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"Whilst I agree the gap between prices isnt exactly fair, most of it is due to attracting the volume of women required to keep the numbers balanced. Also, it filters out the guys who would take advantage of a cheap entrance fee to have easy access to women. At least if they are willing to pay to attend, they are more likely to be seriously on the scene rather than just strolling in off the street looking to hook up. " Exactly this  | |||
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"Whilst I agree the gap between prices isnt exactly fair, most of it is due to attracting the volume of women required to keep the numbers balanced. Also, it filters out the guys who would take advantage of a cheap entrance fee to have easy access to women. At least if they are willing to pay to attend, they are more likely to be seriously on the scene rather than just strolling in off the street looking to hook up. " some women are just as bad as blokes maybe worse them women do actually get a cheep entry to have easy access to blokes. | |||
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"I would also say it makes the men think, as like on Fab the ratio to men Women/couples I would say is huge so obviously they need balance and not sure how else to do that And as mentioned above it tends out most Muppets who think going to a Swing club is a guarantee for sex it isn't, and seen few idiots lose there cool because of being turned down in clubs, I don't see why it is any different than nightclub in regards interaction and being polite, and a "sorry not interested or "playing" is a right and should be respected Been in several clubs, where it was purely social for one reason Or another other sometimes I was two tired or nothing pickled my fancy and like wise for the other people in the club" yeah but like I said on another quote some women are just as bad as blokes maybe worse so they sort of get have there cake and eat it while us bloke get penalized cause for some reason we are labeled sex addicts when some women are just as bad. To me there should be very little price difference. | |||
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"It’s all about having the right ratio for everyone to have an enjoyable experience, it may seem unfair, but if ladies had to pay the same as men it just wouldn’t attract enough ladies unfortunately. Can I ask how many clubs you have attended?" thats the thing I haven't been to any yet cause I lack In confidence to go alone which I am working on cause it's something I would like to try hopefully. that's why I am asking about the prie gap.i did say this in my OP. | |||
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"It limits how many men go in. Guessing it also stops a lot of the wrong crowd. But it's like everything, you have a choice, pay or not pay" is that the only reason. I am not been funny or awkward I haven't been to a club yet to see what it's like. It juT seemed sexist and unfair to charge blokes that much for women to get in for free basically. | |||
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"It’s all about having the right ratio for everyone to have an enjoyable experience, it may seem unfair, but if ladies had to pay the same as men it just wouldn’t attract enough ladies unfortunately. Can I ask how many clubs you have attended?thats the thing I haven't been to any yet cause I lack In confidence to go alone which I am working on cause it's something I would like to try hopefully. that's why I am asking about the prie gap.i did say this in my OP. " Maybe approach this differently, have you considered attending a local swinging social? That way you can build your confidence and network so you can attend a club with someone? | |||
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"Can someone please explain why the entrance fee to swing clubs I have been looking into going to soon, That single women only pay £5 entrance fee but us single blokes blokes have to pay an extortionate £50 entrance fee, Like the women are there for the same reason as the blokes I am guessing. So why on earth is there such a massive fee gap. Men and women, I am guessing, get to use the same facilities in the club either together or separate. cam someone please explain why this is ? I do apologise in advance if I upset any of you over this ridiculous entrance fee gap. But why should women pay next to nothing to have the same night as us bloke paying £50. " It's all about supply and demand. I guess your going to meet females? As your profile says straight? Unless your Fab straight? Clubs charge lower for females and couples, to get the men in. Supply and demand! If your not happy that we (females and couples) pay less. Can I surgest you attend a gay club or a TV/ TS night. Where NO females are admitted. So your pay the same price as every one in there. Disclaimer, some club charge less for TV / TS enterance. So pop down to the local chairty shop, grab yourself a skirt. Go as a cd, to claim your cheaper enterance and enjoy. | |||
