FabSwingers.com forum: Hotel meets.... who pays

By *iscreetstokecouple OP Couple
8 weeks ago

stoke

So whats people's thoughts on paying for the hotel. I know each meet is different so 3 options.

1 female joining a couple

2 couple joining a couple

3 male joining a couple

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By *ewtfaceMan
8 weeks ago

Bracknell

I've only ever been "male joining a female" We've gone halves every time

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By *asha86Couple
8 weeks ago

walsall

I mean if we were going to do it we would pay for the hotel and the person/ couple would come have fun and then when they leave we still have the room to ourselves if we wanted

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By *ongAndThick123Man
8 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Whoever suggests it, pays for it.

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By *otMediterraneanWoman
8 weeks ago

1/2 is fair but normally it’s been payed for

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By *igwilly2kMan
8 weeks ago

The Land of Kink!

Think it depends on the relationship you Habe with the other person/s and how bad each of yours wants it and who's idea it was! Conversations help!

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By *orkshirecouple69 returnCouple
8 weeks ago

doncaster

We have normally booked separate rooms and then got together in the bar

Then played afterwards after a quick drink

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By *usurrusCouple
8 weeks ago

North West.

If we use the room (sleeping overnight) we pay.

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By *he MinionMan
8 weeks ago

"I mean if we were going to do it we would pay for the hotel and the person/ couple would come have fun and then when they leave we still have the room to ourselves if we wanted

This.

I/we have invited someone or a couple to join us at our hotel. I wouldnt ask for anything towards the cost.

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By *ikerabbits!Couple
8 weeks ago

Surrey

For couples hotel meets 50/50 and the couple who has travelled furthest gets first option to keep the room for an overnight stay.

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By *ikerabbits!Couple
8 weeks ago

Surrey

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By *herrybakewellCouple
8 weeks ago

Staffordshire

When I meet ladies on my own, I always pay.

When we meet couples we tend to both have a room and pay for our own as we tend to sleep over.

If a lady was to join us, we would pay.

When the wife meets someone, they usually split it. When they don't offer to split, its a sign of the type of person they are.

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By *asha86Couple
8 weeks ago

walsall

When the wife meets someone, they usually split it. When they don't offer to split, its a sign of the type of person they are.

This is a very good point! I mean I probably wouldn't take it but it is nice to offer and it can reflect on what type of person they are

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By *saysHiMan
8 weeks ago

Nearby

I’d think if the room is booked specifically just to play, then the fair way is to split. But if the room is for business, holiday etc and is being used to spend the night then the ones joining are the guest/s of those who’ve booked it.

The basis being that the room is already booked, paid for and required. Whether the meeting happens or not.

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By *randmrs 1st timeCouple
8 weeks ago

bolton

We always pay because we arranged a meet around when going away for a weekend

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By *iscreetstokecouple OP Couple
8 weeks ago

stoke

We've had ladies join us and we've always paid for the room. If a couple asks me to join them on my own for a mff then I wouldn't expect to pay. I'd just move on plenty of couples looking for ladies.

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By *aughtywelsh89Man
8 weeks ago

Pontyclun

Half and half

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By *on_20Couple
8 weeks ago

Manchester

We have never asked nor accepted any contribution.

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By *Silver-Man
8 weeks ago

North Wales

If I have the room booked then I pay, if the room is booked already by the other party then I will offer to contribute towards any bill.

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