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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Question for couples. Have any of you felt jealous going swinging with partner or have your partners ever been jealous? Surely there is a hint of jealousy seeing your partner having wild time with someone else, even if you are involved. And surely partners make comments like 'he/she was amazing' or 'that was my best experience ever' dont comments like that bother you?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Nope....never...

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

na we to busy shagging afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Likewise.

If a couple cannot genuinely put jealousy aside then swinging is the last thing they should be messing with.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Likewise.

If a couple cannot genuinely put jealousy aside then swinging is the last thing they should be messing with.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Never, mine has even driven me to socials and then left me there. Wouldnt be together if there was any jealousy whatsoever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a theory that many of the "single" guys on fab have girlfriends or wives who would be interested in swinging but the guy would be jealous.

A while back one guy we talked with made it absolutely clear he wanted to fuck Mrs jimp1 but would not tolerate his own wife messing around!!

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By *ilkynmyzzyCouple
over a year ago

Bridlington

A while back one guy we talked with made it absolutely clear he wanted to fuck Mrs jimp1 but would not tolerate his own wife messing around!!

More than a little hypocritical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A while back one guy we talked with made it absolutely clear he wanted to fuck Mrs jimp1 but would not tolerate his own wife messing around!!

More than a little hypocritical "

Just a bit. He just couldnt understand why I would allow another guy to have sex with my wife.

It was clear he was just unable to get his head around the whole swinging concept.

We stopped corresponding with him but reckon his ideas are pretty widespread.

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By *inful_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Hell no... Leave that bullshit at the door before you enter a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Likewise.

If a couple cannot genuinely put jealousy aside then swinging is the last thing they should be messing with.

"

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By *oversforfun2000Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

I am totally surprised at my (mrs lovers) lack of jealously I was known to be quite jealous before!! Now I get mega turned on at mr lovers having a good time with or without me there!!

There is a lot to be said for the sex you have with your partner after you have had fun with someone else!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never felt jealous seeing Paul with another woman, in fact i love it. No room for jealousy in this lifestyle and if you feel jealous then you probably should say something before that jealousy turns to resentment

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"A while back one guy we talked with made it absolutely clear he wanted to fuck Mrs jimp1 but would not tolerate his own wife messing around!!

More than a little hypocritical

Just a bit. He just couldnt understand why I would allow another guy to have sex with my wife.

It was clear he was just unable to get his head around the whole swinging concept.

We stopped corresponding with him but reckon his ideas are pretty widespread."

They are. I've met plenty of single guys who think it's great to meet/ play with me but are horrified at the thought of their partner (if they had one) doing similar. If I/we find that out before play = no play. If I/ we find it out after = def no chance of re-play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The responders above, the usual suspects if I may be so bold, are obviously great with the swinging format; and that is excellent.

I have however found situations where the man from the couple appears to be jealous at some point. This is especially true if the attitude of woman towards me is "warmer" then he would like. There is a fine balance between sexual lust and pleasure and displays of apparent emotion and even affection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get jealous when we swing, but can do in real life

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

There is no doubt that jealousy does occur with some couples....sure we have all seen it at some point....

But we cant talk for them, only ourselves....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The responders above, the usual suspects if I may be so bold, are obviously great with the swinging format; and that is excellent.

I have however found situations where the man from the couple appears to be jealous at some point. This is especially true if the attitude of woman towards me is "warmer" then he would like. There is a fine balance between sexual lust and pleasure and displays of apparent emotion and even affection. "

Mrs jimp1 has enthusiastically enjoyed sex with a number of guys over the years - many of whom were younger than me, fitter or better endowed.

The important thing is at the end of the evening she left with me.

I have no problem differentiating between good sex & love. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" And surely partners make comments like 'he/she was amazing' or 'that was my best experience ever' dont comments like that bother you? "

Jealousy aside, why would you ever say something like that to your partner?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


" And surely partners make comments like 'he/she was amazing' or 'that was my best experience ever' dont comments like that bother you?

Jealousy aside, why would you ever say something like that to your partner? "

Exactly!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" And surely partners make comments like 'he/she was amazing' or 'that was my best experience ever' dont comments like that bother you?

Jealousy aside, why would you ever say something like that to your partner? "

Wouldnt you talk about experiences and say how much you enjoyed it

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


" And surely partners make comments like 'he/she was amazing' or 'that was my best experience ever' dont comments like that bother you?

