FabSwingers.com forum: Newbie Questions

By *anic Couple OP Couple
47 weeks ago

North West

Hi Everyone, we have have a question as we are considering our first club visit and in discussing it we have realised a problem. We aren’t sure how we would navigate this.

So the question is that Ariel is mainly interested in F and I am only interested in F. Obviously things are easy if it’s a single F and she is interested in us but what if it’s a couple and Ariel doesn’t vibe with the male partner?

I’m sure that this has popped up in people’s experiences.

Looking forward to your advice.

By *eavenscentitCouple
47 weeks ago

barnstaple

That would depend on how the other couple play.

By *arryandhedgehogCouple
47 weeks ago

Essex

If you start talking with a couple be honest from early on about what you’re looking for that way they can make an informed decision and nobody’s time is wasted

By *issmorganWoman
47 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

One thing I'd say, is if you meet a couple and there's no attraction to the man, don't then monopolise the lady and exclude him.

Remember they usually come as a pair, couples.

Couples meeting couples is tough (I'm half one) & getting that attraction between several people, isn't easy.

Be open and honest with anyone you speak to & be clear what you're actually looking for.

Discuss your boundaries and stick to them,keep taking to each other.

Go with no expectations mingle and have fun. You never know what connections you might make.

By *issmorganWoman
47 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

BTW we only do partner swap, as I'm straight, but if one of us isn't feeling it, we don't take things any futher.

By *anic Couple OP Couple
46 weeks ago

North West

Thanks you that’s helpful.

By *aomilatteCouple
46 weeks ago

Midlands

Explain you're new and only interested if FF play with playing with own partner, some will play that way (that was our first club experience). Or find a couple who you vibe with both of them.