FabSwingers.com forum: What do woman really think ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

larger ladies Can be just as sexy as size 6 , Is this same for men ?? can big men look just as good ?????? A man with a beer tummy and bit of fat on his bones can he look as good as the slimmer man ?? I hope so ........ as if men find its ok for woman it should be same for men here .... .

And do you think people will say ? and thay will say its just choice ? but I cant help thinking if woman outnumbered men the tables be turned .?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do men compare themselves to eachother as much as women seem to? The reason I started my slim thread the other day was to get people to see that regardless of size the real issue is people comparing what others have to what they have and presuming one must be happier than the other.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do men compare themselves to eachother as much as women seem to? The reason I started my slim thread the other day was to get people to see that regardless of size the real issue is people comparing what others have to what they have and presuming one must be happier than the other.

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well man bend over backwards here for all woman no matter .. size, looks thay can do what ever thay like And its just not the same for men ..... BBW s where the mans one ? men I think do compare . I am sure if woman outnumbered things be very very different here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course men compare to other guys in the gym, on here etc.

Yes everybody should be happy in themselves but it is clearly a confidence thing as we see these type if threads all the time particularly from fems.

I think the op has a valid point and question, single guys in here profess to loving bbws whether they are genuine or not is irrelevent , my point being that everyone on here goes out of there way to ensure that bbws, larger ladies etc are made to feel beautiful and rightly so to a degree but i have yet to see a confidence building thread aimed at larger men

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

but i have yet to see a confidence building thread aimed at larger men.

Thay are rear ... where BBW posts 10 a penny here. Its like people don't care and feel its there choice .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately on here women will always out number the men giving them a choice of the "body type" they will meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And you would think bigger woman would stand up for them ....... Like thay do them .?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Unfortunately on here women will always out number the men giving them a choice of the "body type" they will meet.

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if tables was turned god know how things would be ...

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

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In your OP you assumed that slimmer = sexier and this is simply not true. It IS a product of the dreadful fashion industry, perpetuated by the media though.

Sexy is a state of mind, not a dress size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men do compare themselves to others - some even try and compete with others in terms of having a better body / being able to attract women.

Bigger guys will always find Fab hard work, except those that have the luxury of a female wife / swinging partner to rely on.

The simple fact is that for most women, fat is not a fantasy : big arms, strong builds, good bodies, athletic stamina etc are.

That is what the majority of women seek - not all by any means - but most !

I do believe though that a niche exists for all of us, regardless of size, build, physique.

It will come easier to some than others but I do believe with a positive outlook and a respectful attitude, doors will open for many blokes.

Sadly, many don't sit back and take note of what's going on, how to approach things, how to adapt and how to behave.

They jump in with both feet, fuck it all up, assume it's everyone elses fault and leave.

If I can be successful at this, anyone can but the simple fact is that those that get it right, get it right (with the odd minor hiccup) but those that get it wrong, get it REALLY wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In your OP you assumed that slimmer = sexier and this is simply not true. It IS a product of the dreadful fashion industry, perpetuated by the media though.

Sexy is a state of mind, not a dress size. "
why not same for men just woman ? if so ????? so if state of mind maybe we should give the bigger men here a ego boost .So thay don't feel like a out cast .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some men do compare themselves to others - some even try and compete with others in terms of having a better body / being able to attract women.

Bigger guys will always find Fab hard work, except those that have the luxury of a female wife / swinging partner to rely on.

The simple fact is that for most women, fat is not a fantasy : big arms, strong builds, good bodies, athletic stamina etc are.

That is what the majority of women seek - not all by any means - but most !

I do believe though that a niche exists for all of us, regardless of size, build, physique.

It will come easier to some than others but I do believe with a positive outlook and a respectful attitude, doors will open for many blokes.

Sadly, many don't sit back and take note of what's going on, how to approach things, how to adapt and how to behave.

They jump in with both feet, fuck it all up, assume it's everyone elses fault and leave.

If I can be successful at this, anyone can but the simple fact is that those that get it right, get it right (with the odd minor hiccup) but those that get it wrong, get it REALLY wrong."
Good post xxxxxxxxxxx and I hope some here will read it and lean xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy is a state of mind, not a dress size. why not same for men just woman ? if so ????? so if state of mind maybe we should give the bigger men here a ego boost .So thay don't feel like a out cast ."

in all fairness jo, they want fucking not to have their egos stroked

and preferably by someone who fancies them, not someone dishing out mercy fucks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sexy is a state of mind, not a dress size. why not same for men just woman ? if so ????? so if state of mind maybe we should give the bigger men here a ego boost .So thay don't feel like a out cast .

in all fairness jo, they want fucking not to have their egos stroked

and preferably by someone who fancies them, not someone dishing out mercy fucks "
well I know that , But be nice for them to have that boost here too , xx and your right not mercy fucks xxx fucks liking them as who thay are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy is a state of mind, not a dress size

I do believe though that a niche exists for all of us, regardless of size, build, physique.

