struggled with at times. "

Why ?

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By *offee Cocktails and CumCouple
5 days ago

Waterlooville

We’re a triple … FMF.

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By *rsGodwinCouple
5 days ago

Brighton

I have been a unicorn a few times with MF couples and although i've always ensured i align with the woman and pay her the most attention, i have found the relationships ultimately tricky.

In one, the husband started messaging me seperately. In another, the wife became less keen for me to get fucked by the husband.

As the wife, whats the dynamic of your FMF?

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By *weetnjuicycouple OP   Couple
5 days ago

Northumberland


"We’re a triple … FMF. "

Brilliant- we’ll get in touch x

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By *hat.coupleCouple
5 days ago

Kent

We've tried to make it work a few times but ultimately the third person (always bi female) has overstepped a boundary and gotten jealous or a bit crazy. We've been together for 25 and as solid as rock. Nothing gets between us and nothing pulls us apart. we make it clear that we aren't interested in drama or conflict and dicuss things openly at all times. Sadly, it's not worked for us yet so we stick to planned 121 meets and chance club meets instead.

Mrs x

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
5 days ago

Carlisle usually

Long term triads are fucking hard.

Good luck 💜

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By *pgroupsexMan
5 days ago

Kingston

In my early 30s, I lived in a FMF relationship for several months. I'd say it was pretty successful.

Three way relationships are certainly complicated and I was always very careful to not to overstep the mark in regard to what the girls found acceptable and to try and avoid any 'questionable' 1:1 scenarios (except the two girls on their own obviously!).

If any of those involved gets easily jealous or is at all possessive, then I'd say it's not going to work. I also think, as the guy, you absolutely need to always put your original partner's needs and their boundaries first; for them it's the biggest ask of all.

Personally I really loved the day to day stuff, cooking together, chilling in front of the TV, sharing both a bed, a house and our life together was great.

In our case it ended well too, with the girl in question simply going back to her home country.

Fun times

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By *weetnjuicycouple OP   Couple
5 days ago

Northumberland

Any suggested boundaries or rules ?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
5 days ago

Carlisle usually


"Any suggested boundaries or rules ?"

Depends what kind of triad you're looking for.

If it's the main couple and then an extra girl, keep it purely sexual and make sure she has her freedom.

If you're wanting an actual relationship, be prepared for what happens when someone loves one more than the other, eventualities if someone wants to break up with one of not the other, recognise the disadvantages of being the newbie added on to an established relationship and do what you can to deconstruct the barriers to being equal partners.

Keep it fair on all parties involved.

Unicorns r us has a lot of useful points 💜

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By *weetnjuicycouple OP   Couple
5 days ago

Northumberland

That’s great thanks - slightly compounded as we all work together


"Any suggested boundaries or rules ?

Depends what kind of triad you're looking for.

If it's the main couple and then an extra girl, keep it purely sexual and make sure she has her freedom.

If you're wanting an actual relationship, be prepared for what happens when someone loves one more than the other, eventualities if someone wants to break up with one of not the other, recognise the disadvantages of being the newbie added on to an established relationship and do what you can to deconstruct the barriers to being equal partners.

Keep it fair on all parties involved.

Unicorns r us has a lot of useful points 💜"

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
5 days ago

Carlisle usually


"That’s great thanks - slightly compounded as we all work together"

I'd generally advise against dating coworkers. But then I am dating a coworker myself, so it's not like I can really talk.

Be very certain about what you're doing. Decide how open you're going to be about it at work and be aware of just how much mess it is likely to cause there when there are disagreements within the relationship.

If you're keeping it quiet and she's the dirty little secret, think about how that feels when the others can be open 💜

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By *weetnjuicycouple OP   Couple
4 days ago

Northumberland

Thanks for the advice- much appreciated
"That’s great thanks - slightly compounded as we all work together

I'd generally advise against dating coworkers. But then I am dating a coworker myself, so it's not like I can really talk.

Be very certain about what you're doing. Decide how open you're going to be about it at work and be aware of just how much mess it is likely to cause there when there are disagreements within the relationship.

If you're keeping it quiet and she's the dirty little secret, think about how that feels when the others can be open 💜"

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