FabSwingers.com forum: Single men don’t show up for group gangbang meets…. Why? Cold feet or fantasists?

North East

Let down on multiple occasions after single men pleaded to be given a chance to join a gangbang and surprise surprise they don’t show up. Are they just fantasists or cold feet? Only really interested in meeting groups of friends with experience of sharing or MM profiles.

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By *ocketman20Man
1 week ago

Douglas

Most men correspond on here whilst masturbating, and the idea of it gives them a thrill. As soon as they shoot their load and reality sets in, that’s when they pull out (no pun intended).

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By *acks445Man
1 week ago

braintree

"Let down on multiple occasions after single men pleaded to be given a chance to join a gangbang and surprise surprise they don’t show up. Are they just fantasists or cold feet? Only really interested in meeting groups of friends with experience of sharing or MM profiles. "
. Honestly your best bet is going to clubs. At least you know they are actually there

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By *aughtyFreddoMan
1 week ago

Coventry

Their loss. Shame.

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By *inky PerkyCouple
1 week ago

Kingston

Seems to be a very common thing. Couples we've spoken to who arrange GBs say that 1/3 to 1/2 dropout rate is normal and overbook with that expectation. In our experience it's invariably the unverified ones who change their minds, which is why we don't take the chance any more.

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By *all me FlikWoman
1 week ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

"Let down on multiple occasions after single men pleaded to be given a chance to join a gangbang and surprise surprise they don’t show up. Are they just fantasists or cold feet? Only really interested in meeting groups of friends with experience of sharing or MM profiles. . Honestly your best bet is going to clubs. At least you know they are actually there "

Definitely this

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By *inky PerkyCouple
1 week ago

Kingston

"Honestly your best bet is going to clubs. At least you know they are actually there "

True. But the quality of guys in clubs can be variable, no?

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By *aomilatteCouple
1 week ago

Midlands

Their wives may have made other plans for them?

If you choose well verified men they're more likely to turn up, though not guaranteed.

If you go to a club on the right night you'll get many willing partners and you can choose.

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By *rasshopper201Man
1 week ago

kendal

I let a meet down once because of motorway delay but I let them know I was not going to make it they got the message or read it after the meet got a second chance later that year and of course turned up

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By *inky PerkyCouple
1 week ago

Kingston

Pinky has only been to one club with a previous partner but he was underwhelmed by the experience. Said the single men were like a convention of Uber drivers.

We're probably just way too picky 🤣

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By *uckslut and MCouple
1 week ago

Poole

We had a 25% turn up rate for our mini gangbang last week. Lots of advance notice, intructions, invites, aceptance ect.

4 of the invites we're still unread next day.

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By *abluesbabyMan
1 week ago

Gibraltar/Cheshire/London

Why don't "single" men actually turn up to a real gangbang?

Its sadly very simple.

Either the missus has finished the ironing or their mam has called them to say tea is ready so they've run out "I'll just check my emails time".

Its always happened. Certainly when I've organised, many times. It always will. At least we KNOW it happens so forewarned is at least somewhat forearmed.

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By *issy4kinkTV/TS
1 week ago

Leeds

I had a gangbang on Saturday and had about 50% turnout.

From my experience it's almost entirely fantasists that say they will be there and then come up with the shittiest excuse when they don't turn up. My block list grows

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By *S-cardiffiansCouple
1 week ago

cardiff

Tried before and you end up with none x

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By *orthampton jamesMan
1 week ago

Northampton

I've been to two daytime arrangements, meant to be between 6 and 10 men there, 3 of us turned up but it was well worth it, the lady was amazing

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By *ellTrixieWoman
1 week ago

Telford

Both.

Arranging troops for this is the bane of many a producer. Get ten to say yes & only one arrives.

Even the swinging world has difficulty but when it’s in the confines of a club it’s a safer bet.

Trixie

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
1 week ago

West Midlands

Do in clubs or better porn cinemas . Not as active as we were but tried this with varying levels of success on other sites.Used all the tips eg invite twice as many as you need due to no shows , first one we did had 13 "guaranteed" and mainly verified guys (another 5 had not replied when invited ) and all confirmed day of meet which was a 7pm start..From 2pm they dropped like flies for various reasons. A couple never messaged at all and at 7pm we had a single solitary guy show up and yes we played.

Since joining here took a lot of advice and hence use venues now and don't prearrange, the cinemas have a lot of guys usually..The other one to suggest as there ARE genuine ones out there is we've had several private house ones with established GB groups who can provide 7 or more reliable guys .All takes a lot of organising but as you say OP the cold feet rate when guys are offered something they claim to really want is astonishing and disappointing.

Wish you luck anyway x

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By *irsSubCouple
1 week ago

Darlington

My money is on post nut clarity making them realise cheating is bad

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By *illy-ButcherMan
1 week ago

Brigstock

In the light of the few responses that single guys actually get, it's surely madness to waste those opportunities.

I personally can't see the point in lying to people then letting them down.

I've turned up to every meet I've ever agreed to.

Which is admittedly not that many..

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
1 week ago

Perth

"My money is on post nut clarity making them realise cheating is bad"

Pretty sure this is the predominant explanation. The ridiculous thing is that having already pulled a no show or last minute cancellation the majority of these twits will come back within 48 hours looking for a second chance.

As if. Lol

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