It will come easier to some than others but I do believe with a positive outlook and a respectful attitude, doors will open for many blokes.

Sadly, many don't sit back and take note of what's going on, how to approach things, how to adapt and how to behave.

They jump in with both feet, fuck it all up, assume it's everyone elses fault and leave.

If I can be successful at this, anyone can but the simple fact is that those that get it right, get it right (with the odd minor hiccup) but those that get it wrong, get it REALLY wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And your right in saying this .

Sadly, many don't sit back and take note of what's going on, how to approach things, how to adapt and how to behave.

They jump in with both feet, fuck it all up, assume it's everyone elses fault and leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As expected...not a whole lot of fems supporting the larger male

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As expected...not a whole lot of fems supporting the larger male"
I was living in hope here thay would back them up and make them feel part of all this here .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The choice for us girls is so wide and varied , unlike the choice for men .

So we can perhaps be a little more honest in our choices , and tbh a fit guy will always be my choice over a fat guy .

If it were the case that after trying for a fit guy for months with no joy , then the larger guy may get my attention , but that's not the case !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BBW`s have found a haven onhere and thats why so many are drawn to fab. they love the attention and admiration the guys throw at them

cant really blame them for lapping it up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"BBW`s have found a haven onhere and thats why so many are drawn to fab. they love the attention and admiration the guys throw at them

cant really blame them for lapping it up "
Is it same in the world outside fab .? I like to think people are more then a age and size here .. and people can still respect them .. even if don't wish to have sex . We go on pics to start when you don't know people .. I know .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i prefer average size men, but personality is more important.

some men who have a bit of a beer tummy can look good of course.

a man who fabbed my pics wasnt slim but he looked sexy, because he was wearing smart clothes and most of all he was wearing a lovely hat and i like men who wear hats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BBW`s have found a haven onhere and thats why so many are drawn to fab. they love the attention and admiration the guys throw at them

cant really blame them for lapping it up Is it same in the world outside fab .? I like to think people are more then a age and size here .. and people can still respect them .. even if don't wish to have sex . We go on pics to start when you don't know people .. I know .

the bbws could prolly answer that better than i could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people seem to think that because fat women get attention from men on here that they should be grateful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" i prefer average size men, but personality is more important.

some men who have a bit of a beer tummy can look good of course.

a man who fabbed my pics wasnt slim but he looked sexy, because he was wearing smart clothes and most of all he was wearing a lovely hat and i like men who wear hats.

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I bet you will get more pics in hats now. xxx I think confidence is a big part of this no matter of size .. don't you xx x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"some people seem to think that because fat women get attention from men on here that they should be grateful.

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its not about big woman big men .Big woman get 10000s lusting after them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to sound conceited, but I'm a bigger girl and I have never struggled for attention outside of Fab.. I seem to see a lot of people thinking that Fab is exceptional in that a lot of guys will go for a bigger lady, but believe it or not even when we aren't outnumbered we do okay in the "real world"

To answer the original question I don't mind a guy who is well built, rugby player type, but I don't like very big men. Saying that, I have a friend who loves a bigger man, thinks Peter Kay is exceptionally sexy etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some people seem to think that because fat women get attention from men on here that they should be grateful.

its not about big woman big men .Big woman get 10000s lusting after them ."

do they realy get 10000s lusting after them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"some people seem to think that because fat women get attention from men on here that they should be grateful.

its not about big woman big men .Big woman get 10000s lusting after them .

do they realy get 10000s lusting after them.