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"Can someone please explain why the entrance fee to swing clubs I have been looking into going to soon, That single women only pay £5 entrance fee but us single blokes blokes have to pay an extortionate £50 entrance fee, Like the women are there for the same reason as the blokes I am guessing. So why on earth is there such a massive fee gap. Men and women, I am guessing, get to use the same facilities in the club either together or separate. cam someone please explain why this is ? I do apologise in advance if I upset any of you over this ridiculous entrance fee gap. But why should women pay next to nothing to have the same night as us bloke paying £50. It's all about supply and demand. I guess your going to meet females? As your profile says straight? Unless your Fab straight? Clubs charge lower for females and couples, to get the men in. Supply and demand! If your not happy that we (females and couples) pay less. Can I surgest you attend a gay club or a TV/ TS night. Where NO females are admitted. So your pay the same price as every one in there. Disclaimer, some club charge less for TV / TS enterance. So pop down to the local chairty shop, grab yourself a skirt. Go as a cd, to claim your cheaper enterance and enjoy. " look am not trying to upset people I don't no how the clubs work as I haven't been to 1 yet hence the confusion as to why women getting for a £5 and blokes pay £50. It just seemed a bit sexist and unfair to me that's why I am asking. Thee is no need to go on that way at all. Obviously I have upset you so you didn't read me full OP before you jumped in feet first all guns blazing. Don't no why your trying to have a go when it's you that gets in for next to nothing to have the same experience as a bloke who pays £50. | |||
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"Easy answer OP if you don't like the pricing don't go " all I am doing is trying to find out why the big price gap when it's the same experience for men and women. like I have said in my OP i haven't been to 1 yet so I might get be missing something about the clubs. Don't no why people are been so negative towards me asking a question about something i haven't experienced yet. | |||
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" Also, it filters out the guys who would take advantage of a cheap entrance fee to have easy access to women. At least if they are willing to pay to attend, they are more likely to be seriously on the scene rather than just strolling in off the street looking to hook up. some women are just as bad as blokes maybe worse them women do actually get a cheep entry to have easy access to blokes. " Unfortunately like with Life nothing is always going to be fair You seem very angry or jealous about the subject, there are always going to idiots across all Genders but would say there is probably more Male idiots then women As stated before I have been in clubs on quite days where there was a cheap entry and only few ladies as the was 10plus men circling and hovering and got the Hump cause it was boring and nothing happening and seem to thing they have rights or entry guarantees sex or an experience I have never gone to any swinger clubs (bi/T-girlsl/normal events) with any expectation of something happening, Been a few times when nothing has happened and couple followed me out and invited me back to theirs I think your expectations of what your expecting might be different to reality here | |||
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" Also, it filters out the guys who would take advantage of a cheap entrance fee to have easy access to women. At least if they are willing to pay to attend, they are more likely to be seriously on the scene rather than just strolling in off the street looking to hook up. some women are just as bad as blokes maybe worse them women do actually get a cheep entry to have easy access to blokes. Unfortunately like with Life nothing is always going to be fair You seem very angry or jealous about the subject, there are always going to idiots across all Genders but would say there is probably more Male idiots then women As stated before I have been in clubs on quite days where there was a cheap entry and only few ladies as the was 10plus men circling and hovering and got the Hump cause it was boring and nothing happening and seem to thing they have rights or entry guarantees sex or an experience I have never gone to any swinger clubs (bi/T-girlsl/normal events) with any expectation of something happening, Been a few times when nothing has happened and couple followed me out and invited me back to theirs I think your expectations of what your expecting might be different to reality here " I am not angry I was just confused to why the price gap. And honestly I don't no what to expect when finally go to a club. That's all part of the learning experience. All I wanted was to no why the price gap cause I thought maybe there is something inside the club that offer men extra facilities or something. But you and others were far to quick to try and turn it into an argument. This forum is for people to ask about stuff they haven't experienced and things the are unsure of. Am I right or wrong | |||
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"Here is brass tacks OP. If single guys paid the same as single ladies and couples then every club would be 99% single men. Are your complaints about the price fair? Yes. Valid even. But in reality from a comfort and lets be honest, safety perspective, the pricing is like that for good and valid reasons." see now that more like it explanation rather than try and make an argument over it. I thought it was cause bloke got extra facilities or something.v Thank you | |||
