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"Can you please post some pictures of the guys? I know that they’re shy, I know that the women might look nicer but we’re really not going to entertain meeting you without seeing both of you. Thanks" We've tried many different combinations over the years even pictures of only Mr,but still all the messages are aimed at Mrs. Unless we change our message filters. It's for the most part pointless 😔 | |||
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"Can you please post some pictures of the guys? I know that they’re shy, I know that the women might look nicer but we’re really not going to entertain meeting you without seeing both of you. Thanks" Amen! Our biggest gripe with Fab is how few couples show the man, as if knowing roughly what he looks like us irrelevant when considering if you might want to meet a couple. Our pictures are pretty even between both of us. | |||
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"Can you please post some pictures of the guys? I know that they’re shy, I know that the women might look nicer but we’re really not going to entertain meeting you without seeing both of you. Thanks We've tried many different combinations over the years even pictures of only Mr,but still all the messages are aimed at Mrs. Unless we change our message filters. It's for the most part pointless 😔" I can’t speak for your experience and I understand it but we’re not going to engage or meet people where it’s only the woman and we have zero idea of what they guy looks like | |||
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"We have a few but they don’t really get much interest other than from other men." Do fabs matter? It’s about letting other people see what you both look like, if you’re both meeting, that’s the very basics | |||
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"Omg yasssss... all cocks welcome ![]() Not just cocks, actual bodies | |||
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"Omg yasssss... all cocks welcome ![]() Sorry to confuse, I was answering on my solo profile. | |||
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"We have a few but they don’t really get much interest other than from other men." At least the woman of any couples you engage with know who they’re talking to 🙂 I find it disrespectful when a profile has just the woman but they’re looking for couples - either it’s assumed I’ll play with anyone or the guy thinks he’s off putting. But either way I should have an idea of what he looks like! L | |||
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"Can you please post some pictures of the guys? I know that they’re shy, I know that the women might look nicer but we’re really not going to entertain meeting you without seeing both of you. Thanks We've tried many different combinations over the years even pictures of only Mr,but still all the messages are aimed at Mrs. Unless we change our message filters. It's for the most part pointless 😔 I can’t speak for your experience and I understand it but we’re not going to engage or meet people where it’s only the woman and we have zero idea of what they guy looks like" This is why we always insist on a social meet first before any play. Photos can be manipulated or old not giving an accurate representation of the people. If we go along and they are not our cup of tea or vice versa well so be it, we've had a night out and a chat. | |||
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"Can you please post some pictures of the guys? I know that they’re shy, I know that the women might look nicer but we’re really not going to entertain meeting you without seeing both of you. Thanks We've tried many different combinations over the years even pictures of only Mr,but still all the messages are aimed at Mrs. Unless we change our message filters. It's for the most part pointless 😔 I can’t speak for your experience and I understand it but we’re not going to engage or meet people where it’s only the woman and we have zero idea of what they guy looks like This is why we always insist on a social meet first before any play. Photos can be manipulated or old not giving an accurate representation of the people. If we go along and they are not our cup of tea or vice versa well so be it, we've had a night out and a chat." But… why should we need to go and meet someone to actually see one half of the couple, that my partner would potentially be fucking? Just post a picture or two! | |||
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"We have a few but they don’t really get much interest other than from other men. At least the woman of any couples you engage with know who they’re talking to 🙂 I find it disrespectful when a profile has just the woman but they’re looking for couples - either it’s assumed I’ll play with anyone or the guy thinks he’s off putting. But either way I should have an idea of what he looks like! L" I agree. We don’t live together, we don’t get much time together so why would we waste that on a couple where we have no clue as to what half of them look like? Especially when we’re very clearly out there | |||
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"We have a few but they don’t really get much interest other than from other men. Do fabs matter? It’s about letting other people see what you both look like, if you’re both meeting, that’s the very basics" No they don’t really matter, but its nice to get one ![]() | |||
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"We have a few but they don’t really get much interest other than from other men. Do fabs matter? It’s about letting other people see what you both look like, if you’re both meeting, that’s the very basics No they don’t really matter, but its nice to get one ![]() Sure. If you want to meet couples though, it’s about aiming at that, not fabs. | |||
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"We have a few but they don’t really get much interest other than from other men. Do fabs matter? It’s about letting other people see what you both look like, if you’re both meeting, that’s the very basics No they don’t really matter, but its nice to get one ![]() Nice boxers by the way. You do have a mix so gold star | |||
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"We try and keep ours at 50/50 - mix of solo and of us together to show we really are a couple We play as a pair so what you see is what you get 😊" 🎉🎊 | |||