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well yes .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

take size out of the equation for a minute. women that arent used to the attention must be buzzin their tits off after joining this place

someone mentioned it in a post god knows when. stick a frock on ken dodd onhere and he`d just be another female member getting 100 messages a day

will it ever be the same for tubby guys(in general)

no.

why? because thats just the way it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"take size out of the equation for a minute. women that arent used to the attention must be buzzin their tits off after joining this place

someone mentioned it in a post god knows when. stick a frock on ken dodd onhere and he`d just be another female member getting 100 messages a day

will it ever be the same for tubby guys(in general)

no.

why? because thats just the way it is"

do you realy think that all these fat women who get messages from men wanting sex, are getting that excited about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"take size out of the equation for a minute. women that arent used to the attention must be buzzin their tits off after joining this place

someone mentioned it in a post god knows when. stick a frock on ken dodd onhere and he`d just be another female member getting 100 messages a day

will it ever be the same for tubby guys(in general)

no.

why? because thats just the way it is

do you realy think that all these fat women who get messages from men wanting sex, are getting that excited about it.

yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"take size out of the equation for a minute. women that arent used to the attention must be buzzin their tits off after joining this place

someone mentioned it in a post god knows when. stick a frock on ken dodd onhere and he`d just be another female member getting 100 messages a day

will it ever be the same for tubby guys(in general)

no.

why? because thats just the way it is"
why? numbers ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some people seem to think that because fat women get attention from men on here that they should be grateful.

I think the ops point on this thread is not about bbws but the fact that women on here post these type of threads all the time about what men really think etc. And get theyre confidence boosted by same threads and rightly so.

However if a larger guy is lacking in confidence and puts up a thread about it it somehow turns back into a bbw thread.

Ya'll get tonnes of replies from guys telling ye they love bbws etc. So why not come in and give the guy (s) an ego boost ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"take size out of the equation for a minute. women that arent used to the attention must be buzzin their tits off after joining this place

someone mentioned it in a post god knows when. stick a frock on ken dodd onhere and he`d just be another female member getting 100 messages a day

will it ever be the same for tubby guys(in general)

no.

why? because thats just the way it is

do you realy think that all these fat women who get messages from men wanting sex, are getting that excited about it.

yes

some maybe.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"some people seem to think that because fat women get attention from men on here that they should be grateful.

However if a larger guy is lacking in confidence and puts up a thread about it it somehow turns back into a bbw thread.

Ya'll get tonnes of replies from guys telling ye they love bbws etc. So why not come in and give the guy (s) an ego boost ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The intent of the thread is good if a little bit misplaced and if anything may serve to do the exact opposite of what it intended.

As a confident fat fella, I can take the knock backs and I totally get that I am far from being on peoples radar build or looks wise.

It is easy to assume that getting a knock back is because I have a belly and a chubby face, but is that always the case ?

I am also likely to be knocked back for being a short ass, wearing glasses, having a bald head, being hairy, being over 40, being bi and a whole variety of reasons.

Those very reasons though are just why I AM attractive to others.

You have to know how and where to market what it is you have to offer.

I have always found it easier to attract bi or gay guys as opposed to attracting women.

Thankfully, I have a sexuality that embraces that attraction.

If I was fully straight, I dare say that my confidence may have suffered more knocks than it has.

I think bigger guys have it tough in vanillaland as well as on here, but I also think that some join with the expectancy that because the women here are more sexually liberated, they are more likely to find a person who embraces them, build and all.

Oh, what an eye opener they must have !

Naivety is a mother fucker

Expectation an even bigger one !

BUT as I said in my opening gambit on this thread, approach this properly and respectfully and more importantly target your searches and the rewards should come regardless of build.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

they come in threes .. your wright a good post xx And i can tell every word is for real xx Just like you and

see why you do well on here. xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think women can be just as bad as men when looking at the appearance of the opposite sex

As a bloke I think larger ladies can be just as attractive to me as say a size 6 or 8 I find larger women tend to be more flirtatious and suggestive which I find a massive turn on

Where as some(thats "some")smaller sized lady can be... Well... A bit more up there own backside to put it mildly lol

James x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I think women can be just as bad as men when looking at the appearance of the opposite sex

As a bloke I think larger ladies can be just as attractive to me as say a size 6 or 8 I find larger women tend to be more flirtatious and suggestive which I find a massive turn on

Where as some(thats "some")smaller sized lady can be... Well... A bit more up there own backside to put it mildly lol

James x"

roughly translated - big girls are easier lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally I think women can be just as bad as men when looking at the appearance of the opposite sex

As a bloke I think larger ladies can be just as attractive to me as say a size 6 or 8 I find larger women tend to be more flirtatious and suggestive which I find a massive turn on

Where as some(thats "some")smaller sized lady can be... Well... A bit more up there own backside to put it mildly lol

James x"
so is it the same for men ?? slim men up there own backside as you put it? Then larger men ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" so is it the same for men ?? slim men up there own backside as you put it? Then larger men ? "

nope

tossers come in all sizes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I think women can be just as bad as men when looking at the appearance of the opposite sex

