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What's the general attitude to anonymous swinging here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Personally, I like the mystery/danger of completely anonymous meets, but am not so sure about the reality. I've generally at least seen a few pictures and got an idea about the other person/couple/group via chat beforehand. But the completely anonymous scene is still a big fantasy. Maybe that's where I should leave it...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't know if there is a general attitude but my/our attitude is that it's not something we'd ever consider. Fantasy is one thing but the reality of meeting someone you don't find remotely attractive is another altogether.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

We often play that way in clubs. Usually in a group scenario where we don't even know the names of the people we're playing with - sex with complete strangers... but in a safe environment where we can check out the 'potentials' first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

By anonymous I meant not even seeing their face. though I suppose there are degrees of anonymous, and you can pick whatever you feel comfortable with.

Like many things, it could be a slippery slope

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"By anonymous I meant not even seeing their face. though I suppose there are degrees of anonymous, and you can pick whatever you feel comfortable with.

Like many things, it could be a slippery slope"

I guess it would be a fairly common fantasy ... being blindfolded, not knowing who's touching / licking etc. I know some people on here have done it but I like maintaining some control so I don't think I could do it in reality. Much like a dark room, the idea is horny but the reality is far from it - for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally, I like the mystery/danger of completely anonymous meets, but am not so sure about the reality. I've generally at least seen a few pictures and got an idea about the other person/couple/group via chat beforehand. But the completely anonymous scene is still a big fantasy. Maybe that's where I should leave it..."

go for it what have you got to loose, the time it takes to get ready and get to the meet? If you don't like have a drink and leave,its no big deal,i think we should try everything once, if you fancy it do it

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