FabSwingers.com forum: The wife wants a free pass

By *umwithme4344 OP Couple
1 week ago

Worcestershire

What should I do? She’s going out on a girls night out pretty soon. It’s not like we don’t have lots of sex WE DO, I asked why, her reply was because it’s naughty

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By *uxurycollectionCouple
1 week ago

Port Talbot

We have had the same conversation….

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
1 week ago

Cambridgeshire

Well if you really feel uncomfortable, you could charge her for it. That way it wouldn't be free.

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By *an8iMan
1 week ago

Bilston

Ask for pics/vids, could add an extra dimension to your sex life, or next time you go out Ask for the same pass yourself.

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By *umwithme4344 OP Couple
1 week ago

Worcestershire

What would the fee be😂

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By *uck69xMan
1 week ago

cramlington

"What should I do? She’s going out on a girls night out pretty soon. It’s not like we don’t have lots of sex WE DO, I asked why, her reply was because it’s naughty "
my situation was a bit different as I could no longer hold an erection due to health issues . However me and my ex partner ( she passed away ) talked about her needs at length and how we loved each other and decided we would go down the cuckold route . It worked for all involved she got cock I got to see her satisfied and licked her clean . My advice is discuss it at length and find out what works for you both

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By *rown.studMan
1 week ago

Thornaby

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By *rown.studMan
1 week ago

Thornaby

"What would the fee be😂"

A ride to the deathly Hallows of the backyard?

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By *martie611Couple
1 week ago

staffs

I’d encourage my wife as long as she’s safe and lets me know what’s happening.

I don’t own her like a possession, she knows I’d be fine about it as we’ve discussed things. I’d feel respected she’d tell me and especially knowing how horny it would make me feel.

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By *umwithme4344 OP Couple
1 week ago

Worcestershire

"I’d encourage my wife as long as she’s safe and lets me know what’s happening.

I don’t own her like a possession, she knows I’d be fine about it as we’ve discussed things. I’d feel respected she’d tell me and especially knowing how horny it would make me feel."

I can’t encourage her I would never see her 😂she quite often tells me to go and fuck someone else but when you have a beautiful sexy wife like I do I find it hard to stray

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By *rJandMrsJCouple
1 week ago

Hyde

This is a very interesting thread 😊

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By *ushrangerMan
1 week ago

Hampshire

Does she want a pass or an affair? Is there someone she wants to sleep with? May be worth asking if it's someone in particular. Maybe you could have a 3 sum or something then you are there. Rather than her being on her own with a stranger.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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1 week ago

East Sussex

If you want to give her a free pass then do. Don't make decisions on things like this based on internet randommers. They once advisede to dispose of a giant dildo in a neighbours dustbin.

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By *nob and KnockersCouple
1 week ago

Ashford

"I’d encourage my wife as long as she’s safe and lets me know what’s happening.

I don’t own her like a possession, she knows I’d be fine about it as we’ve discussed things. I’d feel respected she’d tell me and especially knowing how horny it would make me feel."

That’s how I would feel if Mrs asked

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By *martie611Couple
1 week ago

staffs

"I’d encourage my wife as long as she’s safe and lets me know what’s happening.

I don’t own her like a possession, she knows I’d be fine about it as we’ve discussed things. I’d feel respected she’d tell me and especially knowing how horny it would make me feel.

That’s how I would feel if Mrs asked "

I only get turned on by my wife, it excites me seeing her have fun with someone and turns me on even more when she’s out having fun and texting me the details.

She’s told me she’s gone as far as playing with someone and making them cum without fucking them. Would enjoy it even more if she would and then return home and tell me all about it whilst I play with her wet pussy

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By *umwithme4344 OP Couple
1 week ago

Worcestershire

"Does she want a pass or an affair? Is there someone she wants to sleep with? May be worth asking if it's someone in particular. Maybe you could have a 3 sum or something then you are there. Rather than her being on her own with a stranger."

Definitely not a n affair, I think she just wants the frill of a one night stand and she does like being naughty.

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By *lthomasMan
1 week ago

Birmingham

"I’d encourage my wife as long as she’s safe and lets me know what’s happening.