As a bloke I think larger ladies can be just as attractive to me as say a size 6 or 8 I find larger women tend to be more flirtatious and suggestive which I find a massive turn on

Where as some(thats "some")smaller sized lady can be... Well... A bit more up there own backside to put it mildly lol

James x

roughly translated - big girls are easier lol

Lol

no not at all, but I just think they have a more grounded personality because they are aware that they are larger and prob not everyone's cup of tea..... Oh help!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" so is it the same for men ?? slim men up there own backside as you put it? Then larger men ?

nope

tossers come in all sizes

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well yes i know all men can do that xx.... Just finding some even grown here . level playingfeild , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I think women can be just as bad as men when looking at the appearance of the opposite sex

As a bloke I think larger ladies can be just as attractive to me as say a size 6 or 8 I find larger women tend to be more flirtatious and suggestive which I find a massive turn on

Where as some(thats "some")smaller sized lady can be... Well... A bit more up there own backside to put it mildly lol

James x

roughly translated - big girls are easier lol

Lol

no not at all, but I just think they have a more grounded personality because they are aware that they are larger and prob not everyone's cup of tea..... Oh help!!"

If ya let me stroke ur chest n belly, I'll throw you a step ladder to dig urself outta that hole ur diggin

one good turn n all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

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It isn't the same for men at all, but the bias isn't nearly as bad as many might think.

That being said, body attitudes in society affect men just as much as women. Lads mags and publications like Men's Health portray this image of men that many strive to, but probably will never achieve.

The difference on here being that most "bigger" guys don't feel the need to make nearly as many threads seeking reassurance from others who may or may not like them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I think women can be just as bad as men when looking at the appearance of the opposite sex

As a bloke I think larger ladies can be just as attractive to me as say a size 6 or 8 I find larger women tend to be more flirtatious and suggestive which I find a massive turn on

Where as some(thats "some")smaller sized lady can be... Well... A bit more up there own backside to put it mildly lol

James x so is it the same for men ?? slim men up there own backside as you put it? Then larger men ? "

I personally think slimmer men can be I know blokes that think they are too good to be with a 'larger' lady

Maybe it's more to do with looking good infront of there peers rather than they're actual real feelings but yes I think men can be just as bad as women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

no not at all, but I just think they have a more grounded personality because they are aware that they are larger and prob not everyone's cup of tea..... Oh help!!

If ya let me stroke ur chest n belly, I'll throw you a step ladder to dig urself outta that hole ur diggin

one good turn n all that

Lol it's not that hairy is it?? Well perhaps it could do with a trim

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By *indobona_1TV/TS
over a year ago

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Prof. Winston showed by experiment that the a male poorly presented (badly dressed and groomed) had many fewer chances of selection than the same man well dressed and apparently wealthy. The upshot was who was the best provider. I'm sure that similar approach by ladies to males in a sexual context applies. A chap who exudes masculine confidence will have much more success than a wannabe. I don't think that a tall, square-jawed, broad shouldered, bubble butted guy necessarily has more chances bedding a lady but it probably gives that guy more confidence when it comes to the preliminaries. Though there is probably a state where a guy is too much in love with himself!

OK MCP mode off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It isn't the same for men at all, but the bias isn't nearly as bad as many might think.

The difference on here being that most "bigger" guys don't feel the need to make nearly as many threads seeking reassurance from others who may or may not like them."

Confidence, not over-confidence or cockyness, is a very attrative trait to many.

So is having the ability to be at ease with yourself and others in a variety of circumstances.

Big guys who are self confident will always do better than those that shuffle around in the shadows avoiding eye contact and looking embarrassed by their build.

Walk in a room with your head up, shoulders back and a ready smile and you nearly always will catch someones eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

no not at all, but I just think they have a more grounded personality because they are aware that they are larger and prob not everyone's cup of tea..... Oh help!!

If ya let me stroke ur chest n belly, I'll throw you a step ladder to dig urself outta that hole ur diggin

one good turn n all that

Lol it's not that hairy is it?? Well perhaps it could do with a trim

dunno bout hairy, but it's nice n strokeable

am sure there are many ladies that would agree with me on that one

luckily for you i am not in prowl mode at the minute

so be thankful for small mercies, cos if i were, you'd probably be safer staying down that hole ya just dug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

no not at all, but I just think they have a more grounded personality because they are aware that they are larger and prob not everyone's cup of tea..... Oh help!!

