FabSwingers.com forum: Taking the next step.

By *werbles OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Bodmin

We have been a soft swap couple for a few years now but Miss Twerbles is talking about/wanting to go all the way. She does however want me to do it first so she can see how she feels about me fucking another woman. Is this something other couples have been through?

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By *layfullsamMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull

"We have been a soft swap couple for a few years now but Miss Twerbles is talking about/wanting to go all the way. She does however want me to do it first so she can see how she feels about me fucking another woman. Is this something other couples have been through? "

Grab that golden opportunity free pass card

Unless it’s a trap

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By *ittlebirdWoman
2 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Grab that golden opportunity free pass card

Unless it’s a trap

Golden ticket?

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By *layfullsamMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull

Grab that golden opportunity free pass card

Unless it’s a trap

Golden ticket? "
wife saying she wants to watch him with a woman first

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
2 weeks ago

Altrincham

When me n hubby straight our journey we set strict guidelines, started small and kept communication open and non judgemental

I'm the one playing, hubby is happy hearing what I get up to, he's seen wmme kiss another man and was turned on by it. We're just taking our time and enjoying what we're doing

*I'm actually enjoying myself very much

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By *ittlebirdWoman
2 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Grab that golden opportunity free pass card

Unless it’s a trap

Golden ticket? wife saying she wants to watch him with a woman first "

I know… OP. Best to both take the jump into full swap at the same time if you want it to be equal adventures for you both

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By *werbles OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Bodmin

It's not a golden ticket. I'm thinking about her and IF it happens will it put her back. Its a long story but she went through alot before she met me. Her emotions are the most important thing to me.

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By *ellinever70Woman
2 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"It's not a golden ticket. I'm thinking about her and IF it happens will it put her back. Its a long story but she went through alot before she met me. Her emotions are the most important thing to me."

What does the idea of you being with another woman do for her?

Because if she's in any way hesitant, it sounds like really risky business.

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

What happens if she can't handle it and gets really jealous op?

You have to think about the other person who would be involved too.

I haven't been through it, I'm half a couple and we do full swap and enjoy watching each other.

Finding a woman for you to play with whilst she just watches won't be easy. But if there's a chance she won't deal with it well, it'll be even harder.

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By *werbles OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Bodmin

Miss Twerbles has come a long way since we started our journey together I'm very proud of her considering her past relationships. It's that final step that worries me. If she sees me fuck another woman then it could set her back. I have no problem with her fucking another man because I know there is no emotion involved and it would be the same for me fucking a woman.

It's just that final step.....

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By *werbles OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Bodmin

We both play together and I love seeing her play with other men and women and she has no problem with me playing with women. We both know it's just fun with no emotions involved. Anything that happens involves both of us so it wouldn't be a case of her sitting and watching, if that makes sense,

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By *icecouple561Couple
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2 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Miss Twerbles has come a long way since we started our journey together I'm very proud of her considering her past relationships. It's that final step that worries me. If she sees me fuck another woman then it could set her back. I have no problem with her fucking another man because I know there is no emotion involved and it would be the same for me fucking a woman.

It's just that final step....."

If you have doubts don't do it

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
2 weeks ago

West Suffolk

If it could set her back then why even think about it? What’s more important?

Mrs

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By *iss.BellaWoman
2 weeks ago

In all fairness to the guy here, he is asking for other couples' opinions / experiences. He wants his wife to be on board and doesn't want her to go back.

Fair play for not just making a singles account and going behind her back like a lot do here.

I think you probably need to talk really in depth if you haven't already.

Ask her how she'd feel in scenario A, B, C if any hesitation, I'd say leave it for now and maybe you can revisit it in the future?

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By *werbles OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Bodmin

The reason this has come up is because when my partner has a woman down on her and her arse is up in the air its very tempting to fuck the other woman. We have discussed this a few times and I am more than happy to continue with soft play, however it is Miss Twerbles who has brought up the subject of full swap and I like the idea but she wants me to "go first ". Yes in an ideal world then a single lady/hotwife would be good but we all know that's unlikely. Jealously isn't an issue because we are extremely solid and we both know this is just fun.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
2 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

"We both play together and I love seeing her play with other men and women and she has no problem with me playing with women. We both know it's just fun with no emotions involved. Anything that happens involves both of us so it wouldn't be a case of her sitting and watching, if that makes sense,

You’re already playing with others in front of each other, so it’s not really a huge barrier to take the next step if you are both ready for it.

I would say that you would be best explaining the situation to the lady so she’s aware or better still, meet with a women you’ve both already played with, so it’s already feels comfortable.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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2 weeks ago

East Sussex

"The reason this has come up is because when my partner has a woman down on her and her arse is up in the air its very tempting to fuck the other woman. We have discussed this a few times and I am more than happy to continue with soft play, however it is Miss Twerbles who has brought up the subject of full swap and I like the idea but she wants me to "go first ". Yes in an ideal world then a single lady/hotwife would be good but we all know that's unlikely. Jealously isn't an issue because we are extremely solid and we both know this is just fun.

You seem to be talking yourself in to it

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By *pontaneous_coupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Hoddesdon

When starting we had and still have a rule, discuss off limits and boundaries before hand and agree that anything else is unknown, in the environment if something happens either of us don’t like we don’t make a scene or address it there and then we talk about it after because we wouldn’t have known if it didn’t happen so it’s not personal and to set it as a boundary for next time x

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By *werbles OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Bodmin

Thank you, someone who understands where I am coming from.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

If you have any doubts, don't do it. It may not be worth it.

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By *werbles OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Bodmin

"If you have any doubts, don't do it. It may not be worth it."

No doubts at all, it's Miss Twerbles decision but on her grounds.

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By *pontaneous_coupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Hoddesdon

I think people are trying to hard reading into this, if it’s on her terms I would imagine she’s interested in the idea some way, as long as she feels just as important (which you’re probably used to doing anyway) a single woman might be more intimidating than a couple who are aware and understands your situation so that it can switch back to soft swap if need be or give the opportunity of full swap if she is wanting to move forward xx

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By *werbles OP Couple
1 week ago

Bodmin

"I think people are trying to hard reading into this, if it’s on her terms I would imagine she’s interested in the idea some way, as long as she feels just as important (which you’re probably used to doing anyway) a single woman might be more intimidating than a couple who are aware and understands your situation so that it can switch back to soft swap if need be or give the opportunity of full swap if she is wanting to move forward xx"

A couple that we have played with before would be an ideal situation because Miss Twerbles would already feel comfortable with them so the next step would be easier x

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By * Jason -Man
1 week ago

Hounslow

Well if you do decide to go for it, I, for one, would certainly ne very to know how it turned out for you both.

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