I don’t own her like a possession, she knows I’d be fine about it as we’ve discussed things. I’d feel respected she’d tell me and especially knowing how horny it would make me feel."

Although my wife was never into swinging, in our early days together, she had a free pass which Used a couple of times.

For me, it was all about her coming home and telling me the details which made our sex even better

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By *umwithme4344 OP Couple
1 week ago

Worcestershire

"If you want to give her a free pass then do. Don't make decisions on things like this based on internet randommers. They once advisede to dispose of a giant dildo in a neighbours dustbin.

Thank you for that advice

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By *elaxing2Couple
1 week ago

Manchester

Lucy has always has a free pass when out and just expect her to tell me afterwards. I don't own her and reason we on her so she sleep with as many men she wants

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By *illy-ButcherMan
1 week ago

Brigstock

"What should I do? She’s going out on a girls night out pretty soon. It’s not like we don’t have lots of sex WE DO, I asked why, her reply was because it’s naughty "

Say no probs...as long as I get one too!

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By *AT4funMan
1 week ago

Milton Keynes

Giving her a free pass and tell is so hot and exciting for you while out wondering and her face when she gets home mmmm

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By *umwithme4344 OP Couple
1 week ago

Worcestershire

"What should I do? She’s going out on a girls night out pretty soon. It’s not like we don’t have lots of sex WE DO, I asked why, her reply was because it’s naughty

Say no probs...as long as I get one too!

I can definitely have a free pass she doesn’t really mind

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By *pgroupsexMan
1 week ago

Kingston

I think ultimately that, if the urge is strong enough, people will always do what they want to do.

If you come at it from that premise, then you've really only two choices; say "hell yeah" (and please tell me about it!) or else try and put some head-fuck 'barrier' in the way, which she'll just ignore anyway if she really wants to go there (and then probably keep it from you, knowing it's contra to what you want).

You can't really control anyone (even those in a 'owned' dynamic are still reliant on the submissive wanting to be dominated).

It's her body and morals that will ultimately will determine the outcome here.

Personally I'd be all for it, but then I'm a BIG fan of sharing and don't do jealousy.

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By *oneys1Woman
1 week ago

Glasgow

Let her

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By *erry2020888Man
1 week ago

stockport

my wife had a free pass when she goes away with her girl friends

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By *etcouple22Couple
1 week ago

Salisbury

You need to decide, are you worried for any reason and discuss that with her. Why would you say no? What may change if you say yes?

For us, we have no problem, but we met swinging...but seeing each other playing is better lol.

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By *oung40Man
1 week ago

harlow

me and my gf always give each other a free pass! as long as its filmed or photos for the other to enjoy

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By *onnachakeaneMan
1 week ago

Dundrum

The fact that she has told or openly run it by you is surely a good thing?

She is being completely open and transparent with you.. maybe you should do the same too? If your hesitant then tell her and maybe ask that she doesn’t in this occasion but you will come around to it just need to chat it through 👍

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By *affyduckMan
1 week ago

glasgow

"I’d encourage my wife as long as she’s safe and lets me know what’s happening.

I don’t own her like a possession, she knows I’d be fine about it as we’ve discussed things. I’d feel respected she’d tell me and especially knowing how horny it would make me feel.

I can’t encourage her I would never see her 😂she quite often tells me to go and fuck someone else but when you have a beautiful sexy wife like I do I find it hard to stray

She is a very sexy woman.And um sure she will get plenty offers for a drink

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By *affyduckMan
1 week ago

glasgow

"Let her"

Mm very sexy woman,stunning pics

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By *inky PerkyCouple
1 week ago

Kingston

It could be exciting for all of you but like anything else sex related it has to be consensual. If you really don't like the idea then say so

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By *ayjay39777Man
1 week ago

Warrington

I think you have answered your own question further up OP…

I think you already want her to have the free pass, posting it here is just seeking justification from strangers.

It seems you are already turned on by the idea and can’t wait for her to tell you what she has been up too.

Good luck to you both hope you both get something great out of it

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By *aintsnsinnersCouple
1 week ago

Tamworth

We recently went to a pub in Liverpool with live music, I told her to have a dance with the guys on the dance floor and if she fancies one she can take him around the back for a fuck then come back to me with cum in her knickers.

