FabSwingers.com forum: Too ugly for fab?

By *tudentForFun OP Man
3 weeks ago

Craigavon

Have to say I know not everyone is everyones cup of tea but I’m about 99/100 on sending a face pic and being blocked right after

Does nothing but kill the confidence might be time to hit the surgeries 🤣🤣

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By *ornyfitguyforfunMan
3 weeks ago

bristol

Faced similar issues lol 😆 it's hard out there

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By *antsGerfMan
3 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Just remember not everyone is attracted to everyone and the amount of guys compared to ladies is crazy.

Just be yourself and be honest

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By *an1978Woman
3 weeks ago

Wales

Ahh bless you.

Ratios, Age, and many other things against you.

Many people are ruthless with the block button. Don't take it personally.

I was a 5 in my youth. possibly a 3 by now, and it is just plain awkward when people say "wow stunning" to my rough photo 😂😂

Luckily my own taste is unusual, not into pretty men, or muscular ones.

There is someone for everyone.

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By *iker64worceMan
3 weeks ago

redditch

I hate the way i look to be honest

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By *heFastandtheCuriousCouple
3 weeks ago

Midlothian

Female half here. For me personally it's the chat that hooks me in. It's not a purely physical attraction for me. Although I must admit there has always been something I like, could be eyes, smile, dimples or whatever but if they can make me laugh and have personality then I'm a goner.

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By *tudentForFun OP Man
3 weeks ago

Craigavon

"Female half here. For me personally it's the chat that hooks me in. It's not a purely physical attraction for me. Although I must admit there has always been something I like, could be eyes, smile, dimples or whatever but if they can make me laugh and have personality then I'm a goner."

I’d say the more confidence killing part is going through a few dozen messages back and fourth, being complimented on the personality then getting the block

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By *riel13Woman
3 weeks ago

Northampton

You need to understand that we are, mostly, attractive to an extremely small amount of people... When the amount of those people is cut but a fair amount, on here, ya know... Manage your expectations n don't worry about those who aren't interested

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Central

Most people are not mutually compatible, including physically, interests, personality, where and when they'd meet and move. Most here are older, including some who won't meet you because their kids are similar ages.

Having public photos helps as people view the profile sender, before message reading

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By *b1980Man
3 weeks ago

Manchester

Im no oil painting got a dad bod but to my dog and little girl im beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

I know the feeling sometimes I think I’m to ugly

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
3 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

Don't let this (or any) site define you. It's not the same as meeting in person. If you feel comfortable, perhaps try clubs or arranged socials and see how you get on. Good luck OP

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By *at fucker in LondonMan
3 weeks ago

London

One thing that comes with age is the subtle skill of not giving a fuck what people think about you. It certainly improved my Fab experience.

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By *infullyObedientWoman
3 weeks ago

Woodley

Dont let it get to you OP. I have had plenty of guys tell me how beautiful/stunning/gorgeous I am from my body pics on here, then send a face pic and they aren't interested anymore. We cant be for everyone and I find it easier to share face sooner than later to avoid disappointment after long chats.

Dont take blocks personally, it just prevents messaging again in future.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
3 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
3 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

Bro, I’ve been turnt down by ladies who have Veris from men faaaaar less attractive than me.

You are not ugly & it ain’t all about looks.

Often alotta blokes just don’t photograph well.

Or don’t know how to take a good selfie

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By *K herts mMan
3 weeks ago

Fleetwood

"Have to say I know not everyone is everyones cup of tea but I’m about 99/100 on sending a face pic and being blocked right after

Does nothing but kill the confidence might be time to hit the surgeries 🤣🤣"

Don't sweat it. I know how ugly I am and have come to terms with it. Be yourself and don't stress. If people like you great if not. Move on. That's all I do.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Hello you.

We can't be everyone's cup of tea. Id suggest sharing face pics from the off, because if either of you don't float each other's boat, it'll be less disappointing for both.

Having seen your face before, I can confirm that you're not ugly and have great banter. 👌🏼

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By *ikesEmBigMan
3 weeks ago

Herts

Its sad that my face actually looks like a penis.

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By *otwife and sexy beastCouple
3 weeks ago

rochester

There's always someone for everyone OP.

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