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By *eli OP Woman
4 weeks ago

It's mainly for women - is it something you enjoy doing? Are there certain positions/moves on top that really do it for you?

I think I'm quite selfish because I really enjoy the grinding sensation to get myself off. Oh and leaning slightly forward so I can fuck myself silly with their cock, controlling the depth. Teasing them.

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By *aizyWoman
4 weeks ago

west midlands

"It's mainly for women - is it something you enjoy doing? Are there certain positions/moves on top that really do it for you?

Yes to this Meli, I also like the feeling when I lean right back and grab their thighs, only thing I don't like is reverse cowgirl, I can't get my balance and I can't lean in for a kiss in that position.

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By *hybeamMan
4 weeks ago

Whyteleafe

It’s by far the best position with one of the best views in the world. I’m a boob man, it’s improved even more when she leans forward

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By *rNaughty84Man
4 weeks ago

Derby

Can I just say that lying back and watching a lady enjoying her herself on top is easily my favourite position

(As you were ladies

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By *partharmonyCouple
4 weeks ago

Ruislip

"It's mainly for women - is it something you enjoy doing? Are there certain positions/moves on top that really do it for you?

I'm slightly aroused reading that.

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By *roop69Man
4 weeks ago

St Columb Major

Mmmm my wife loves it on top

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By *imandher2Couple
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

My Kirsty can’t take mine if she is on top but I’ve had others who love it

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By *eli OP Woman
4 weeks ago

"It's mainly for women - is it something you enjoy doing? Are there certain positions/moves on top that really do it for you?

I've never tried reverse cowgirl, I don't want to be winking away at them as I come - could have phrased that differently. Won't.

When you lean right back do you find that thighs or near ankles is better to grab?

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By *jh59Man
4 weeks ago

Stoke Golding

Wife is always on top

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By *hunky GentMan
4 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

Can I start with a woman in the same room first?

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By *uriouscouple105Couple
4 weeks ago

Fife

Mrs luvs it on top and probably only way where she cums 1st 🤣

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By *aizyWoman
4 weeks ago

west midlands

"It's mainly for women - is it something you enjoy doing? Are there certain positions/moves on top that really do it for you?

I've never tried reverse cowgirl, I don't want to be winking away at them as I come - could have phrased that differently. Won't.

When you lean right back do you find that thighs or near ankles is better to grab? "

I usually grab the thighs but that is only because I really like thighs!

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By *ittynzWoman
4 weeks ago

Richmond

I really enjoy it on some people and on others not at all.

I love my boobs being played with sucks, my hips to be held and helped with the riding plus some long deep snogs yes pkease

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By *cottyl1983Man
4 weeks ago

Tyne and Wear

"I really enjoy it on some people and on others not at all.

I love my boobs being played with sucks, my hips to be held and helped with the riding plus some long deep snogs yes pkease"
this xx

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By *eardedguy83Man
4 weeks ago

Worcestershire

Following this thread very closely

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
4 weeks ago

Up North

Same as you OP. I love being on top for similar reasons but I don’t see it as selfish

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By *eli OP Woman
4 weeks ago

"Can I just say that lying back and watching a lady enjoying her herself on top is easily my favourite position

(As you were ladies

Ha, it's fine! I thought if I posted in this section it was less likely to receive daft comments. And I like reading different approaches and hope women don't mind sharing tips etc.

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By *arahHeartWoman
4 weeks ago

bolton

I love reverse cowgirl but men are boob obsessed and always turn me round

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By *hunky GentMan
4 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

"I love reverse cowgirl but men are boob obsessed and always turn me round "

What about taking turns?

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By *eli OP Woman
4 weeks ago

"I really enjoy it on some people and on others not at all.

I love my boobs being played with sucks, my hips to be held and helped with the riding plus some long deep snogs yes pkease"

Do you think it's down to how people fit or is it more the dynamic you have with someone?

Hips being held is 🔥

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By *k22ladMan
4 weeks ago

London

"I love reverse cowgirl but men are boob obsessed and always turn me round "
reverse cowgirl is the best, seeing a beautiful arse bouncing on my cock is one of life’s greats

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By *SCouple81Couple
4 weeks ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

We both love it

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By *spotpleasurerMan
4 weeks ago

Norwich

I've found many ladies (not all) enjoy being on top and in control of the depth, angle and speed. They get that look in their eyes when they're close and know they can grind away for immediate release or slow down to prolong the pleasure.

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By *each_BananaCouple
4 weeks ago

China

If we are having one of our big sessions Banana likes Peach on top as he can have a rest. He also likes playing with my tits and kissing them.

We do like ALL positions mostly. About six we LOVE so we keep going with them.

Peach

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By *otsossieMan
4 weeks ago

Chesterfield

"I love reverse cowgirl but men are boob obsessed and always turn me round "

Bums are also good!

Only problem with this for me is when they just leap on but they’re not quite “fully ready”

Like woooooo you’re going to injure me!

Too much drag!

