FabSwingers.com forum: First time Club advice

By *olo180 OP Man
6 weeks ago

Blackpool / London

I’m thinking about visiting Infusions while in Blackpool. My first time at a club and will be going as a single guy.

Any advice or tips or relevant info would be appreciated x

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By *J coupleCouple
6 weeks ago

stone

Be polite, don’t follow couples wanking yourself, talk to couples and let them know your likes.

Good luck.

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By *exycpl4fun48Couple
6 weeks ago

Nottingham

Excellent advice

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By *nnandElleCouple
6 weeks ago

Brackley

Lower your expectations, and don't sit in a corner expecting it just fall in your lap - be friendly and engaging, and as mentioned above, dont just walk around with your dick in your hand.

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By *igblackchocolateMan
6 weeks ago

London & Essex

Relax

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By *aomilatteCouple
6 weeks ago

Midlands

Say hello to people, some people will be happy to have a chat some not so much. If you get into a conversation it may lead nowhere or you may get lucky. Men are unlikely to be approached so if you sit on your own you'll probably just have yourself as company. Many Men just walk around a club looking and most of them go home disappointed.

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By *ackandsashaCouple
6 weeks ago

West Dublin

Go expecting to not play, but to meet and chat to sexy people. Making contacts will make subsequent visits easier if you know someone to say hi to.

But if you do manage to play, huge bonus.

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By *ittleMissLizzieWoman
6 weeks ago

Mansfield

Eat before you go! I went to Infusions with someone and because he hadn’t eaten beforehand he fainted in the hot tub

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By *eenALongTime.....Man
6 weeks ago

Bristol/Newcastle

What's the attire in the clubs?? Or does it vary?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
6 weeks ago

Leeds

For men towel or nice boxers

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By *rdere OpusCouple
6 weeks ago

Brum - ish

Go aiming to be social and view anything else as a bonus.

Check out the dress code before you go - is it a dress down club, smart, or trainers or jeans allowed etc.

Find out whether it’s a cash bar, take your own alcohol, tab on your locker key number, etc.

Find out if you need to get membership in advance, if there’s a guest list if it’s a hosted night and m, small thing but potential showstopper, doublecheck single men can go on the night you’re planning to attend.

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By *ighlandguy007Man
6 weeks ago

inverness

Go for it. But just go with no expectations of playing.

Just be respectful and polite and have a good night engaging with like minded people and who knows you might get lucky enough to get some fun but if not you’ll have still had a great night meeting new folk

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By *olo180 OP Man
6 weeks ago

Blackpool / London

Thanks for all the comments and advice x

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