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" I think your expectations of what your expecting might be different to reality here I am not angry I was just confused to why the price gap. And honestly I don't no what to expect when finally go to a club. That's all part of the learning experience. All I wanted was to no why the price gap cause I thought maybe there is something inside the club that offer men extra facilities or something. But you and others were far to quick to try and turn it into an argument. This forum is for people to ask about stuff they haven't experienced and things the are unsure of. Am I right or wrong "No one is turning it into a an argument matey, just saying like with life something are that way for a reason regardless of if your agree or not The costs are there like with most things it's simple and it seems to work the majority of the time, but there will always be the expectation I don't like how much tax I pay on my wages but don't have much I can do about it, same with swinger clubs when/if I go as single bloke I don't like paying some of the high cost but But if I go as a single bloke I have to, A few times I have managed to find another lady on Fab who is going on the the same day as me and doesn't mind going as a couple and sharing the cost, obviously had social first
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" I think your expectations of what your expecting might be different to reality here I am not angry I was just confused to why the price gap. And honestly I don't no what to expect when finally go to a club. That's all part of the learning experience. All I wanted was to no why the price gap cause I thought maybe there is something inside the club that offer men extra facilities or something. But you and others were far to quick to try and turn it into an argument. This forum is for people to ask about stuff they haven't experienced and things the are unsure of. Am I right or wrong
No one is turning it into a an argument matey, just saying like with life something are that way for a reason regardless of if your agree or not
The costs are there like with most things it's simple and it seems to work the majority of the time, but there will always be the expectation
I don't like how much tax I pay on my wages but don't have much I can do about it,
same with swinger clubs when/if I go as single bloke I don't like paying some of the high cost but
But if I go as a single bloke I have to,
A few times I have managed to find another lady on Fab who is going on the the same day as me and doesn't mind going as a couple and sharing the cost, obviously had social first
which is always another option for you ?"at first I honestly thought there must be something inside like extra facilities for the blokes hence the higher entrance fee. That's why I tried to ask you guys who have actually been to the clubs. I wouldn never have thought it would've been for that simple reason. Cause unlike yous I haven't been to a club yet. | |||
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"OP, think about it slightly differently. Men pay full price to get in, couples either pay full price of a male entrance fee or somewhat reduced price as there is a male and a female attending. Women pay highly reduced fees, to encourage more women in and to balance the numbers. Same as it's on here or any other swinging activitiy, men outnumber women and couples greatly. I'm not going to discuss the reason(s) behind it. If clubs did not offer discounted entries for women, there would be hardly any there. Also, most of the time, at least from some of the arguments, women tend to spend much more on the prep before attending a club - things like outfits, hair, nails etc, to make themselves look and feel good. Men tend not to make as much effort. Unfortunately, swinging is not a cheap hobby. If you'd prefer more even pricing structure, get involved in the kink world (if that's your thing)- the price to attend those events is not gender based. " I couldn't do kink it's just not my way haha. But I thought thee would have been a more complex reason to the entry fees other than just so more women will attend the club. Like I keep saying to everyone here I haven't been to a club yet I don't no how the cloud scene works at all. I am still trying to build my confidence up to actually attend a cloud alone. So anything I do ask about the club scene is a genuine ask and not me trying to be an arsehole over stuff I have no experience in yet. I want to learn the ways I want to experience it scene and hopefully enjoy it for me to attend more. So looks like 1 day I will have to pay the £50 haha | |||
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"OP, think about it slightly differently. Men pay full price to get in, couples either pay full price of a male entrance fee or somewhat reduced price as there is a male and a female attending. Women pay highly reduced fees, to encourage more women in and to balance the numbers. Same as it's on here or any other swinging activitiy, men outnumber women and couples greatly. I'm not going to discuss the reason(s) behind it. If clubs did not offer discounted entries for women, there would be hardly any there. Also, most of the time, at least from some of the arguments, women tend to spend much more on the prep before attending a club - things like outfits, hair, nails etc, to make themselves look and feel good. Men tend not to make as much effort. Unfortunately, swinging is not a cheap hobby. If you'd prefer more even pricing structure, get involved in the kink world (if that's your thing)- the price to attend those events is not gender based. I couldn't do kink it's just not my way haha. But I thought thee would have been a more complex reason to the entry fees other than just so more women will attend the club. Like I keep saying to everyone here I haven't been to a club yet I don't no how the cloud scene works at all. I am still trying to build my confidence up to actually attend a cloud alone. So anything I do ask about the club scene is a genuine ask and not me trying to be an arsehole over stuff I have no experience in yet. I want to learn the ways I want to experience it scene and hopefully enjoy it for me to attend more. So looks like 1 day I will have to pay the £50 haha " Don't forget the membership on top | |||