If ya let me stroke ur chest n belly, I'll throw you a step ladder to dig urself outta that hole ur diggin

one good turn n all that

Lol it's not that hairy is it?? Well perhaps it could do with a trim

dunno bout hairy, but it's nice n strokeable

am sure there are many ladies that would agree with me on that one

luckily for you i am not in prowl mode at the minute

so be thankful for small mercies, cos if i were, you'd probably be safer staying down that hole ya just dug

Not had any women interested in stroking my chest

You on the prowl sounds like you've got plenty of that confidence you spoke of lol

I never got stuck in that hole I thought I climbed out of it quite well

He says ready to be knocked back in it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never got stuck in that hole I thought I climbed out of it quite well

He says ready to be knocked back in it lol"

There's time yet

The evening shift will be on soon

and they aren't half as nice as us lot on days

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I never got stuck in that hole I thought I climbed out of it quite well

He says ready to be knocked back in it lol

There's time yet

The evening shift will be on soon

and they aren't half as nice as us lot on days

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lol I have never looked at it as day and evening shift xx

well I think people have been getting on well just lately no matter of different views .xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big difference is that with women, if they gain weight their assets such as chest and arse usually gets bigger which guys love. If men gain weight, their cock stays same length and they get moobs. Its just not fair

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Big difference is that with women, if they gain weight their assets such as chest and arse usually gets bigger which guys love. If men gain weight, their cock stays same length and they get moobs. Its just not fair "
well I am sure mens bums can look bigger too and tops of there legs and arms ? maybe don't always go on moobs and woman may love it .. Woman can put on weight and go places thay hate too..

x xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Big difference is that with women, if they gain weight their assets such as chest and arse usually gets bigger which guys love. If men gain weight, their cock stays same length and they get moobs. Its just not fair well I am sure mens bums can look bigger too and tops of there legs and arms ? maybe don't always go on moobs and woman may love it .. Woman can put on weight and go places thay hate too..

x xx"

Yeah but there must be some reason why there are far more bbw lovers in comparison to big men lovers. Never seen a profile asking for 'curvy men'. I have no other explanation lol

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over a year ago

"Big difference is that with women, if they gain weight their assets such as chest and arse usually gets bigger which guys love. If men gain weight, their cock stays same length and they get moobs. Its just not fair well I am sure mens bums can look bigger too and tops of there legs and arms ? maybe don't always go on moobs and woman may love it .. Woman can put on weight and go places thay hate too..

x xx

Yeah but there must be some reason why there are far more bbw lovers in comparison to big men lovers. Never seen a profile asking for 'curvy men'. I have no other explanation lol"
You maybe on to something maybe curvy men should say ....thay are curvy ,? Or is that not manly.. xx

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over a year ago

"As expected...not a whole lot of fems supporting the larger male"

It can depend on individual interpretation of 'the larger male'. I personally like a chunky chap, but it my personal interpretation of whom I perceive as someone with 'meat on their bones', to someone too overweight for my personal taste.

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"As expected...not a whole lot of fems supporting the larger male

The same logic applies to curvy, bbw, ample etc.

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"Big difference is that with women, if they gain weight their assets such as chest and arse usually gets bigger which guys love. If men gain weight, their cock stays same length and they get moobs. Its just not fair well I am sure mens bums can look bigger too and tops of there legs and arms ? maybe don't always go on moobs and woman may love it .. Woman can put on weight and go places thay hate too..

x xx

Yeah but there must be some reason why there are far more bbw lovers in comparison to big men lovers. Never seen a profile asking for 'curvy men'. I have no other explanation lol"

There are a couple of profiles on here that specify it, but by far and large (no pun intended) the majority of girlies and couples on here are looking for guys who fit the average to athletic build type.

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I don't find very over weight men attractive, i don't mind a little over weight but not to much, i don't like fat faces and double chins,i just cant find any attraction in it

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over a year ago

"As expected...not a whole lot of fems supporting the larger male

The same logic applies to curvy, bbw, ample etc. "
just wish we could come up with the right words for curvy men ....... you don't see a lot of BBW saying I am fat beer tummy and love my food and beer .. I would love to make them feel fab to be here xxx like others do .. maybe a dream I know x

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over a year ago

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I fall into the category of....strange body shape ! Lol. I have a very firm arse, legs as hard as red rums, tight shoulders .....and a beer belly !! Really it's very strange! I had the calliper test done and there is no loose skin or fat on my arse and legs at all ! I was always as skinny as twiggy and now I have a beer gut, wouldn't mind but I don't even drink ! Lol . It's not that big that I can't see my cock when I look down but it's just there !!