She always has a free pass

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By *affyduckMan
1 week ago

glasgow

"We recently went to a pub in Liverpool with live music, I told her to have a dance with the guys on the dance floor and if she fancies one she can take him around the back for a fuck then come back to me with cum in her knickers.

She always has a free pass

Did she come back with then filled

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By *umwithme4344 OP Couple
1 week ago

Worcestershire

She always has a free pass

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By *umwithme4344 OP Couple
1 week ago

Worcestershire

She always has a free pass

I’d definitely let her do that, but ill be at home look after the children😊

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By *umwithme4344 OP Couple
1 week ago

Worcestershire

"I’d encourage my wife as long as she’s safe and lets me know what’s happening.

I don’t own her like a possession, she knows I’d be fine about it as we’ve discussed things. I’d feel respected she’d tell me and especially knowing how horny it would make me feel.

I can’t encourage her I would never see her 😂she quite often tells me to go and fuck someone else but when you have a beautiful sexy wife like I do I find it hard to stray

She is a very sexy woman.And um sure she will get plenty offers for a drink"

Oh she does and all the attention how fuck I ended up with her god knows😂

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By *oandjohnCouple
1 week ago

South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire

If you want to widen your swinging experience then let her have a free pass on the condition she has to tell you very thing.

My partner has had free passes and been free to enjoy separate room fun both at parties and clubs.

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By *erry2020888Man
1 week ago

stockport

we both get free passes

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By *unning onCouple
1 week ago

leatherhead

We have a permanent open free pass and generally fuck who we like within reason

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By *enatton2Couple
1 week ago

West Midlands

We highly recommend it

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By *urves and HeelsWoman
1 week ago

Dumbarton

My boyfriend loves me asking for a free pass

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By *affyduckMan
1 week ago

glasgow

"My boyfriend loves me asking for a free pass

Wish you were my gf, love to give you a feee pass and hear all about it when you got home

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By *ickandHilaryCouple
1 week ago

Barnstaple

"What should I do? She’s going out on a girls night out pretty soon. It’s not like we don’t have lots of sex WE DO, I asked why, her reply was because it’s naughty "

Consult the pre-nup…..if involving others isn’t ’by Mutual consent’ then it isn’t swinging, it’s cheating whether you like it or not.

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By *assionatepairCouple
1 week ago

Highbridge

Embrace it, encourage her to be naughty and look forward to hearing from her all the details as you both enjoy the awesome feeling of reclaim sex.

Enjoy

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By *urves and HeelsWoman
1 week ago

Dumbarton

"My boyfriend loves me asking for a free pass

Wish you were my gf, love to give you a feee pass and hear all about it when you got home"

Exactly what he enjoys

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
1 week ago

Norwich

Better give her one.

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By *assionatepairCouple
1 week ago

Highbridge

"Well if you really feel uncomfortable, you could charge her for it. That way it wouldn't be free."

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By *JandCMCouple
1 week ago

cardiff

"What should I do? She’s going out on a girls night out pretty soon. It’s not like we don’t have lots of sex WE DO, I asked why, her reply was because it’s naughty "

Out attitude is we can do whatever they like with anyone, only rule we have is never go with anyone we know or anyone too local.

Wife knows I have been with women but doesn't want to know about it, but I'm happy if she ever wants to tell me about her meets.

We also meet as a couple.

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By *ayd100Man
1 week ago

clitheroe

Can see you being a cuck in no time

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By *ee And MikeCouple
1 week ago

Cannock

"Can see you being a cuck in no time "

From experience, I’d say giving you wife free passes does lead you down the cuckold lifestyle route.

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By *tirlingshire matureMan
1 week ago

falkirk

Encourage her with your blessing as she will do it either way.However set her some guidelines like she tells you everything and no one you know or local . Works for us.

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By *exywoman77Couple
1 week ago

Barnsley

I would definitely give my wife a pass, love the thought of that

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By *otfunx1Man
1 week ago

Edinburgh

Mine has a pass I encourage her to enjoy herself when she goes out and she always tells me what happens if I'm not there.

