FabSwingers.com forum: Differing tastes

By *lcherasDreamTime OP Couple
4 weeks ago

Manchester

Hey. (Answers in forum only please)

Just wondering how couples get on who have different types/tastes in potential sexual partners?

Mr is bi and is into feminine/feminine looking guys, where as I, although am very turned on my a man in lingerie, prefer that guy to be manly looking/acting.

Won't be a problem as he would always get final say being the one who would be participating but I need to find the whole thing pleasing to the eye too to get off on watching. (I think)

We've not been there yet so it may not even matter in the end but we do have rather different tastes in men...

Our tastes in women are pretty much the same but I'm not wanting to try that just yet.

By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
4 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I don't have a particular type, but there are definitely people I'm absolutely attracted to and people I'm absolutely not attracted to. Most people I'm just neutral on though.

When I get to watch my partner fuck someone else, I want it to be about what they want, I want them to want that person. It doesn't matter if I find the person they're fucking attractive, because this isn't a little special show for me, this is me getting to see my partner getting off, that's the primary factor for me 💜

By *lcherasDreamTime OP Couple
4 weeks ago

Manchester

"I don't have a particular type, but there are definitely people I'm absolutely attracted to and people I'm absolutely not attracted to. Most people I'm just neutral on though.

Thank you for your honest reply. That's how I'm hoping it will be for us and it most likely will be to be honest, what turns me on the most is seeing him getting massively turned on and taken to another level sexually.

I think because we haven't taken the plunge yet I'm just overthinking the possibilities rather than just taking it as it comes so to speak.

As you said (I'm paraphrasing) its about him, not me. Just to see him squirming in total extacy would be amazing actually.