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"Recently I split from my partner of 3 years, I have found he wasn't the person I thought he was at all. This has made me question whether we actually truly know someone. He changed his personality to whoever he was with and this has left me feeling empty Has anyone else experienced this ? " Sending 🩷🩵 I have experienced this to the point I got diagnosed with C-PTSD due to the absolute shit show of a relationship and behaviours afterwards. It is the most difficult thing to navigate because you didn't not just lose trust in others. You lose trust in your own self. Questioning your own perceptions and reality. You are disassociating. Very normal for your body to do. It shuts down to protect you. I did this for 6 mths then boom, the whole grieving process started. Please be gentle with yourself as you navigate this. I am only a message away if you feel like just shooting the shit to help you process this 🩷🩵 | |||
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"This happens naturally. Relationships deteriorate slowly over time from people changing slowly over the years from stresses, work, kids, different life scenarios etc. It hurts still... I didn't mean to come here and waffle some generic slop. I just wanna say that it's not always done out of malice or from direct influence" Unfortunately this wasn't the case for me. I understand people grow apart, however, the carrot was kept dangling. That to me says intention. | |||
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"I'm questioning whether any of it was ever real, whether I actually mattered to him. He never took responsibility, it was always someone else's fault. He could be vile one minute and just flick the switch and play happy couple in front of people. It's the oddest thing, I've never experienced a relationship like it and never want to again. " That sounds very narcissistic and I hate using that term. I think it gets banded about far too much. But this sounds classic scenario for narcissism. You almost feel like your questioning yourself because they take no responsibility, but that's absolutely the result wanted by their actions. If he is narcissistic then unfortunately it won't of ever meant anything to him, but if not it will and maybe he just hasn't ever been thaught to look inward and take accountability. Sorry your experiencing this bab | |||
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"I'm questioning whether any of it was ever real, whether I actually mattered to him. He never took responsibility, it was always someone else's fault. He could be vile one minute and just flick the switch and play happy couple in front of people. It's the oddest thing, I've never experienced a relationship like it and never want to again. " Yes I have been there in that kind of relationship. It's very demoralising But there's life after, you have to be positive and move forward from it . | |||
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