FabSwingers.com forum: Messaging on fab

By *oxAndMoffat OP Couple
1 week ago

Bury

Do people not know how to message. It always been bad but it’s terrible now.

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By *irsSubCouple
1 week ago

Darlington

I think it goes in cycles, we haven't had anywhere near as much crazy lately.

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By *pslad99Man
1 week ago

pinewood

I believe that if you reply you need to get them interested just saying one liners or do you want to fuck or have sex? Is so outdated? You’ve got to try and catch their mind for them to look at you even if they say no thank you you’ve still Gotta put the effort in.

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By *issmorganWoman
1 week ago

Calderdale innit

Not often, I use filters so don't get much mail. When I do it's usually low effort hi babe stuff, so I delete.

It's rare I get a well written message & I always take time to reply to those.

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By *eardedguy83Man
1 week ago

Worcestershire

I always try to send a courteous and polite message,staying within filters. I get quite a few messages which are more like a job interview with a hint of aggression,than friendly and welcoming. What’s wrong with a bit of good communication.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
1 week ago

Brum

"Do people not know how to message. It always been bad but it’s terrible now. "

We know.

What kind of message would you like?

We can do flirty?

Or maybe kinky?

How about general chit chat?

We do specialise in the inane how is fab treating you type?

Anyways… have a nice day

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By *ev_1Couple
1 week ago

Bickliegh

Messages are easy it's knowing how the recipient's wants it to start lol sometimes starting with a old fashioned hello how's your day going isn't good enough

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By *pirited obeliskMan
7 days ago

Isle of wight

I admit I do find it a challenge to know how to start a message and conversation with people I'm interested in and what to put a lot of the time (my autistic ass wonky brain probably doesn't help with that but am always trying to learn), and I hope people don't find my messages dull, boring and unimaginative, but if I can't get to know them gradually, I won't learn and get to know what they're about at all

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By *aomilatteCouple
7 days ago

Midlands

"Do people not know how to message. It always been bad but it’s terrible now. "

Most don't know how to message.

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By *asty tatsyMan
7 days ago

london

I always go with the message

Hey

😁

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By *aggerHammerMan
7 days ago

Dagenham

It is that fucking text speak the gets me. They might aswel type in Mongolian, for all I understand of it

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By *eakpair .Couple
7 days ago

Peak District

Unfortunately there is such a high number of guys who send messages without even reading profiles.

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By *etMeWhisperInUrEarsMan
7 days ago

Somewhere

I joined recently and noticed that, regardless of how good the message can be seen by who receives it, it appears nobody reads them.

I don't even get in many cases the confirmation was seen. Is that normal?

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By *ust_james_1999Man
7 days ago

birmingham

It’s definitely changed. Spoke to a few people and managed to have a decent convo. But sometimes they are one word type.

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By *ing217Man
7 days ago

CAMBRIDGE

I’m done with writing long messages lol. It’s crazy when I put effort and people read and not reply. Not even a I’M NOT INTERESTED. So basically. I start with a hi. If we click. We click. If we don’t. Then fine. I’m not on fab to chat. I’m on fab to play lol

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
7 days ago

Next Door

The quality of messages had really gone down hill and the quantity has gone also.

I do have good filters, but ive always had them.

I've also found that messages really slow down after 4 ish. The attached must be on their way home then 🤷‍♀️

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By *JB1954Man
7 days ago

Reading

I try to keep messages . To the point . As know most perhaps not read , left on not read . Read and no reply , deleted are the easiest to deal with , Reason for read and no reply . I do not delete and block . Have had few messages been read. No reply . But few weeks later a message. 😳

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By *rexl SpiveyMan
7 days ago

Rosyth

Copy paste - carpet bomb

This is the way.

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