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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't like to show my tummy during a meet as I hate it. I am on a diet trying to lose weight off it but I know its never going to be flat. Should I always keep it covered or just get over it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys will love your figure and usually we women judge ourselves very harshly so in nicest way, get over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like to show my tummy during a meet as I hate it. I am on a diet trying to lose weight off it but I know its never going to be flat. Should I always keep it covered or just get over it? "

i have one too,am accepting i wont shift it tho.i never let mine loose.always wear a basque or summit.just depends how u feel urself tho hunni.dressing to cover it makes me bit more confident tho.xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get over it....most men couldn't care less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And if we're offering solutions, let's have some for big bellied fellas

If there are any

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im more worried about other women seeing it

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I used to cover, now I just bear all. It allows me to completely concentrate on the moment rather than worrying about keeping my wobbly bits covered.

Also I have been lucky that the men I have met make me feel very sexy no matter what I wear or not wear x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

so what if you got a tummy so have i ... im sure the guys you meet will not be at all bothered by your stomach . id kiss it just to make you feel less self consious about it ... far more interested in boobs bum and all the usual sexier bits xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it looks ok to me. its up to you, i prefer to wear a top but i lift it up or take it off sometimes, some men want me to take it off, once you are enjoying yourself you tend to forget about yourself and what you look like.

there are lots of big women on here who are having a good time, just concentrate on enjoying yourself.

you dont have to be skinny to enjoy sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And if we're offering solutions, let's have some for big bellied fellas

If there are any "
lol yes lets maybe we should have best tummy , lol 2013 pic xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never show my tummy on a meet. 9 months later and my current fuckbuddy hasn't seen it

If I'm in a babydoll or equivalent then I'm so much more confident!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I am definitley more confident when its covered. xx

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By *tella44carl42Couple
over a year ago

Grimsby

I agree, i feel so much better when my tummy is covered and there are some gorgeous sexy outfits out there that do the trick, by the way your boobs are fab so as the guys say they probably wouldnt even notice your tummy xx

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By *ooking4you69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

You shouldn't worry what anyone thinks......do what makes you feel comfortable and go with the flow x

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Do what makes YOU feel good....If you want to cover it then cover it...if you don't then don't...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And if we're offering solutions, let's have some for big bellied fellas

If there are any "

Yes, there are!

I loathe mine, I cant seem to shift it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like to show my tummy during a meet as I hate it. I am on a diet trying to lose weight off it but I know its never going to be flat. Should I always keep it covered or just get over it? "

Its not what you look like its the person inside xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like to show my tummy during a meet as I hate it. I am on a diet trying to lose weight off it but I know its never going to be flat. Should I always keep it covered or just get over it? "

We are all what we are..... Don't worry about it and be confident

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By *rokengirlWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I used to feel the same until I met my current partner who loves my size and shape and it forever touching my tummy kissing it etc.... The fact that he gets so turned on by something I used to be so paranoid about at first was very alien to me but now I live it and has given me bags of confidence so I would say show it all off and learn to love what you have xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get mine out first off...let's face it...its there regardless of what I wear can't miss it ...so guys can hardly say "oh your fat " when I strip off. It's NEVER been an issue !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

baby dolls are a lifesaver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear babydolls or something similar , i dont like my belly either xx

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"I don't like to show my tummy during a meet as I hate it. I am on a diet trying to lose weight off it but I know its never going to be flat. Should I always keep it covered or just get over it? "

you wouldnt believe the amount of women that keep an item on - personally I dont mind it, though its nice to find a woman comfy in her own skin. Keeping something over their stomachs is something I was told about years ago and I sort of take it and leave it now but a lump, bump, stretch here and there doesnt bother me in the least.

They are women of all shapes and sizes that do this though, its not just BBW at all.

If you thinking about this and that bit poking out or showing something is going to affect your orgasm/enjoyment as you'd be self conscious about it, then keep something on.. otherwise get a few shandys in ya, and burn that bra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"baby dolls are a lifesaver"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

u are only 21......... search amanda latona on youtube....... avoid take aways.and have a good healthy diet. and train..

mail me for nay fitness help . i am PT. u can get temporary solutions like covering it. but i would like to give u something permanent .. a better help.

cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"u are only 21......... search amanda latona on youtube....... avoid take aways.and have a good healthy diet. and train..

mail me for nay fitness help . i am PT. u can get temporary solutions like covering it. but i would like to give u something permanent .. a better help.

cheers"
after looking I can see why a lot would like to get into fitness ,

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"u are only 21......... search amanda latona on youtube....... avoid take aways.and have a good healthy diet. and train..

mail me for nay fitness help . i am PT. u can get temporary solutions like covering it. but i would like to give u something permanent .. a better help.

cheersafter looking I can see why a lot would like to get into fitness , "

and why people would holiday in Norwich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to feel the same until I met my current partner who loves my size and shape and it forever touching my tummy kissing it etc.... The fact that he gets so turned on by something I used to be so paranoid about at first was very alien to me but now I live it and has given me bags of confidence so I would say show it all off and learn to love what you have xx"

v v v v This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a personal ting to you, for me personally get over it as it would not put me off having a BBW showing her tummy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could always wear a fitted corset?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its how you feel ..if you feel more sexy not showing it thats fine, surely feeling sexy is down to how you feel inside whether you show your tummy or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wearing something is fine, in fact it can be sexier than naked.

But if you, deep down inside, aren't happy with what you see in the mirror, then do something about it. If you can tutn a blind eye to it and 'be comfortable with yourself' then do that. But "to thine own self be true" - in other words, don't fool yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" surely feeling sexy is down to how you feel inside whether you show your tummy or not "

Feeling sexy and looking sexy are two different things though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" surely feeling sexy is down to how you feel inside whether you show your tummy or not

Feeling sexy and looking sexy are two different things though"

..all starts with feeling sexy though!!..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree. Hard to feel sexy if you don't like what you see in the mirror. It's a catch-22, chicken and egg thing. It either requires an effort of mindset or an effort at the gym

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree. Hard to feel sexy if you don't like what you see in the mirror. "

I disagree.

I don't like what I see in the mirror, mainly as I am not attracted to people of my own build.

However, I know that other people do like what they see and being comfortable with someone that does promotes a feeling of sexiness.

I also dress appropriately for my build which in everyday life goes a long way into how you feel about yourself.

I also have a lot of self worth and confidence. That can also be seen as sexy.

Looking at 'sexy' in the physical form only is not looking at the whole picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i prefer to keep myself covered up because i have got stretch marks and you cant get rid of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody except the twats that spend more time on their bodies than actually having a life, we all have things about our bodies that WE are not happy with. I am not overweight anymore, but I was, hugely. (divorce works wonders for weight loss). But I still hate my body, I don't see anything right with it at all. But other people seem to, so surely that is all that matters no? Not everyone is shallow, if you have wobbly bits then hey, you are normal! Stop worrying about what people MAY think and just enjoy your body and let others enjoy it too!

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By *ecor atorMan
over a year ago

York

Not body minds a hamburger hill, life is does what it does once you get to an age.

Doesn't make the person any less sexy

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