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"It's mainly for women - is it something you enjoy doing? Are there certain positions/moves on top that really do it for you? I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them." Yes to this Meli, I also like the feeling when I lean right back and grab their thighs, only thing I don't like is reverse cowgirl, I can't get my balance and I can't lean in for a kiss in that position. | |||
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"It's mainly for women - is it something you enjoy doing? Are there certain positions/moves on top that really do it for you? I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them. " I'm slightly aroused reading that. | |||
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"It's mainly for women - is it something you enjoy doing? Are there certain positions/moves on top that really do it for you? I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them. Yes to this Meli, I also like the feeling when I lean right back and grab their thighs, only thing I don't like is reverse cowgirl, I can't get my balance and I can't lean in for a kiss in that position." I've never tried reverse cowgirl, I don't want to be winking away at them as I come - could have phrased that differently. Won't. When you lean right back do you find that thighs or near ankles is better to grab? | |||
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"It's mainly for women - is it something you enjoy doing? Are there certain positions/moves on top that really do it for you? I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them. Yes to this Meli, I also like the feeling when I lean right back and grab their thighs, only thing I don't like is reverse cowgirl, I can't get my balance and I can't lean in for a kiss in that position. I've never tried reverse cowgirl, I don't want to be winking away at them as I come - could have phrased that differently. Won't. When you lean right back do you find that thighs or near ankles is better to grab? " I usually grab the thighs but that is only because I really like thighs! | |||
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"I really enjoy it on some people and on others not at all. I love my boobs being played with sucks, my hips to be held and helped with the riding plus some long deep snogs yes pkease" this xx | |||
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" I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them. " Same as you OP. I love being on top for similar reasons but I don’t see it as selfish  | |||
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"Can I just say that lying back and watching a lady enjoying her herself on top is easily my favourite position (As you were ladies )"Ha, it's fine! I thought if I posted in this section it was less likely to receive daft comments. And I like reading different approaches and hope women don't mind sharing tips etc. | |||
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"I love reverse cowgirl but men are boob obsessed and always turn me round " What about taking turns?  | |||
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"I really enjoy it on some people and on others not at all. I love my boobs being played with sucks, my hips to be held and helped with the riding plus some long deep snogs yes pkease" Do you think it's down to how people fit or is it more the dynamic you have with someone? Hips being held is 🔥 | |||
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"I love reverse cowgirl but men are boob obsessed and always turn me round " reverse cowgirl is the best, seeing a beautiful arse bouncing on my cock is one of life’s greats | |||
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"I love reverse cowgirl but men are boob obsessed and always turn me round " Bums are also good! Only problem with this for me is when they just leap on but they’re not quite “fully ready” 
Like woooooo you’re going to injure me!
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"That’s ok we’ll play “guess which thread”" I deleted it hahahah | |||
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"That’s ok we’ll play “guess which thread” I deleted it hahahah" I think I read it. Interesting 😉 | |||
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" I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them. Same as you OP. I love being on top for similar reasons but I don’t see it as selfish " I think I do because I know and can do the bouncing motion that men enjoy. And it's great. But what really has me riding someone and coming around their cock is that grinding motion. I guess it depends on if the men enjoy it for what it is? And how much I do. Or a woman who is with them. | |||
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" I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them. Same as you OP. I love being on top for similar reasons but I don’t see it as selfish
I think I do because I know and can do the bouncing motion that men enjoy. And it's great. But what really has me riding someone and coming around their cock is that grinding motion. I guess it depends on if the men enjoy it for what it is? And how much I do. Or a woman who is with them. "I’d like to think that they at least appreciate the view as we do our thing 😊 | |||
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"Absolutely love it, don't even need to be asked lol x" Just throw him on his back and climb on. 😆 | |||
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" I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them. Same as you OP. I love being on top for similar reasons but I don’t see it as selfish
I think I do because I know and can do the bouncing motion that men enjoy. And it's great. But what really has me riding someone and coming around their cock is that grinding motion. I guess it depends on if the men enjoy it for what it is? And how much I do. Or a woman who is with them.
I’d like to think that they at least appreciate the view as we do our thing 😊"I can vouch for this 😎 | |||
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. Forgot how much i snd Mr W&W likes me going on top x | |||
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" I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them. Same as you OP. I love being on top for similar reasons but I don’t see it as selfish
I think I do because I know and can do the bouncing motion that men enjoy. And it's great. But what really has me riding someone and coming around their cock is that grinding motion. I guess it depends on if the men enjoy it for what it is? And how much I do. Or a woman who is with them. "In those moments, it is just about getting what I want. Kind of a just “shhhh” and let me do my thing, let me allow this orgasm to wash over me then I’ll be back in the room and you can join in again 🍭 | |||
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" I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them. Same as you OP. I love being on top for similar reasons but I don’t see it as selfish
I think I do because I know and can do the bouncing motion that men enjoy. And it's great. But what really has me riding someone and coming around their cock is that grinding motion. I guess it depends on if the men enjoy it for what it is? And how much I do. Or a woman who is with them.