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By *eekendVixenCouple
1 week ago

Birmingham

My wife has completely free pass to fuck who she wants when she wants.

I would say tho that this is based on the level of trust we have from being married for so long.

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By *outhernexport83Couple
1 week ago

Cornwall

"What should I do? She’s going out on a girls night out pretty soon. It’s not like we don’t have lots of sex WE DO, I asked why, her reply was because it’s naughty "

Your profile says you do solo meets. What’s the difference between that and her getting some on a night out?

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By *ameskathCouple
1 week ago

london

we are discussing this dymanic--love to chat to couples who have progressed this for pointers and advise

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By *umwithme4344 OP Couple
1 week ago

Worcestershire

"What should I do? She’s going out on a girls night out pretty soon. It’s not like we don’t have lots of sex WE DO, I asked why, her reply was because it’s naughty

Your profile says you do solo meets. What’s the difference between that and her getting some on a night out?"

I guess a solo is pre planned? My wife is very spontaneous

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By *C_BristolCouple
1 week ago

Bristol

Wife is always on a free pass.

She enjoys the thrill.

But "free passes" work both ways.

If you allowed free pass.

Would you get a kick out of knowing what she has been up to..

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By *outhernexport83Couple
1 week ago

Cornwall

"What should I do? She’s going out on a girls night out pretty soon. It’s not like we don’t have lots of sex WE DO, I asked why, her reply was because it’s naughty

Your profile says you do solo meets. What’s the difference between that and her getting some on a night out?

I guess a solo is pre planned? My wife is very spontaneous "

So would you prefer to know what was going to happen in advance?

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By *sj75Couple
1 week ago

castleford

Let her have one.

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By *umwithme4344 OP Couple
1 week ago

Worcestershire

"What should I do? She’s going out on a girls night out pretty soon. It’s not like we don’t have lots of sex WE DO, I asked why, her reply was because it’s naughty

Your profile says you do solo meets. What’s the difference between that and her getting some on a night out?

I guess a solo is pre planned? My wife is very spontaneous

So would you prefer to know what was going to happen in advance?"

Yes I guess so but that’s not going to happen she’s looking for the excitement, unknown, frill of someone else touching&fucking her without me being there that’s what she wants.

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By *uckus-MaximusMan
1 week ago

Manchester

Do it. Take a new leap then have a chat after she comes home and see how she likes it

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By *orruptionandliesMan
1 week ago

leeds

"What should I do? She’s going out on a girls night out pretty soon. It’s not like we don’t have lots of sex WE DO, I asked why, her reply was because it’s naughty "

She will get plenty of opportunities

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By *ingerie lover1TV/TS
1 week ago

Cardiff

I would give her a free pass

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By *anchesterTaurusMan
1 week ago

Prestwich

As long as the pass is mutual, if you both are okay with it, go for it

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By *unGuy4U1978Man
1 week ago

near you

"If you want to give her a free pass then do. Don't make decisions on things like this based on internet randommers. They once advisede to dispose of a giant dildo in a neighbours dustbin.

This is the best advice ever. Or to quote someone else: “please don’t you life in the hands of a rock n roll band who’ll throw it all away”.

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By *umwithme4344 OP Couple
1 week ago

Worcestershire

"If you want to give her a free pass then do. Don't make decisions on things like this based on internet randommers. They once advisede to dispose of a giant dildo in a neighbours dustbin.

This is the best advice ever. Or to quote someone else: “please don’t you life in the hands of a rock n roll band who’ll throw it all away”."

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By *nlyfunsMan
1 week ago

"What should I do? She’s going out on a girls night out pretty soon. It’s not like we don’t have lots of sex WE DO, I asked why, her reply was because it’s naughty "

When we were an active couple, this is exactly how we started and we loved it

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By *umwithme4344 OP Couple
1 week ago

Worcestershire

"As long as the pass is mutual, if you both are okay with it, go for it"
oh it’s definitely mutual, it’s if I get the opportunity to have one is the problem

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By *andydan69Man
1 week ago

south west nr you mmm

She’s hot love to be around to sort her out lol

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