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By (user no longer on site) OP   
7 weeks ago

I’m wanting to attend a club for the first time as a single male. I’m just wandering if it’s worth it or will it just feel awkward lol. Advice is very welcome

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By *ingpong70Man
7 weeks ago

Surbiton

Depends on what your expectations are.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
7 weeks ago

Bedfuck

There usually is a host at the clubs who will introduce newbies and can break the ice for you. Alternatively try chatting on here with club reviewers they might like to help you through the initial stages.

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

Just be chill, chat to people. If there's a pool table play that and it usually starts a convo

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By *BA8891Man
7 weeks ago

Manchester

I’m on the same page!

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By *otMediterraneanWoman
7 weeks ago

MK

Always worth it but remember to behave yourself ,don’t overstep the mark and have no expectations

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By *xydadbodMan
7 weeks ago

Milton keynes

Definitely go.. i know the thought of it can be daunting but its great fun.. just go with the expectation of soaking up the atmosphere and talk to people, have a little dance and just enjoy yourself

You'll be fine bud good luck

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By *uxurycollectionCouple
7 weeks ago

Port Talbot

You have the same chance as anyone else

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
7 weeks ago

Peterborough and Bedford

We would say, choose your club and event wisely, put plenty of research in. Check prices, both of membership and entry on the day; rules for applying for single male membership - does it need to be set up, and approved, before attending or can it be done on the day; entry requirements and restrictions for single men - most clubs only allow single men on a Friday, so if it's Saturday you're looking at going, then it's pointless applying for membership at those clubs. On the day, follow the club's dress code (you may be turned away if you don't), smell good, smile. Listen to staff when they're giving you the tour, there would be a lot of important information. Be friendly but remember, "no" always means "no", following couples and single women like a lost puppy is seen as act of desperation, and touching without invitation is a massive "no-no".

Enjoy the facilities but don't expect to get your dick wet just because you paid the entry fee- everyone is there for their own enjoyment, and consent is key.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
7 weeks ago

Awesome advice guys, thanks so much!

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By *myKnightCouple
7 weeks ago

London

Definitely go to the club, single males that aren't weird at clubs are always fun to chat and flirt with

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