FabSwingers.com forum: Why are people so fixiated with women's body count?

By *osephSamuel90 OP Man
7 weeks ago

Warfield

Keep seeing reels on youtube and instagram of guys being interviewed saying they wouldn't date a girl who's slept with more than 5 or 10 people. This is just strange to me. Is it just insecurity that they won't match her standards in the bedroom if she's more experienced?

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By *orthernMan1991Man
7 weeks ago

Seaburn

Never understood it in my opinion. Body count means absolutely nothing. I think the guys who do just arent comfortable enough to be with a woman who loves being sexual and knows what she wants... madness

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By *P_80Man
7 weeks ago

Waterford

A lot of those reels from podcasts give off the vibe of men who never had any luck with the ladies and are now justifying it to themselves by having a go at women at every opportunity.

Kinda like how some men will call a woman, that doesn't want to have sex with him, any name under the sun.

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By *ubInTrainingTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Coggeshall

Personally I’ve never cared and never will x

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By *osephSamuel90 OP Man
7 weeks ago

Warfield

"A lot of those reels from podcasts give off the vibe of men who never had any luck with the ladies and are now justifying it to themselves by having a go at women at every opportunity.

Kinda like how some men will call a woman, that doesn't want to have sex with him, any name under the sun."

Very true

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By *icecouple561Couple
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7 weeks ago

East Sussex

I have two rules when it comes to this.

1. If anyone asks me how many men I've had sex with I will answer to the best of my ability (I genuinely don't know)

2. If they refer to my former partners as 'body count' they won't get an answer of any kind.

2a. I know it's 'only a phrase' but words mean something

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By *partharmonyCouple
7 weeks ago

Ruislip

I would never judge anybody for how many people they have had sex with. I might be curious but I'd never be critical. Luke

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
7 weeks ago

East Sussex

Lots of people have a number they don't like women to go over.

Attitudes to Bonnie Blue are mixed.

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By *emptme1993Man
7 weeks ago

Manchester

I don’t even ask, as long as there’s no cheating going on and the number doesn’t increase while I’m with her (unless we decided to go into swinging depending on who I meet) it doesn’t make much of a difference to me

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
7 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Well I'd tell them to get stuffed if they asked or make up a random number.

Anyone who asks me isn't my type of person

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By *hunky GentMan
7 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

I'm only interested in what she'd like to do with me, but maybe I'm old-fashioned 🤔

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