FabSwingers.com forum: Bareback sex

By *aggyballs98 OP Man
4 weeks ago

Cheshire

Is there anyway to make bareback sex safe I know certain people on this site like it and others won’t take the risk. Just keep things civil

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By *iss DevilWoman
4 weeks ago

Bedford

I don't think you can make it completely safe. But I would go for:

1) get thoroughly tested - make sure you follow recommended "post exposure" times as not every single STD has the same incubation period

2) abstain from any sexual activity while waiting for the test results

3) once all parties have the "all clear", provided they followed steps 1 and 2 to the letter, arrange mutually agreeable date to meet

4) abstain from any sexual activity until the set day of the meet.

And have fun!

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By *iss DevilWoman
4 weeks ago

Bedford

Also, very importantly, respect boundaries! If people don't want to engage in bareback, don't push.

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By *tlanshiaWoman
4 weeks ago

Chatham

"I don't think you can make it completely safe. But I would go for:

1) get thoroughly tested - make sure you follow recommended "post exposure" times as not every single STD has the same incubation period

2) abstain from any sexual activity while waiting for the test results

3) once all parties have the "all clear", provided they followed steps 1 and 2 to the letter, arrange mutually agreeable date to meet

4) abstain from any sexual activity until the set day of the meet.

And have fun! "

This. But again HIV can take months to show so even that isn't complete safe, and HPv doesn't show on a sexual health screening.

I wouldn't trust someone who said they've had no sexual activity since the test.

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By *aggyballs98 OP Man
4 weeks ago

Cheshire

"Also, very importantly, respect boundaries! If people don't want to engage in bareback, don't push. "

Stop twisting what I’ve said. I never said I even have bareback sex.

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By *aggyballs98 OP Man
4 weeks ago

Cheshire

"I don't think you can make it completely safe. But I would go for:

1) get thoroughly tested - make sure you follow recommended "post exposure" times as not every single STD has the same incubation period

2) abstain from any sexual activity while waiting for the test results

3) once all parties have the "all clear", provided they followed steps 1 and 2 to the letter, arrange mutually agreeable date to meet

4) abstain from any sexual activity until the set day of the meet.

And have fun!

This. But again HIV can take months to show so even that isn't complete safe, and HPv doesn't show on a sexual health screening.

I wouldn't trust someone who said they've had no sexual activity since the test. "

I’ve actually not heard of this hpv before. I recently heard some people just take PREP all year round to prevent hiv it’s 99% effective for sexual hiv and 70% effective for needle hiv transmission according to a quick Google search

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By *absFrenchGentMan
4 weeks ago

stafford

Gardasil 9 is the vaccine for HPV

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By *woamigosCouple
4 weeks ago

harrow

we like to go for married couples as they are more careful and also dont meet people with loads of verifications. after that we like to really discuss it on a social meet before committing ourselves

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By *woamigosCouple
4 weeks ago

harrow

at the end of the day you have to find out about your new friends, listen to what they say and decide if you can trust them

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By *EWAYSMan
4 weeks ago

Tingley, Leeds

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By *EWAYSMan
4 weeks ago

Tingley, Leeds

That's actually a really good point. Never thought about it. The way I looked at it was lots of verifications means they are very reliable.

You can have bb sex whilst taking PrEp on a regular basis which can prevent HIV (not sure about the exact percentage) but won't prevent you from contracting other sti's

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By *iss DevilWoman
4 weeks ago

Bedford

Just because someone has got loads of verifications, it doesn't mean every single one of them was from a play meet. On the other hand, people with few verifications may still have been meeting, and playing, just either choose not to receive verifications, or choose not to display them. I wouldn't base my judgement whether someone is "safe" or not solely on the number of verifications they have.

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