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"I fall into the category of....strange body shape ! Lol. I have a very firm arse, legs as hard as red rums, tight shoulders .....and a beer belly !! Really it's very strange! I had the calliper test done and there is no loose skin or fat on my arse and legs at all ! I was always as skinny as twiggy and now I have a beer gut, wouldn't mind but I don't even drink ! Lol . It's not that big that I can't see my cock when I look down but it's just there !!

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well it just maybe your body shape ... we are not supermodels here .. we are normal with bits we maybe don't like but have to make the most of ourselves as if we cant love ourselves for who we are how can others. xx I bet your fine xx just you xx

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As a bbw myself

I prefer men who have a 'presence' about them. Those men for me are often taller than me, confident, polite and respectful together with someone who engages me with intelligent conversation.

As I can't sense someone's presence from message exchanges on here it does tend to come down to initially what I think of their looks. I have on many an occasion tho turned men down for meets as they are slim and that for me is just not attractive (I'd worry I'd snap em)!

To be clear tho, large men are attractive. I don't however find fat men attractive because 2 of us trying to have sex with tummies often doesn't work well

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over a year ago

kinda like sumo wrestling

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over a year ago

"kinda like sumo wrestling

No but if his weapon of choice is not considered a schlong then chances are it won't do much damage!

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over a year ago

"kinda like sumo wrestling

No but if his weapon of choice is not considered a schlong then chances are it won't do much damage!"
well I am sure two large people can have good sex .. together .Oral and things but be just as good ,

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over a year ago

"some people seem to think that because fat women get attention from men on here that they should be grateful.

However if a larger guy is lacking in confidence and puts up a thread about it it somehow turns back into a bbw thread.

Ya'll get tonnes of replies from guys telling ye they love bbws etc. So why not come in and give the guy (s) an ego boost ?"
GOOD POST and yes you sum it up for me in that post .. x

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over a year ago

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I agree, as a larger bloke it's hard to get any positive feedback from women. There are no threads to boost the larger mans ego yet there are plenty to boost women's.

I'm deeply grateful to all the amazing women who see past the belly and look for the personality and more importantly the person behind it !

So go on .... Try a big guy

You might even like it !!

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"I agree, as a larger bloke it's hard to get any positive feedback from women. There are no threads to boost the larger mans ego yet there are plenty to boost women's.

I'm deeply grateful to all the amazing women who see past the belly and look for the personality and more importantly the person behind it !

So go on .... Try a big guy

You might even like it !!

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well I like the sound of that xx sizes thay say we are not but really its going strong here and we just have to look ..

xx not matter of size your a person .Like bigger ladys ... if I was one I would hate to think people only liking me for size .And yes I know everyone different .

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Thanks guys, your are amazing. I'm uber jealous of your lovely boat too ! About 7 years ago I was looking at buying one on the broads myself, I ended up buying a static caravan in Blackpool, even that has gone now

due to my investment into a new business, which is going very well !

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"Thanks guys, your are amazing. I'm uber jealous of your lovely boat too ! About 7 years ago I was looking at buying one on the broads myself, I ended up buying a static caravan in Blackpool, even that has gone now

due to my investment into a new business, which is going very well !

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Glad to here things are going well in business .. shows the lady's here there's a lot more to you as in this day and age not easy to do well in the work place xx xx

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Yeah, it's hard work but if you put your mind to it I believe anything is possible. I only got into it because someone asked if I could do the work building the studio, as time got on so did we and he gave me full approval to do whatever I wanted in the premises, what started off as a rehearsal room and teaching room for drumming is now much more, I added a music shop, fully functioning recording studio and a workshop where I build custom drum kits any size any colour , aswell as being the only recording studio for miles around that can do album quality recordings at outside venues. We also sign up and coming bands and singers to recording contracts !

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"Yeah, it's hard work but if you put your mind to it I believe anything is possible. I only got into it because someone asked if I could do the work building the studio, as time got on so did we and he gave me full approval to do whatever I wanted in the premises, what started off as a rehearsal room and teaching room for drumming is now much more, I added a music shop, fully functioning recording studio and a workshop where I build custom drum kits any size any colour , aswell as being the only recording studio for miles around that can do album quality recordings at outside venues. We also sign up and coming bands and singers to recording contracts ! "
well that all sounds Fab xxxx well done you xx

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