FabSwingers.com forum: Trying to get my partner to swing or cuckold

By *ssex fun guy OP Man
4 weeks ago

travel london essex east

Have a partner of 12 years and would love to watch her with another guy or 2 haha mentioned it jokingly a few times with her just brushing it off she's pretty vanilla apart from when she's had a drink she's only just started to use a dildo put only when d*unk I'm always fantasising about her taking a big older cock as I watch and have her verbally abuse me any other ways you guys could think of maybe ways I could convince her thanks

She's 29 petite brunette small titties perky nipples

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By *elboy1957Man
4 weeks ago

Weston-super-Mare

Take her to a club for just a social to start

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By *tlanshiaWoman
4 weeks ago

Chatham

Her brushing it off is her answering.

You trying to get her to do it because it turns you on is concerning. Have you thought about her feelings.

Enthusiastic consent is a thing.

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By *ndymac888Man
4 weeks ago

Dumbarton

You have to discuss it with her but if she is happy with sex as it is then she might reject it utterly.

Maybe start a bit lighter and have her tell you about sex with an ex.

Or maybe ask her to just chat with another guy sort of like a 3 way group chat and you can just watch the dirty talk.

It’s a pretty nuanced kink and doesn’t always have to be taken to the extreme straight away.

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By *ssex fun guy OP Man
4 weeks ago

travel london essex east

"Her brushing it off is her answering.

You trying to get her to do it because it turns you on is concerning. Have you thought about her feelings.

Enthusiastic consent is a thing.

I don't pressure her I've dropped hints was just asking for advice

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By *J coupleCouple
4 weeks ago

stone

You just need to ask her what her views are of couples being just a bit more Ed than friends with other couples.

We started on this journey with me asking my wife if she fancied going to an adults only club (Atlantis) to just see what it’s like as I’d always wanted to go way before I met her. The conversation soon moved on to her asking me accusingly about the times I had already been. I convinced her truthfully that I’d never been but always wondered. She agreed it could be a fun night out. We never thought we’d actually play with others but that soon became quite natural and fun. We’ve met and had some great sexy nights with a few couples and now ready to meet for our first MFM soon. We’ve also been with friends off Fab to a few naturist camps and are actually going to Telford site for the day tomorrow. It’s been a fun journey so far, yes we’re ’knocking on’ a bit but we still have plenty more in us to carry on.

Best of luck.

J&Jx

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By *ohnsonxdTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Cambridge

Have an attracive wife who just always smiled at the suggestion and the chances of going to a swingers club was zero. What did work was being on a nudist beach when on hols resulting in going into sand dunes with another nudist we had got to know.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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4 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Her brushing it off is her answering.

You trying to get her to do it because it turns you on is concerning. Have you thought about her feelings.

Enthusiastic consent is a thing.

I don't pressure her I've dropped hints was just asking for advice "

Stop dropping hints, talk to her adult to adult about how you would like things to go them listen to what she has to say on the subject and respect it. From there you might be able to progress on to things that you both enjoy.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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4 weeks ago

East Sussex

How does she feel about your adventures on here so far. I guess if she wanted to join you she would have by now.

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By *J coupleCouple
4 weeks ago

stone

"How does she feel about your adventures on here so far. I guess if she wanted to join you she would have by now. "

One of many profiles where the partner has no clue they’re on here. That’s fine really but it’s so much easier to be open so both of you can indulge.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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4 weeks ago

East Sussex

"How does she feel about your adventures on here so far. I guess if she wanted to join you she would have by now.

One of many profiles where the partner has no clue they’re on here. That’s fine really but it’s so much easier to be open so both of you can indulge. "

I just assume partners are aware. It seems a natural starting point to me but I'm not naive enough to think I'm always correct in my assumptions.

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