Jealousy aside, why would you ever say something like that to your partner?

Wouldnt you talk about experiences and say how much you enjoyed it"

If they were there with you, there would be no need to talk about it.....not to mention he/she would know if you enjoyed it or not...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" And surely partners make comments like 'he/she was amazing' or 'that was my best experience ever'

Wouldnt you talk about experiences and say how much you enjoyed it"

we definitely talk about it and often have a fabulous session reliving it...but would I tell him that sex with someone else was my best experience ever? Absolutely not and I wouldn't expect him to say anything like that to me either..,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have heard of it spliting up couples of course and seen a few people in clubs upset when others spoke to the other half etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a great time but never go into great detail.

As long as we are together and the end of the day in our own bed that's all that matters.

We ask if the other has had a good time but only give as much information as the other wants.

I used to be jealous before we joined the swinging scene but now we both feel it has strengthened our relationship even more than ever.

Swinging is a totally separate 'life' for us and it works for us

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"A while back one guy we talked with made it absolutely clear he wanted to fuck Mrs jimp1 but would not tolerate his own wife messing around!!

More than a little hypocritical

Just a bit. He just couldnt understand why I would allow another guy to have sex with my wife.

It was clear he was just unable to get his head around the whole swinging concept.

We stopped corresponding with him but reckon his ideas are pretty widespread."
As black guys go, there are very few on here that are here as a GENUINE couple, it's always some sort of arrangement... And when they're not here as a couple then they're single, but we all know majority of 'em have partners of some sort. What does that say about them... Insecure???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have a great time but never go into great detail.

As long as we are together and the end of the day in our own bed that's all that matters.

We ask if the other has had a good time but only give as much information as the other wants.

I used to be jealous before we joined the swinging scene but now we both feel it has strengthened our relationship even more than ever.

Swinging is a totally separate 'life' for us and it works for us "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" And surely partners make comments like 'he/she was amazing' or 'that was my best experience ever'

Wouldnt you talk about experiences and say how much you enjoyed it

we definitely talk about it and often have a fabulous session reliving it...but would I tell him that sex with someone else was my best experience ever? Absolutely not and I wouldn't expect him to say anything like that to me either..,"

Hmm yeah I suppose its one of those things which works for some couples and not others. I could swing with friends as couple or a fb without getting jealous but not so sure about girlfriend/wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The responders above, the usual suspects if I may be so bold, are obviously great with the swinging format; and that is excellent.

I have however found situations where the man from the couple appears to be jealous at some point. This is especially true if the attitude of woman towards me is "warmer" then he would like. There is a fine balance between sexual lust and pleasure and displays of apparent emotion and even affection.

Mrs jimp1 has enthusiastically enjoyed sex with a number of guys over the years - many of whom were younger than me, fitter or better endowed.

The important thing is at the end of the evening she left with me.

I have no problem differentiating between good sex & love. Simple."

I am very glad for you. It will no doubt make your life even richer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never get jealous when we swing, but can do in real life "

same as us, strange isn't it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of single guys are of the mindset that couples who introduce another guy momentarily into their sex lives do so because the hubby is inadequate and they need to introduce a young hot stud to satisfy the wife. This is complete fantasy.

Single guys will never match up to the intimate sex between couples. They are merely playthings. Likewise the female of a couple cannot equal a girlfriend to that single guy.

My OH is not jealous because he knows that I prefer any sexual act with him. We swing because we feel naughty and outrageous and we want to experience things that we haven't before. If my OH had two cocks I wouldn't swing.

My OH knows that I won't prefer sex with other men to him. Therefore there is no need for jealousy.

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"A lot of single guys are of the mindset that couples who introduce another guy momentarily into their sex lives do so because the hubby is inadequate and they need to introduce a young hot stud to satisfy the wife. This is complete fantasy.

Single guys will never match up to the intimate sex between couples. They are merely playthings. Likewise the female of a couple cannot equal a girlfriend to that single guy.

My OH is not jealous because he knows that I prefer any sexual act with him. We swing because we feel naughty and outrageous and we want to experience things that we haven't before. If my OH had two cocks I wouldn't swing.

My OH knows that I won't prefer sex with other men to him. Therefore there is no need for jealousy. "
And it's a wrap folks!

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