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By *est_Mids_Nice_Guy OP   Man
9 weeks ago

willenhall

I had a meet with a couple earlier which was going really well, however they both asked me to cum in the woman. I said I wasn’t happy to as it was our first meet and I didn’t know them. They seemed to accept this until I was about to cum. She was on top and I wasn’t sat on the sofa. The guy, who was sat on the chair watching, then came over and asked me to take the condom off, but I said no. He then started to finger her while I was inside her and I got th feeling he was trying to pull the condom off. As I pulled out the condom came off and was hanging from her. She the climbed off and started to suck me nd the guy then started wanking me off in her mouth, which I wasn’t expecting. She then asked me to cum in her as I was near cuming. I politely refused but agreed I’d shoot my cum into her from outside, which I did as she held it open.

I then went to use the toilet and returned to him licking my cum up.

Amy I wrong to have felt uncomfortable?

They blocked me straight after

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By *tyoursecretserviceMan
9 weeks ago

your hands x

Sounds hot as fuck who are they ?

I get the protection bit but the rest, horny as hell

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
9 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

No means no 💜

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By *att1990xxxMan
9 weeks ago

Plymouth

This is hot and very acceptable

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By *ukeM8519Man
9 weeks ago

West of Ireland

well what age was she? that would be a big decider ?

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By *ireland30Man
9 weeks ago

Newcastle

Horny as fk lol

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By *est_Mids_Nice_Guy OP   Man
8 weeks ago

willenhall

55

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
8 weeks ago

Basingstoke

If you said no, then that should be the end of it. You should not be coerced into anything you're not comfortable with.

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By *hickthighs25Woman
8 weeks ago

Stockton

No means no!

If you enjoyed that and wanted to no problem whatsoever but if u felt uncomfortable absolutely not!

If that was a guy doing that to a woman it would be looked on differently and it shouldnt!

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Maybe this should’ve been discussed before.

Also, as a few have mentioned already, No means No, irrespective of who says it.

Probably a good thing they blocked you, for your sake.

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By *rtickle1Man
8 weeks ago

nuneaton

Sounds very hot for me

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By *AYENCouple
8 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

They shouldn't have done anything to make you feel uncomfortable - it sounds like bad choices all round. K.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
8 weeks ago

East Sussex

Not acceptable.

Also to the people who find it hot. Just because you enjoy something doesn't make it ok for someone else.

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By *arkgodMan
8 weeks ago

london

Always discuss boundaries, hard limit etc before engaging with people. If you see things going the other way during the act just quit it. The fact you’re a bull doesn’t mean you should be disrespected or feel somehow coerced into something you don’t feel comfortable.

The act should feel natural not uncomfortable else what’s the point.

People are just playing smart here sometimes and it’s destroying the image of the lifestyle

Just saying

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By *inceIlkestonMan
8 weeks ago

Ilkeston


"I had a meet with a couple earlier which was going really well, however they both asked me to cum in the woman. I said I wasn’t happy to as it was our first meet and I didn’t know them. They seemed to accept this until I was about to cum. She was on top and I wasn’t sat on the sofa. The guy, who was sat on the chair watching, then came over and asked me to take the condom off, but I said no. He then started to finger her while I was inside her and I got th feeling he was trying to pull the condom off. As I pulled out the condom came off and was hanging from her. She the climbed off and started to suck me nd the guy then started wanking me off in her mouth, which I wasn’t expecting. She then asked me to cum in her as I was near cuming. I politely refused but agreed I’d shoot my cum into her from outside, which I did as she held it open.

I then went to use the toilet and returned to him licking my cum up.

Amy I wrong to have felt uncomfortable?

They blocked me straight after

"

Very disrespectful and out of order if you didn't consent. Also if the woman didn't consent you could be breaking the law.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

OP what is acceptable or not and what you do or do not feel comfortable with is entirely for you to judge. We each have our own boundaries which if we've communicated clearly to the other person or persons is then unacceptable for them to ignore.

You post gives the feeling that you were not happy with how things happened. I am sorry you had an experience that made you feel uncomfortable.

Mutual enthusiastic consent relies on people understanding and respecting that No means no.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

It's unacceptable. No means no ..If it had been the other way around and a woman had posted that a couple had wanted the man to come in her when she said no, there would not be people calling it hot. And as for trying to remove the condom if a man does that to a woman it can lead to charges if reported to police, so no its not okay for him to try to remove your condom.

And as for someone saying it's okay because she is 55 presumably because they think she can't get pregnant, that's not acceptable either. I was 56 when my periods stopped and could potentially have got pregnant until 57...

I think the couple were selfish and behaved very badly. They obviously view single men as their playthings and have no regard for them whatsoever.

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By *nexplored kinksMan
8 weeks ago

Oldham

Absolutely not.

Like others have said, no means NO.

Imagine the outrage if it was the other way round.

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By *carlettsWoman
8 weeks ago

Harpenden

Definately not as everyone else has said no means no when said at any point even half way through, you have the right to change your mind.

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By *tlanshiaWoman
8 weeks ago

Chatham

That's unacceptable.

No means no.

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By *hong80321967Man
8 weeks ago

Wakefield

I'd have been happy to just cum inside her

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