FabSwingers.com forum: Best way to message couples

By *ing217 OP Man
8 weeks ago

CAMBRIDGE

Can anyone help with the best way to message couples?

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By *ennk8Couple
8 weeks ago

newquay

"Hey there" with a cock pic! Lol

Seriously though try and write them a personalised message that shows you've read there profile

Don't go straight in with the cock pics, most couples get so many they blend into one

Try and put some effort into what you say and not make it an obvious copy and paste job

We ignore most of the no effort messages and cock pics but do answer the ones that have tried

Even if it's to say no thanks

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By *omandsub72Couple
8 weeks ago

Barnsley

Definitely read their profile so you know what they want. We get guys who don't send a face pic and its on our profile no pic with first message then we don't chat.

Don't send dick pics, if they want one they will ask. Just be nice and talk to them like you would if you met them while out. We like to get to know people, yes it's a sex site but we don't want guys messaging us telling us what they want to do to P in their first message.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Honestly.

Trixie

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By *WANDTGCouple
8 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

Firstly read their profile , this will help in finding out if they wish to be messaged by single guys. Unfortunately we find a lot of guys don't read the profile.

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By *punk n gushCouple
8 weeks ago

deal

""Hey there" with a cock pic! Lol

Seriously though try and write them a personalised message that shows you've read there profile

Don't go straight in with the cock pics, most couples get so many they blend into one

Try and put some effort into what you say and not make it an obvious copy and paste job

We ignore most of the no effort messages and cock pics but do answer the ones that have tried

Even if it's to say no thanks "

Excatly this

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By *estinysswingersCouple
8 weeks ago

Worsley

With a limerick.

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By *orkshireSglMan
8 weeks ago

Yorkshire

"With a limerick. "

A gent who’s single and not shy

Writing my message here to say hi

If you’re open to play

I’d love to someday

New to the game, but worth a try

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By *rJandMrsJCouple
8 weeks ago

Stalybridge

"With a limerick. "

We'd actually be more than happy with that in comparison to what we do get 😂

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By *ou only yolo onceCouple
8 weeks ago

Shropshire

I think there's probably no perfect answer because everyone is different

but we seem to appreciate a "pre-closing" of the conversation. It may seem counter productive but hear me out.

So something like:

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I liked your profile so I thought I would reach out. I understand you must get a lot of these messages so if you do ever want to chat, I'd love to see if we connect.

All the best, Dave.

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Not word for word or anything im not an expert, but the fact that there's no expectation of a response. The conversation can be ended there without any perceived bad feeling. I think it gives the reader space.

We also have a similar feeling in a club. In a real world environment.

If someone asks us if we would like to play, then waits for a response, for some reason we will very likely say no, even if we're attracted to them. But if someone says, "we're heading to this private room (or wherever), feel free to join us if you'd like" then they leave. It gives us space to decide as a couple before we act. And we're much more likely to.

It gives us more control and less pressure i think.

Its a subtle difference but for us has a big impact.

Worth a try anyway lol

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By *estinysswingersCouple
8 weeks ago

Worsley

There was a young lady from Venus.

Whose body was shaped like a ……

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By *tr8MrEMan
8 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

"Can anyone help with the best way to message couples?"

Carrier pigeon?

Jungle drums?

Fax?

🤷🤷🤷

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By *hickthighs25Woman
8 weeks ago

Stockton

Type it out and press send? 🤷‍♀️

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By *tr8MrEMan
8 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

Throw a brick through window with message attached 🤷

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By *xxxMan
8 weeks ago

Bedfordshire & Chester

Lotus

She wore it quite well

But then you could tell

She was always playing the...

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
8 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Don't send a message saying 'hey sexy' or 'you look gorgeous' or 'I'd love to do xxxx to you'.

Because chances are you'll either get a straight delete for only addressing one of them, or you may well get a reply from her, pretending to be him, thanking you for complementing his good looks and magnificent tits and ass, and asking what you'd like to do to him. 🤷‍♂️

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By *ou only yolo onceCouple
8 weeks ago

Shropshire

Drum

She played it loud

She played it well

She played with the stick up her...

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