FabSwingers.com forum: How many Messages?

By *ensualdesires OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Benfleet

We were browsing profiles and came across a single lady who had a captured screen showing that she had 682 messages in her FAB inbox.

Wow how does one cope with all that attention? lol

So what is the most messages you have had in your FAB inbox in a day?

Ours best is 3, oh dear we need to up our game

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By *he MinionMan
2 weeks ago

I imagine your record of 3 will be smashed today.

For me, I think the most i've had in a day is 4 or 5. Mainly from forum things, rather than genuine interest

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By *inky PerkyCouple
2 weeks ago

Kingston

Inbox is number of unread messages. 600+ unread is some pretty shoddy Fabmin.

I'd write that person off as an attention seeker with no real desire to meet.

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By *S-cardiffiansCouple
2 weeks ago

cardiff

"Inbox is number of unread messages. 600+ unread is some pretty shoddy Fabmin.

I'd write that person off as an attention seeker with no real desire to meet."

Agree with this xx

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By *ustus5555Woman
2 weeks ago

Mansfield

⬆️ this.

Although they'll now be ppl that will say I'm now jealous 🤣🤣

Think my best is 30 or so , depends if I post a picture. 🤷

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
2 weeks ago

the moon

Guess it’s easy 600 messages tbf .. given you’re female …. The amount of guys here can’t say I’m surprised… she probably hasn’t the time nor the patience to open them… maybe 🤷‍♂️ …

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By *avid_jones87Man
2 weeks ago

Ascot

Can be very peaky and troughy as a single guy, I reckon the most would be 20ish, but sometimes zero! I don’t have very many pics up but people like the verifications from good people I guess

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By *ugmesqueezemeMan
2 weeks ago

woburn sands

I'd be surprised if I got 600 in 2 years! 🤣.

That's a huge amount and like some have said smacks of either poor fabmin, or lack of filters and being specific on your profile.

They'll most likely bulk delete and then be hounded by those who she deleted.. it's a vicious circle.

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By *ensman100Man
2 weeks ago

Hounslow

Not that many.. best is probably around 10 not counting multiple messages when having a conversation !

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By *ellTrixieWoman
2 weeks ago

Telford

I get on average 30 to 50 and sometimes more a day and that’s why I use the block & delete method to deal with messages from those that NEVER read my profile.

Harsh but just not enough hours.

Trixie.

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
2 weeks ago

Dudley...kinda

Our most at once was 25 and thats when we first joined. 8 of them were before we put any details or pictures.

We get between 7-10 a day. Of them maybe 2 are worth responding to.

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By *infullyObedientWoman
2 weeks ago

Woodley

On a normal day I probably get messages from about 10 new guys. If I load a picture and or status then that can go up to around 30 or 40.

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By *aomilatteCouple
2 weeks ago

Midlands

"We were browsing profiles and came across a single lady who had a captured screen showing that she had 682 messages in her FAB inbox.

Wow how does one cope with all that attention? lol

So what is the most messages you have had in your FAB inbox in a day?

Ours best is 3, oh dear we need to up our game

If you take your filters off and post a photo you're likely get 50+ in an hour (which we've had before), though they'll probably not be the messages you'd like.

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By *vaRoseWoman
2 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

"We were browsing profiles and came across a single lady who had a captured screen showing that she had 682 messages in her FAB inbox.

Wow how does one cope with all that attention? lol

So what is the most messages you have had in your FAB inbox in a day?

Ours best is 3, oh dear we need to up our game

Over a thousand, last year on the first day of the gold cup… everyone and his brother landed in my inbox that day and I closed my profile for the rest of the week. It’s not normally anywhere near as bad

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By *tickler2000Man
2 weeks ago

St Agnes

Excluding if I get into a conversation with someone I would consider it was busy if I got 1 or 2 in a week

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By *inky PerkyCouple
2 weeks ago

Kingston

The number and quality of messages definitely varies according to time of day. If we're online between 11 and 1 in the morning there is a steady stream of Hey and Meet Now?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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2 weeks ago

East Sussex

5 I think

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By *inky PerkyCouple
2 weeks ago

Kingston

"On a normal day I probably get messages from about 10 new guys. If I load a picture and or status then that can go up to around 30 or 40. "

Having the word "submissive" in your profile must bring out all the rock dwellers

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
2 weeks ago

Norwich

Maybe 2 or 3, mostly as a reaction to forum posts. Almost never direct and unsolicited, unless very late at night from a horny bloke.

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By *adcouple2000Couple
2 weeks ago

We have 384 . And so many dick pics 😂

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By *hawslut_redemptionCouple
2 weeks ago

Minehead

Depends on how active we are in the forums, but around 2 or 3 per day on average

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By *mpeyeMan
2 weeks ago

Worthing

I'm lucky ic I get one & that's usually to tell me my pass is running out lol

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By *y serendipityCouple
2 weeks ago

Warrington

We find the same xx

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I get v few, I use filters to keep them low. Anyone can apply their filters to stop their mail boxes imploding, but some don't want to.

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