FabSwingers.com forum: Ever had sex you regretted?

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Had sex after a long time but it really didn't feel that entertaining or stimulating. There wasn't any rush, any sensation of blood pumping, no heart palpitations or mind bending stuff like in the past with other girls.

Brings me to my question. You ever felt you regretted having sex? I felt like I should have saved myself up for someone else to for something special that makes that long cold streak worth, accentuating that lust.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I am sure many of us have. The post d*unken shag you regretted the next day .... had a few of those in my youth.

Or the shags that were actually just a bit rubbish and would have been better off with a vibrator and a good erotic novel.

Or the one that was great but then turned out the guy was married and had lied to you.

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By *uvs2watchherCouple
2 weeks ago

newcastle

Yes I'm sure a lot of us women have. We just don't admit it xx

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By *uzzieboyMan
2 weeks ago

taunton

Oh yeah definitely

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By *hickthighs25Woman
2 weeks ago

Stockton

100%

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By *d4funtimesMan
2 weeks ago

Cambridge

No, never.

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By *ute Afrodisiac OP Man
2 weeks ago

London

Can anyone else share what it is that made it so you regretted the sex after the fact?

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By *ornyone30Man
2 weeks ago

ABERDEEN

Slept with an ex. Regretted it immediately. Loads of folk must have done that though?

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By *isitingbiMan
2 weeks ago

London

"Yes I'm sure a lot of us women have. We just don't admit it xx

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Not just ladies who do this....

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By *punkyMcFuckKnuckleMan
2 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

Yep. Fab sex isn't always fab sex if you know what I mean.

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By *hickthighs25Woman
2 weeks ago

Stockton

Definitely sleeping with an ex and also probably giving myself to someone who wasnt deserving of me and only cared about his own pleasure maybe 🤷‍♀️

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By *pontaneous_coupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Hoddesdon

Definitely regret meeting a couple that we knew previously, so messy

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By *ute Afrodisiac OP Man
2 weeks ago

London

"Yep. Fab sex isn't always fab sex if you know what I mean. "

I kinda had the feeling it wasn't always what it was gassed up to be. Also, I just wanted to tell you that I love your bio and it gave me a really good laugh in the middle of the night. It was hilarious and I needed the laugh

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By *ustus5555Woman
2 weeks ago

Mansfield

"Definitely sleeping with an ex and also probably giving myself to someone who wasnt deserving of me and only cared about his own pleasure maybe 🤷‍♀️"

Regrettably, we've all been there

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By *uke02Man
2 weeks ago

Waterford City

Recently lost my virginity with a girl. Had sex with her twice. Still talking a few days later and then she just disappeared and went no contact with me. Found out she was one of my friends girlfriend. Ended up telling him, couldn't have the poor fella stuck in a relationship where he's being cheated on. Even though I didn't know her still feel terrible about the whole thing. If I could go back I wouldn't have had sex with her

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

A few times — post cum clarity is a lot more discerning!

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By *otgirl32Woman
2 weeks ago

Ashton Under Lyne

I've most DEFINITELY had sex with those who I shouldn't have but .... can't say I've had to regret any

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By *emptme1993Man
2 weeks ago

manchester

In a word, nope

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By *andlerMan
2 weeks ago

shipley

Better to regret something you have done than regret something you never did!

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Yes ex wife

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By *eachrunner1Man
2 weeks ago

Farnham

No one ever died wishing they had had less sex.

On that basis, regretting any consensual sexual encounter is pointless.

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By *cgmcgMan
2 weeks ago

kingston

"No one ever died wishing they had had less sex.

On that basis, regretting any consensual sexual encounter is pointless.

Don't really understand the logic in that.. That's like saying no-one died wishing they had fewer holidays or had read fewer books. It doesn't mean there weren't crap holidays or bad books.

If you have enough and enough variety, there are bound to be outliers. I regret one outdoors MF meet (tasted horrible), one MMF meet (spontaneous, don't find either attractive) and at least one MM (they couldn't get it up).

Regret them individually, but not the journey as a whole.

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By *ndymac888Man
2 weeks ago

Dumbarton

Ive certainly had disappointing sex and probably disappointed a few myself lol.

Don’t think I regret them though it’s just usually some sort of chemistry thing.

I would only maybe regret it if it was something that had consequences.

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By *onnie 90Woman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

The worst sex I've ever had is with guys off here. Experienced sex gods on their profiles and in their messages. Fumbling clueless beginners in the bedroom and always disappointing.

Don't get me wrong, I've had a few great meets with attentive guys. But "few" is the keyword here.

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By *hris_231068Man
2 weeks ago

Peterborough

Afterwards, yes. At the time never

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By *exyScientistsCouple
2 weeks ago

Castlebar

Yes

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By *ndian_jmCouple
2 weeks ago

Wigston

Yes twice

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By *orthernMan1991Man
2 weeks ago

Seaburn

Yes definitely, but cant live in the past

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By *xkritTV/TS
2 weeks ago

High Wycombe (ish)

Yes.. with the (now) ex wife.... If I hadn't had sex we wouldn't have an expensive divorce!!!!

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By *iff_raffMan
2 weeks ago

Airdrie

Never.

I regret all the sex im not having though 😊

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