FabSwingers.com forum: Popping my cherry

By *et_and_Curvy OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

I am finding it a challenge to speak to another woman to pop my bi side cherry.

I'm mostly getting couples who want to meet, but I am wanting a solo meet.

I thought I'd post on here to see if there is any like minded woman who want the same - or to help me on my adventure of finally opening up my bi side.

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By *equenasPasionesWoman
2 weeks ago

Nottingham

Speaking for myself and a lot of other women, sometimes its not appealing when the woman isnt experienced. It can kind of come across as an experiment which isnt that fun as I'd want the woman to be fully into it. So that might be the reason single women are harder to connect with.

Clubs might be a better option as you can meet people face to face and explain the vibe you're looking for 🙂

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By *ezandCCouple
2 weeks ago

Telford

With couples is it that you don’t want the man there at all, or just don’t want to do anything with a man. I have watched kez with a lady a couple of times with no interaction at all from me. We totally understand a lot of ladies aren’t into that but you may be able to get your experience that way?

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By *et_and_Curvy OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

"Speaking for myself and a lot of other women, sometimes its not appealing when the woman isnt experienced. It can kind of come across as an experiment which isnt that fun as I'd want the woman to be fully into it. So that might be the reason single women are harder to connect with.

Clubs might be a better option as you can meet people face to face and explain the vibe you're looking for 🙂"

Thank you, I completely understand that part of the things.

Only thing I've done is be a pillow princess, and kissed a few girls before I got with my husband.

As a couple, we are looking to go to a club. Which you're right, that might be the place for me to start getting more involved with woman.

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By *et_and_Curvy OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

"With couples is it that you don’t want the man there at all, or just don’t want to do anything with a man. I have watched kez with a lady a couple of times with no interaction at all from me. We totally understand a lot of ladies aren’t into that but you may be able to get your experience that way?"

I think it's just boundaries at the moment. As I do have a couples account with my husband.

We're interested in swapping, so maybe that's the route I'll go down to start things off.

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'm not your target, as a straight woman, however it's notoriously hard for women to meet other ladies solo here.

There's been thread after thread about it.

As most couples are looking for that elusive ffm, it's not surprising that's who you're getting messages from. I did and I don't meet couples (except with my partner on our couple account).

Is there something that puts you off couples, as you mention enjoying ffm in your bio?.

As someone else said above, most bi women don't want to be someones experiment though. They're here for themselves and their own pleasure, not to teach etc.

Definitely look at clubs, I think the townhouse does a ladies event, I'm not sure what day /dates though.

Maybe have a look at it's website and see what it has on for ladies.

Good luck

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By *et_and_Curvy OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

"I'm not your target, as a straight woman, however it's notoriously hard for women to meet other ladies solo here.

There's been thread after thread about it.

As most couples are looking for that elusive ffm, it's not surprising that's who you're getting messages from. I did and I don't meet couples (except with my partner on our couple account).

Is there something that puts you off couples, as you mention enjoying ffm in your bio?.

As someone else said above, most bi women don't want to be someones experiment though. They're here for themselves and their own pleasure, not to teach etc.

Definitely look at clubs, I think the townhouse does a ladies event, I'm not sure what day /dates though.

Maybe have a look at it's website and see what it has on for ladies.

Good luck "

Same things as you, I would do it with my husband.

We've cammed with others, we've yet to meet anyone, but we have arranged a social to get things going a little.

Maybe me meeting a couple is on the horizon, but for now, not yet.

Yes, we are close to The Townhouse. We have looked at it, but wanting to go further out out the way.

Thank you.

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"I'm not your target, as a straight woman, however it's notoriously hard for women to meet other ladies solo here.

There's been thread after thread about it.

As most couples are looking for that elusive ffm, it's not surprising that's who you're getting messages from. I did and I don't meet couples (except with my partner on our couple account).

Is there something that puts you off couples, as you mention enjoying ffm in your bio?.

As someone else said above, most bi women don't want to be someones experiment though. They're here for themselves and their own pleasure, not to teach etc.

Definitely look at clubs, I think the townhouse does a ladies event, I'm not sure what day /dates though.

Maybe have a look at it's website and see what it has on for ladies.

Good luck

Same things as you, I would do it with my husband.

We've cammed with others, we've yet to meet anyone, but we have arranged a social to get things going a little.

Maybe me meeting a couple is on the horizon, but for now, not yet.

Yes, we are close to The Townhouse. We have looked at it, but wanting to go further out out the way.

Thank you. "

You're welcome. Quest in Leeds have ladies nights, I think the lady who arranges them is called kinky little m, if you fancied having a look at those.

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
2 weeks ago

Gloucester

Like you I have a couples account but am also bi hence this account.I have had many experiences with other women and am looking for more without a guy involved, as your not experienced as others have said definitely try a club, see if it’s something you genuinely want to enjoy. Good luck

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By *andy IanMan
2 weeks ago

cheshire/Preston

My FWB was bi and had the same problem meeting other ladies who wanted bi fun. She always seemed to take the lead and give pleasure then be left waiting for her turn which rarely came. Meeting couples in clubs gave the best results we (the men) would watch them get acquainted sometimes play in front of us. She got more from it by starting in front of us then going to a private room to play alone. She always came back with a smile on her face and rarely told me what they had done.

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
2 weeks ago

the moon

I’ll pop it 😝 🍒💣

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By *ittlebirdWoman
2 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Clubs might be a better option as you can meet people face to face and explain the vibe you're looking for 🙂"

Totally agree with you on this. This is my point of view too. OP there are a number of women only socials too that may be better to make connections.

Personally I’m not here to pop anyone’s cherry. I’m here for mutual satisfaction, not to be a tick on the list.

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By *partharmonyCouple
2 weeks ago

Ruislip

Hannah has been with another woman a couple of times and I was not present or involved in any way (other than encouragement).

She would be welcome to again but she isn't comfortable making the first move, which I completely understand. It would take somebody chatting her up.

It's unfortunate that here there are a lot of couples who (reportedly) has interest in ff only and use that as an excuse to bring the man in. That's not on.

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By *et_and_Curvy OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

Clubs might be a better option as you can meet people face to face and explain the vibe you're looking for 🙂

Totally agree with you on this. This is my point of view too. OP there are a number of women only socials too that may be better to make connections.

Personally I’m not here to pop anyone’s cherry. I’m here for mutual satisfaction, not to be a tick on the list. "

Completely understand your point of view, and how you want to be satisfied with an experienced woman.

I'm 100% confident in knowing what my sexuality is. The opportunity for me has not been there.

As a 36 year old woman, with a understanding husband, I'm wanting to get out there.

I guess we can all say we want to try new things. That's why we have the swingers community.

I'm definitely taking everyone's advice, and I will look into the woman only social and look for a club. Thank you.

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By *ust and PoundCouple
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

Hey guys, this is our couple account and I'm Pierce, the male half.

Appreciate some of the good points that have been made, which has made for a good conversation between us.

I'm fully comfortable with Lucy meeting other women solo as I've known she's bi for years and know what experiences she's had with woman from before us.

We've been very fortunate to have a fantastic long term relationship, so she's not had a chance to indulge her full sexuality. But we both agree monogamy is over for us.

For me, I dont want to be sat in the corner watching like I'm expecting an invite. Wouldn't want her and another woman to feel uncomfortable like they have to put on a show, as thats not what we're about.

I'm happy for us to play together with couples and more, and Lucy to have have her own fun.

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