FabSwingers.com forum: What is so wrong with me?

By *hubster2016 OP Man
6 weeks ago

Taunton

For many many years I’ve been told I’m ugly im fat (even after loosing 8stone n getting to 14 stone).

I’m too nice, I’m just a friend etc etc

It’s got to the point I hate what I see in the mirror I know not to even try n flirt coz I’ll just get shot down.

Am I really that bad???

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
6 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

No you're not bad at all. We all have our own demons, but negativity (just saw your status), is not going to get anyone's juices flowing. Sometimes we just have to fake it til we make it!!

Chin up 🥰

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
6 weeks ago

Perpignan and cap

Come on, chin up young fellow me lad.

You might have more luck out there in the real world. Find a girl, say hello and see where things go from there.

There's a lot of us weirdos on here.

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By *pecialk555Woman
6 weeks ago

Normanton

There is nothing wrong with you, we all have different body types that we prefer but doesn't make you any less worthy of trying to meet people, I didn't see you status so can't comment but sometimes negativity puts people off maybe making the first move towards you. Well done for your weight loss & I hope that you are able to find someone to meet up with.

🍑 X

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
6 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

No there isn't anything wrong with you at all.

Many people like different body types, we for instance actively look for bigger men and theres plenty more on here that do.

Chin up OP

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By *he MinionMan
6 weeks ago

Gotta be happy with yourself first pal. Congrats on the 8 stone weight loss, you should be incredibly proud of this and focus on the positives rather than the negatives.

Embrace that achievement, bet it wasnt easy and yet you did it. Smile. You're the man, 8 stone... i'm trying to shed some weight and struggling so own your highs.

Not everyone is going to fancy you. Or me. Or him. Or her. But having a positive outlook will certainly not hurt. I'm no oil painting but confidence, a good sense of humour, a cheeky glint in the eye and a filthy mind go along way (sometimes)

Keep smiling, be happy, good luck pal

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