In those moments, it is just about getting what I want. Kind of a just “shhhh” and let me do my thing, let me allow this orgasm to wash over me then I’ll be back in the room and you can join in again 🍭
"Yes. Yes. & yes. Absolutely selfish. I've yet to find it can be beaten. Must admit I save it for my hubby & me. It's an intimate connection that only he has ever " got " | |||
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"As much I take delight in being ridden — gentle but firm bouncing 'strokes' — I find that with grinding it's really down to technique. I enjoy it when it's done 'right' but sometimes I feel my shaft is getting contorted or kinked/bent against its natural anatomical shape. It's difficult to describe. In essence there's good grinding and not-so-good grinding. (Bouncing is erotic though: the aesthetic appeal of seeing her breasts sway indiscriminately like pendulums or bobble like frolic'ing baubles)." Agreed! When’s the results done right it’s mind blowing, some have been rather uncomfortable | |||
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" I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them. Same as you OP. I love being on top for similar reasons but I don’t see it as selfish
I think I do because I know and can do the bouncing motion that men enjoy. And it's great. But what really has me riding someone and coming around their cock is that grinding motion. I guess it depends on if the men enjoy it for what it is? And how much I do. Or a woman who is with them.
In those moments, it is just about getting what I want. Kind of a just “shhhh” and let me do my thing, let me allow this orgasm to wash over me then I’ll be back in the room and you can join in again 🍭
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"It's mainly for women - is it something you enjoy doing? Are there certain positions/moves on top that really do it for you? I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them. " Id say the grinding thing is common. Favourite position for me and wife is doggy but her on top is a second. She literally pushes down and grinds slowly then speeds up and slows and it’s definitely to make herself cum. When she does she literally shakes Bonus for me is seeing big boobs bounce around or bum if she’s the other way as I’m a BBW lover and boobs and bums So winner winner but the on top bit gives the lady the control | |||
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"Can I just say that lying back and watching a lady enjoying her herself on top is easily my favourite position (As you were ladies )"Why do men move? And nearly always go against me rhythm... its annoying... 😂 | |||
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"It's mainly for women - is it something you enjoy doing? Are there certain positions/moves on top that really do it for you? I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them. " this is exactly why my gf likes it, its one of only two positions that really make her cum hard! most of the time its the only position that makes her squirt. she loves using a vibrator at the same time too, or shell use another dildo on her arse if she reverse | |||
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"It's mainly for women - is it something you enjoy doing? Are there certain positions/moves on top that really do it for you? I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them. " Speak as a guy . I have to say I love a lady riding me . Taking it at her own pace and controlling the pressure. Having them cum over me is an amazing feeling | |||
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"Can I just say that lying back and watching a lady enjoying her herself on top is easily my favourite position (As you were ladies )
Why do men move? And nearly always go against me rhythm... its annoying... 😂 "Oh I see no reason to move, just let her do what she wants to. Also applies to my face | |||
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"Can I just say that lying back and watching a lady enjoying her herself on top is easily my favourite position (As you were ladies )
Why do men move? And nearly always go against me rhythm... its annoying... 😂 "It is!! I end up shouting stay still and pinning him down by his shoulders! | |||
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"Can I just say that lying back and watching a lady enjoying her herself on top is easily my favourite position (As you were ladies )
Why do men move? And nearly always go against me rhythm... its annoying... 😂
It is!! I end up shouting stay still and pinning him down by his shoulders!"My body is ready 🫡 | |||
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" I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them. Same as you OP. I love being on top for similar reasons but I don’t see it as selfish
I think I do because I know and can do the bouncing motion that men enjoy. And it's great. But what really has me riding someone and coming around their cock is that grinding motion. I guess it depends on if the men enjoy it for what it is? And how much I do. Or a woman who is with them.
In those moments, it is just about getting what I want. Kind of a just “shhhh” and let me do my thing, let me allow this orgasm to wash over me then I’ll be back in the room and you can join in again 🍭
"Yes that's it exactly it! I think I get so in to it a part of me is almost using them like my favourite dildo in that moment in time. In the nicest way. :D | |||
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"I love being on top. Just a gentle " cradle " rocking motion if you will. Hits every spot every time. It's mine ( & his ) favourite after a club sex. It's sooo kinda ... welcome home. "Aww welcome home! That's really lovely. I guess it's more the connection than the actual position that provides the intimacy. Oh rocking and long kisses could. | |||
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But yeah, I love being on top. Reverse cowgirl too 🤠 | |||
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"Oh I do…. and do exactly that, lean forward and even extend my legs and with that I can cum quite easily but it can take a bit of time… which makes me feel a bit self conscious that I’ve got my full weight on top of them
Wow, very inviting
But yeah, I love being on top. Reverse cowgirl too 🤠 " | |||
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