FabSwingers.com forum: Bareback blues ?

By *allDarkFoxForYou OP Man
over a year ago

Winchester/London

Have had four messages this weekend whereby couples have read my profile and seen my pic then requested an encounter.

Three of these have requested a preference for bareback whereas I'm a condom only guy.

Is it best to pass on these choice barebackers as I'm not going to be offering them what they crave ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you stick to your ethnics then don't meet. However you need to note in the past there was a spate of couples mailing guys who shout safe play to see if they are all talk and will bareback given the offer. They subsequently didn't turn up. You can chat on the phone to them but if I was you I would say thanks but no thanks without a condom.

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By *allDarkFoxForYou OP Man
over a year ago

Winchester/London

Thank you Doctor Rock.

I had a couple recently who said " we don't mind bareback " then it became clear that a meet had to be bareback.

The scenario had an air of an unpaid porn shoot to myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do whats right for you ........... not others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had this loads, also met safe sex couples who when we have started playing have requested "take the condom off and cum inside me/her". In my experience of this site this is by far an away the norm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't do it, what's the point in risking it?

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By *allDarkFoxForYou OP Man
over a year ago

Winchester/London

The couple who insisted on bareback told me "don't worry we only go with guys who we can tell are clean ".

That's a clever gift they have there regarding judgement eh ?

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By *allDarkFoxForYou OP Man
over a year ago

Winchester/London

Wolfie I have a hunch given your name and geography that you're a old gold and black man regarding football same as myself ?

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"The couple who insisted on bareback told me "don't worry we only go with guys who we can tell are clean ".

That's a clever gift they have there regarding judgement eh ?"

Wow, wouldn't mind knowing them, it'd save me having to have me legs in stirrups and a swab up me arse and down me throat every 3 months

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"The couple who insisted on bareback told me "don't worry we only go with guys who we can tell are clean ".

That's a clever gift they have there regarding judgement eh ?"

Wow, wouldn't mind knowing them, it'd save me having to have me legs in stirrups and a swab up me arse and down me throat every 3 months

Oops missed the smilies

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By *allDarkFoxForYou OP Man
over a year ago

Winchester/London

Exactly Blonde Caz and they must clean up on the lottery surely ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wolfie I have a hunch given your name and geography that you're a old gold and black man regarding football same as myself ?"

I am my friend and don't do bareback as its as dangerous as signing roger Johnson on a £40k a week contract over 5 years then letting him organise a piss up!!! Lol

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By *allDarkFoxForYou OP Man
over a year ago

Winchester/London

Wolfie I reckon we will go straight back up after this seasons total disaster.

Mind you I could be bathing in delusion ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The couple who insisted on bareback told me "don't worry we only go with guys who we can tell are clean "."

Ridiculous how can they tell if someone is clean or not? Even if you have been tested clean doesn't mean they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it best to pass on these choice barebackers as I'm not going to be offering them what they crave ?"

Its best to pass on what you're not happy with and stick with what you are happy with.

Four messages for meets over one weekend seems a very good result for a single guy!

What does puzzle is why youre asking for advice as to wether to "pass" on these offers??

Are you unsure of your preferences and seeking some sort of reassurance?

Just do what you and your partner(s) are happy with. Free choice is still with us. At least theyve had the decency to let you know their prefs and given you the choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I'd give them a miss. Even if they agree your terms of safe sex you can be sure they'll bring the subject up again at a crucial moment during the meet and that would make things awkward. It happened to me few years ago but I stuck to my rule and refused to go any further. I won't go into detail of what I then had to sit and watch lol bur I'm sure you can use your imagination

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By *allDarkFoxForYou OP Man
over a year ago

Winchester/London

Dave and Pippa I'm certain as to only using condoms but wondered if a condom meet with couples who prefer bareback was wise ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wolfie I reckon we will go straight back up after this seasons total disaster.

Mind you I could be bathing in delusion ?"

I will wait for the new manager before I give any predictions, tho I'm looking forward to standing up at away grounds again (I'm old and get sentimental about it lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have had four messages this weekend whereby couples have read my profile and seen my pic then requested an encounter.

Three of these have requested a preference for bareback whereas I'm a condom only guy.

Is it best to pass on these choice barebackers as I'm not going to be offering them what they crave ?"

Don't play Russian roulette with your health , not worth it .. Pass them by

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By *allDarkFoxForYou OP Man
over a year ago

Winchester/London

I'm with you on the standing as it creates a better atmosphere.

Coyle for me. You mate ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dave and Pippa I'm certain as to only using condoms but wondered if a condom meet with couples who prefer bareback was wise ?"

Ahh ok see what you mean. All I can say is take as many or as little precautions as you are happy with.

Its your option to choose and not something anyone can really advise you on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm with you on the standing as it creates a better atmosphere.

Coyle for me. You mate ?"

I'd be very happy with Coyle or Jackett in fact anyone but Megson lol!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The couple who insisted on bareback told me "don't worry we only go with guys who we can tell are clean ".

That's a clever gift they have there regarding judgement eh ?"

Can you ask that couple what this weeks winning lottery numbers are please????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have had four messages this weekend whereby couples have read my profile and seen my pic then requested an encounter.

Three of these have requested a preference for bareback whereas I'm a condom only guy.

Is it best to pass on these choice barebackers as I'm not going to be offering them what they crave ?"

Just bareback with them

Then you can come back here and tell us that you didn't really and that you always use protection.

Even better, get the hubby to take pics of you shagging his wife bareback.

If anyone asks, she was your long term partner

Anyone else feeling uber cynical today ?

SERIOUS ANSWER NOW

As with all things in life, do what YOU are comfortable with and nothing else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stop moaning and bare back them we only play bare back if you dont like it dont do it but we love spunk inside pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"stop moaning and bare back them we only play bare back if you dont like it dont do it but we love spunk inside pussy "

OMG.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you Doctor Rock.

I had a couple recently who said " we don't mind bareback " then it became clear that a meet had to be bareback.

The scenario had an air of an unpaid porn shoot to myself."

It's would only be like £20-£40 anyway

Guys don't get paid a lot in porn in the beginning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"stop moaning and bare back them we only play bare back if you dont like it dont do it but we love spunk inside pussy "

good for you but that don't mean other have to just because you do

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive removed posts - as much as you might not agree with what they are saying please don't start critiquing posters profiles unless they ask for it. Ta.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For two years. I have been getting messages from couples and women for bareback sex. I have been clean my whole life and i intend to remain that way.

When i think of it that way..good thing iv had no meets lol

Like i say. Dont be silly, cover your willy.

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By *allDarkFoxForYou OP Man
over a year ago

Winchester/London

Thank you popeye and I agree with you.

The poster who is asking why I have safe sex listed missed my point in the forum.

It is never in doubt that I will only play with a condom.

I was simply seeking feedback as to whether hooking up with a couple who during messaging drift towards a preference for bareback are best avoided as I'm not offering them what they prefer ?

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By *eased n pleasedCouple
over a year ago

wickford

Definitely avoid it, because you will get nothing out of it if you do decide to meet up..you will just be thinking about all the times they have gone bareback with all and sundry!..surely if you always put something on the end it (Jeremy Kyles words! Lol) you would want to meet like minded people, which is the point of this site!

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By *allDarkFoxForYou OP Man
over a year ago

Winchester/London

Thank you Jan+Si.

A desirable message that quotes Jeremy Kyle.

On the face of it an unlikely scenario but you live and learn

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