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By *eeper ThanMan
4 weeks ago

Dartford

I kinda get off on a women basically just just my cock to ride and get off find the position that does it for her , it’s not a position that would make me cum but hey it’s still nice and a great view , so can let them get what they need then flip them over

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By *eeper ThanMan
4 weeks ago

Dartford

* using my cock

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By *eter56Man
4 weeks ago

Leeds

My wife loved being on top.

Usually came first. Then flipped over with me on top and we both came together if we were lucky

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By *hickthighs25Woman
4 weeks ago

Stockton

I did write a rather detailed thing of what i like but stupidly posted it on the wrong thread so im just gunna read all your guys answers now instead 🤣🤷‍♀️

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By *otsossieMan
4 weeks ago

Chesterfield

That’s ok we’ll play “guess which thread”

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By *hickthighs25Woman
4 weeks ago

Stockton

"That’s ok we’ll play “guess which thread”"

I deleted it hahahah

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By *otsossieMan
4 weeks ago

Chesterfield

Luckily someone requoted it first

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By *eardedguy83Man
4 weeks ago

Worcestershire

"That’s ok we’ll play “guess which thread”

I deleted it hahahah"

I think I read it. Interesting 😉

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By *wo-Of-a-KindCouple
4 weeks ago

Middle Earth

Absolutely love being on top. It makes me cum every time. Love the grinding motion and being encouraged with hands on my hips, such a turn on. As others say great to be able to make intense eye contact and even better if kissing happens as well. It's a definite YES from me..

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By *eli OP Woman
4 weeks ago

Same as you OP. I love being on top for similar reasons but I don’t see it as selfish

I think I do because I know and can do the bouncing motion that men enjoy. And it's great. But what really has me riding someone and coming around their cock is that grinding motion. I guess it depends on if the men enjoy it for what it is? And how much I do. Or a woman who is with them.

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
4 weeks ago

Up North

Same as you OP. I love being on top for similar reasons but I don’t see it as selfish

I’d like to think that they at least appreciate the view as we do our thing 😊

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By *mogen321TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Bournemouth

Probably want to have some in/out motion/ pressure whether vertically or horizontal. If you purely grind your clit he may not come. May be that’s good if you like round two.

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By *ildcatttWoman
4 weeks ago

Manchester

Yes I love it, bouncing is fun and enjoyable but grinding especially does it for me, I don't see it as selfish at all

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By *rMrs8790Couple
4 weeks ago

Southampton

Absolutely love it, don't even need to be asked lol x

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By *hunky GentMan
4 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

"Absolutely love it, don't even need to be asked lol x"

Just throw him on his back and climb on. 😆

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By *uck69xMan
4 weeks ago

cramlington

Love a lady on top especially if they are riding my mouth gag dildo such a wonderful sight

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
4 weeks ago

Bristol

Same as you OP. I love being on top for similar reasons but I don’t see it as selfish

I’d like to think that they at least appreciate the view as we do our thing 😊"

I can vouch for this 😎

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By *ustus5555Woman
4 weeks ago

Mansfield

I love being on top. Just a gentle " cradle " rocking motion if you will. Hits every spot every time.

It's mine ( & his ) favourite after a club sex. It's sooo kinda ... welcome home.

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By *et and WillingCouple
4 weeks ago

Nuneaton

After over a year with a knee problem im just getting back in the saddle

. Forgot how much i snd Mr W&W likes me going on top x

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
4 weeks ago

North West

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
4 weeks ago

North West

Same as you OP. I love being on top for similar reasons but I don’t see it as selfish

In those moments, it is just about getting what I want. Kind of a just “shhhh” and let me do my thing, let me allow this orgasm to wash over me then I’ll be back in the room and you can join in again 🍭

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Women are entirely on top on this site...James Brown was wrong.

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By *eroLondonMan
4 weeks ago

Mayfair

As much I take delight in being ridden — gentle but firm bouncing 'strokes' — I find that with grinding it's really down to technique. I enjoy it when it's done 'right' but sometimes I feel my shaft is getting contorted or kinked/bent against its natural anatomical shape. It's difficult to describe.

In essence there's good grinding and not-so-good grinding.

(Bouncing is erotic though: the aesthetic appeal of seeing her breasts sway indiscriminately like pendulums or bobble like frolic'ing baubles).

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

I don't think it's selfish. If that's what the woman likes/prefers, its fine with me

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By *ustus5555Woman
4 weeks ago

Mansfield

Same as you OP. I love being on top for similar reasons but I don’t see it as selfish

Yes.

& yes. Absolutely selfish. I've yet to find it can be beaten.

Must admit I save it for my hubby & me. It's an intimate connection that only he has ever " got "

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By *usty kayWoman
4 weeks ago

Burnham on Sea

I used to hate it. Always felt like I was doing sowething wrong.

Then I met an ex fb who turned it around for me and with him it was one of the most intense experiences I've ever had. Particularly when I was denying him the pleasure he was begging for.

It's now something I'm more interested in but still feel very self conscious and uncomfortable with.

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
4 weeks ago

Bristol

"As much I take delight in being ridden — gentle but firm bouncing 'strokes' — I find that with grinding it's really down to technique. I enjoy it when it's done 'right' but sometimes I feel my shaft is getting contorted or kinked/bent against its natural anatomical shape. It's difficult to describe.