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"OP, think about it slightly differently. Men pay full price to get in, couples either pay full price of a male entrance fee or somewhat reduced price as there is a male and a female attending. Women pay highly reduced fees, to encourage more women in and to balance the numbers. Same as it's on here or any other swinging activitiy, men outnumber women and couples greatly. I'm not going to discuss the reason(s) behind it. If clubs did not offer discounted entries for women, there would be hardly any there. Also, most of the time, at least from some of the arguments, women tend to spend much more on the prep before attending a club - things like outfits, hair, nails etc, to make themselves look and feel good. Men tend not to make as much effort. Unfortunately, swinging is not a cheap hobby. If you'd prefer more even pricing structure, get involved in the kink world (if that's your thing)- the price to attend those events is not gender based. I couldn't do kink it's just not my way haha. But I thought thee would have been a more complex reason to the entry fees other than just so more women will attend the club. Like I keep saying to everyone here I haven't been to a club yet I don't no how the cloud scene works at all. I am still trying to build my confidence up to actually attend a cloud alone. So anything I do ask about the club scene is a genuine ask and not me trying to be an arsehole over stuff I have no experience in yet. I want to learn the ways I want to experience it scene and hopefully enjoy it for me to attend more. So looks like 1 day I will have to pay the £50 haha Don't forget the membership on top" so when us blokes have paid this extortionate amount of money to get in and also a member fee on top of that. It must be cheap drinks and whatever else is in the clubs surely. Ii personally haven't seen what's behind them closed doors so I am clueless as to what to expect or see happening. Us blokes have got to benefit some way or another cause I am not expecting for myself to get lucky on my first visit or my quote a few visits till I am fully comfortable. Cause I am really self conscious when I am around new people in a really new and out of comfort zone club haha. | |||
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"OP, think about it slightly differently. Men pay full price to get in, couples either pay full price of a male entrance fee or somewhat reduced price as there is a male and a female attending. Women pay highly reduced fees, to encourage more women in and to balance the numbers. Same as it's on here or any other swinging activitiy, men outnumber women and couples greatly. I'm not going to discuss the reason(s) behind it. If clubs did not offer discounted entries for women, there would be hardly any there. Also, most of the time, at least from some of the arguments, women tend to spend much more on the prep before attending a club - things like outfits, hair, nails etc, to make themselves look and feel good. Men tend not to make as much effort. Unfortunately, swinging is not a cheap hobby. If you'd prefer more even pricing structure, get involved in the kink world (if that's your thing)- the price to attend those events is not gender based. I couldn't do kink it's just not my way haha. But I thought thee would have been a more complex reason to the entry fees other than just so more women will attend the club. Like I keep saying to everyone here I haven't been to a club yet I don't no how the cloud scene works at all. I am still trying to build my confidence up to actually attend a cloud alone. So anything I do ask about the club scene is a genuine ask and not me trying to be an arsehole over stuff I have no experience in yet. I want to learn the ways I want to experience it scene and hopefully enjoy it for me to attend more. So looks like 1 day I will have to pay the £50 haha Don't forget the membership on topso when us blokes have paid this extortionate amount of money to get in and also a member fee on top of that. It must be cheap drinks and whatever else is in the clubs surely. Ii personally haven't seen what's behind them closed doors so I am clueless as to what to expect or see happening. Us blokes have got to benefit some way or another cause I am not expecting for myself to get lucky on my first visit or my quote a few visits till I am fully comfortable. Cause I am really self conscious when I am around new people in a really new and out of comfort zone club haha." Here is what you will see happening of what to expect. Lets take our usual club for example. It will be like a nightclub. There will be folks dressed up for a night out, mingling, chatting and stuff you would see in a usual club or club. Difference is maybe a few will be dressed down or using the hot tub. There will be people of all shaoes and sizes and TV/CDs there in full dress. Later in the night people will start playing, either in locked private rooms, rooms locked you can see in via window/mirror and orgy rooms. There are also places with equipment you can use for kink. Example we will use a fuck bench for light flogging and wax play. When play happens in the orgy room most single men will crush into the space to try and watch or get involved. | |||
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