FabSwingers.com forum: Who popped the swinging question...

By (user no longer on site) OP
7 days ago

the wife or the husband?

And please elaborate on how the conversation progressed.

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By *atgirl and RobinCouple
7 days ago

Durham

Neither of us needed to. We met in a kink group, and already knew we were both on Fab before we got together

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By (user no longer on site) OP
6 days ago

"Neither of us needed to. We met in a kink group, and already knew we were both on Fab before we got together

It never occurred to me that people would meet on here and become couples, always thought it would be the other way around. 😃

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By *icecouple561Couple
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6 days ago

East Sussex

My husband and the conversation progressed slowly

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
6 days ago

Stourbridge

My former swinging partner. She wanted to meet bi women initially and we moved on from there.

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By *outhstaffscoupleCouple
6 days ago

cannock

Husband, we only intended to visit clubs for some voyeuristic fun but we're one year in and tried a fair bit more than that now

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By * Jason -Man
6 days ago

Hounslow

"My husband and the conversation progressed slowly"

Just curious. What was your imediate reaction/thoughts and how long had you been together at that point?

(If you don't mind sharing)

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By *icecouple561Couple
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6 days ago

East Sussex

"My husband and the conversation progressed slowly

Just curious. What was your imediate reaction/thoughts and how long had you been together at that point?

(If you don't mind sharing)"

We were in our early fifties so had been together over 25 years. I had a lot of questions and he did his best to answer them.

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By * Jason -Man
6 days ago

Hounslow

Great. Thanks very much for sharing

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
6 days ago

Rotherham

Started swinging whilst at university, after an unexpected threesome at a uni party. Was me who brought it up

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By *uxurycollectionCouple
6 days ago

Port Talbot

We walked passed a club when on holiday, started talking about what went on inside and two nights later we were in there!

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
6 days ago

Nuneaton

Neither of us really we drive past a swingers club and got chatting. couple of week later she had phoned up got all the info and we was there that night with no idea about what we wanted but it just went from there really with our boundaries and desires becoming more open on our journey.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
6 days ago

Coventry

We love hearing these tales. Especially from couples who've been together years as a monogamous couple. Because that is a big a brave step after all that time together. We often ask this question when we get chatting to couples at club. We've heard some beautiful and often quite amusing tales over the years.

To be fair we've also been instrumental in corrupting a couple of vanilla couples into the lifestyle too. So we have become part of some people's story too.

It's an aspect we never had because we met of FAB.

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By *unglevipsCouple
6 days ago

Somerset

It was more a conversation about the time Mr had been to a club before we met. Quickly followed by “I’ll go with you”.

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By *aughtystaffs60Couple
6 days ago

Staffordshire

We met soon after separating from marriages. We were sat in the pub a few weeks after we'd met. I'd learnt from previous marriage that you have to talk and be open about everything so said I wasn't ready to settle down yet.

She agreed and we agreed to meet another guy first to test the new arrangements. It went well so we tried other things.

For a while it was an amazing lifestyle. I have been very lucky to have met such an open minder partner.

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
6 days ago

west london

My Mrs asked me two weeks after dating via a casual text ...I said yes....and here we are ten years later

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By *igh PinkCouple
6 days ago

Manchester

I worked with an older lady about 30 years ago cannot remember how it came up.but she was very open about what her and her husband did as he was a long distance lorry driver, it was wife swapping back then but said they went to sauna club called The Boardroom in Swinton and did we want to go with them ,we were really quite nieve then there was a big jacuzzi and my friend said we go in naked and that's what I did and as they say the rest is history

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