In essence there's good grinding and not-so-good grinding.

(Bouncing is erotic though: the aesthetic appeal of seeing her breasts sway indiscriminately like pendulums or bobble like frolic'ing baubles)."

Agreed! When’s the results done right it’s mind blowing, some have been rather uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Same as you OP. I love being on top for similar reasons but I don’t see it as selfish

I'd be absolutely fine with this as well

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By *emptusboth777Couple
4 weeks ago

oxford

Love it.

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By *vaRoseWoman
4 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Yeah I love it, I admit I enjoy using him for my pleasure this way

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By *emptme1993Man
4 weeks ago

Manchester

I love it, one of my favourite positions, love everything about it 🤤

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By *igad999Man
4 weeks ago

wolverhampton

"It's mainly for women - is it something you enjoy doing? Are there certain positions/moves on top that really do it for you?

Id say the grinding thing is common.

Favourite position for me and wife is doggy but her on top is a second.

She literally pushes down and grinds slowly then speeds up and slows and it’s definitely to make herself cum.

When she does she literally shakes

Bonus for me is seeing big boobs bounce around or bum if she’s the other way as I’m a BBW lover and boobs and bums

So winner winner but the on top bit gives the lady the control

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By *riel13Woman
4 weeks ago

Northampton

I love being on top... More so when I am keeping fit (not necessarily in shape) as it's easier to go for longer... Used to have a verification that said I rode like Frankie Detori

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By *riendlyFunSeekersCouple
4 weeks ago

Gloucester

Yep thie is a good one. But also good to see their face and body the other way

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By *icole-everyWoman
4 weeks ago

Leicester

"Can I just say that lying back and watching a lady enjoying her herself on top is easily my favourite position

(As you were ladies

Why do men move? And nearly always go against me rhythm... its annoying... 😂

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By *oung40Man
4 weeks ago

thirsk

"It's mainly for women - is it something you enjoy doing? Are there certain positions/moves on top that really do it for you?

this is exactly why my gf likes it, its one of only two positions that really make her cum hard! most of the time its the only position that makes her squirt.

she loves using a vibrator at the same time too, or shell use another dildo on her arse if she reverse

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By *ickawitchCouple
4 weeks ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"It's mainly for women - is it something you enjoy doing? Are there certain positions/moves on top that really do it for you?

Speak as a guy . I have to say I love a lady riding me . Taking it at her own pace and controlling the pressure. Having them cum over me is an amazing feeling

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By *d4funtimesMan
4 weeks ago

Cambridge

It feels good, and the view too

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By *rNaughty84Man
4 weeks ago

Derby

"Can I just say that lying back and watching a lady enjoying her herself on top is easily my favourite position

(As you were ladies

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Why do men move? And nearly always go against me rhythm... its annoying... 😂 "

Oh I see no reason to move, just let her do what she wants to. Also applies to my face

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By *ideshaft1971Man
4 weeks ago

Midlands

Absolutely love a woman to lower herself down on me and then choose how much she takes and how fast plus of course I have an amazing view of two amazing bouncing breasts, yes please!

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By *aizyWoman
4 weeks ago

west midlands

"Can I just say that lying back and watching a lady enjoying her herself on top is easily my favourite position

(As you were ladies

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Why do men move? And nearly always go against me rhythm... its annoying... 😂 "

It is!! I end up shouting stay still and pinning him down by his shoulders!

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
4 weeks ago

Bristol

"Can I just say that lying back and watching a lady enjoying her herself on top is easily my favourite position

(As you were ladies

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Why do men move? And nearly always go against me rhythm... its annoying... 😂

It is!! I end up shouting stay still and pinning him down by his shoulders!"

My body is ready 🫡

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By *eli OP Woman
4 weeks ago

Same as you OP. I love being on top for similar reasons but I don’t see it as selfish

Yes that's it exactly it! I think I get so in to it a part of me is almost using them like my favourite dildo in that moment in time. In the nicest way. :D

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By *eli OP Woman
4 weeks ago

"I love being on top. Just a gentle " cradle " rocking motion if you will. Hits every spot every time.

It's mine ( & his ) favourite after a club sex. It's sooo kinda ... welcome home.

Aww welcome home! That's really lovely. I guess it's more the connection than the actual position that provides the intimacy. Oh rocking and long kisses could.

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By *viatrixWoman
4 weeks ago

Redhill

Oh I do…. and do exactly that, lean forward and even extend my legs and with that I can cum quite easily but it can take a bit of time… which makes me feel a bit self conscious that I’ve got my full weight on top of them

But yeah, I love being on top. Reverse cowgirl too 🤠

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By *d4funtimesMan
4 weeks ago

Cambridge

"Oh I do…. and do exactly that, lean forward and even extend my legs and with that I can cum quite easily but it can take a bit of time… which makes me feel a bit self conscious that I’ve got my full weight on top of them

Wow, very inviting

But yeah, I love being on top. Reverse cowgirl too 🤠 "

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