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"We have a few up. But Meg is so much more fantastic than me, in every way. (Though she did make me wear those pants for a date!) Max " Even a few is better than none. Mr has good arms and the pants look great | |||
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"The split of fabbed photos is interesting though. In very clear order of most fabbed it goes Mrs Mrs and Mr Mr" And when the Mr pics do get fabbed its not by the gender they want lol. | |||
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"I find it quite bizarre to see only the woman visually represented, especially when it's usually the man sending the messages, too. It's like they're using their partner as bait ![]() I tend to agree with the sentiment of ‘bait’. Cas isn’t going to play Russian cocklette | |||
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"I find it quite bizarre to see only the woman visually represented, especially when it's usually the man sending the messages, too. It's like they're using their partner as bait ![]() Russian Cocklette.... haha love it | |||
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"We have to agree! Hopefully our profile is pretty balanced but it’s always a disappointment when Mr Invisible strikes. " Love your photos, some really creative poses 😍 | |||
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"We have to agree! Hopefully our profile is pretty balanced but it’s always a disappointment when Mr Invisible strikes. Love your photos, some really creative poses 😍" Thank you! That’s all S 😂 | |||
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"I love that we have pics of hubby on ours ! " Very hot profile. 🥵 | |||
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"Can you please post some pictures of the guys? I know that they’re shy, I know that the women might look nicer but we’re really not going to entertain meeting you without seeing both of you. Thanks" Spot on x | |||
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"Can we also add that we like to see more than just close up shots of the lady, some mid and full length (understand no faces), they can be clothed, your body is your body, if you plan to meet others will see it then." We hate seeing close ups, how do you know what they actually look like? | |||
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"Can we also add that we like to see more than just close up shots of the lady, some mid and full length (understand no faces), they can be clothed, your body is your body, if you plan to meet others will see it then. We hate seeing close ups, how do you know what they actually look like? " Agree we try and include context ![]() | |||
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"There are more of Lucy on our profile but still plenty of me. Lucy justifiably does get 95% of the attention." You’ve more than most. You only have to look at the hot pics to understand the imbalance between men and women getting fabbed, it’s not about who is more attractive, it’s just a simple case that men don’t get fabbed. Guys, put your pictures up. We want to see you | |||
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"We always share our pics on return it sorts everything out we like to see the male half of the couple as much as we enjoy seeing the female " Why would anyone want or need to dig or request pictures of half of a couple? Just put pictures of the man up | |||
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"I understand that the femmes get more love but why would anyone meet a couple without seeing both partners? Cmon guys, get yourselves out there! " To be fair one of them has to take the picture and bet it’s usually the man. But good to see a few pics of the gentleman. | |||
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"We have a few but couples are mostly interested in the Mrs. There a few more of him on the friends only. " It depends on the dynamic but if he’s going to be there and playing, there should be pictures. | |||
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"We do but can't force people to like them" No, there will always be a disparity between the pictures of women vs men. It’s about who you’re looking to meet and representing that not who fabs your pictures. Cas already has several pictures into the hundreds, my pictures are on a dozen, it doesn’t matter. We want to meet couples and they need to see me too. I’m here, it’s us. People need to see both | |||
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"Can you please post some pictures of the guys? " What would sort of pictures would you want to see on a profile of the mr ? | |||
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"Can you please post some pictures of the guys? What would sort of pictures would you want to see on a profile of the mr ? " Full body shots, torso, legs. There are lots of options. They won’t get the fabs in the way that photos of women do but that’s not the point. The point is that no woman will want to play with a man she can’t see. That’s true here on my solo profile and my couple profile. | |||
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"Can you please post some pictures of the guys? What would sort of pictures would you want to see on a profile of the mr ? Full body shots, torso, legs. There are lots of options. They won’t get the fabs in the way that photos of women do but that’s not the point. The point is that no woman will want to play with a man she can’t see. That’s true here on my solo profile and my couple profile." This is exactly it! As a couple I can’t imagine that anyone would want to meet anyone they can’t see. Just post the pictures! | |||
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"There are plenty of Mr on our profile, hope you enjoy ![]() Fantastic | |||
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"Check our profile naughty people Xx " 🎉💪😈 | |||
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"Maybe send a friend request x" Why is that necessary? Just put pictures of the guy as public | |||
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"Can you please post some pictures of the guys? I know that they’re shy, I know that the women might look nicer but we’re really not going to entertain meeting you without seeing both of you. Thanks" no we are only looking for single men x | |||
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