FabSwingers.com forum: TIME WASTERS

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If someone isn't verified after one year do you think they are a timewaster.

or should they not have that long to be verified.

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

If people don't want to be verified then that is their outlook.

Who's time have they wasted by not being verified? No-one's therefore NOT timewasters IMO

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

maybe they took a break and haven't been on much or were happy just to take their time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't had a meet for about 18 months.

Do you class me a time-waster?

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Too easy to give someone a label..If someone isn't verified and it is a big deal to you - don't go there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone isn't verified after one year do you think they are a timewaster.

or should they not have that long to be verified."

Yes should we

- hang them

- put them in electric chair

- lethal injection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone isn't verified after one year do you think they are a timewaster.

or should they not have that long to be verified."
Burn them at the stake

* cReEpS rOunD cRyPt * - | -

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If someone isn't verified after one year do you think they are a timewaster.

or should they not have that long to be verified.

Yes should we

- hang them

- put them in electric chair

- lethal injection

LOL no just think a year is a long time if you are not going to do it in a year .will you ever do it

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By *uxtapositionMan
over a year ago

CARDIFF

"If someone isn't verified after one year do you think they are a timewaster.

or should they not have that long to be verified.

Yes should we

- hang them

- put them in electric chair

- lethal injection

lol !

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

LOL no just think a year is a long time if you are not going to do it in a year .will you ever do it

the one thing i tell new people or people who are thinking of doing this is at the end of the day, you can only go as fast as the slowest person......

and if that takes them time to get to that stage... i'd rather then thought about it and enjoyed it... than rush into something and absolutely regret it...

it took me 9 months to get my first meet to the point where i was comfortable enough.... would you have called me a timewaster????

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Whenever i read such a thread i am reminded of the phrase..

'use this site for what you want to get out of it and worry not about what others do' ish..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone isn't verified after one year do you think they are a timewaster.

or should they not have that long to be verified."
no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone isn't verified after one year do you think they are a timewaster.

or should they not have that long to be verified.

Yes should we

- hang them

- put them in electric chair

- lethal injection

Cant we just buy them dinner and show them a good time?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

very rarely look at verification or how long ago they met someone. If i like them i chat to them, if not i dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone isn't verified after one year do you think they are a timewaster.

or should they not have that long to be verified.

Yes should we

- hang them

- put them in electric chair

- lethal injection

Lol.

lol !"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone isn't verified after one year do you think they are a timewaster.

or should they not have that long to be verified."

No they may just chose not to post veris on their account

Simples

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

"If someone isn't verified after one year do you think they are a timewaster.

or should they not have that long to be verified.

Yes should we

- hang them

- put them in electric chair

- lethal injection

LOL no just think a year is a long time if you are not going to do it in a year .will you ever do it

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some people don't want to be verified, it doesn't mean they don't meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone isn't verified after one year do you think they are a timewaster.

or should they not have that long to be verified.

Yes should we

- hang them

- put them in electric chair

- lethal injection

Cant we just buy them dinner and show them a good time?"
If you get them to show you find these people don't show or ancel on te day we have given up on them and do regard them as time wasters now.

Poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone isn't verified after one year do you think they are a timewaster.

or should they not have that long to be verified.

Yes should we

- hang them

- put them in electric chair

- lethal injection

LOL no just think a year is a long time if you are not going to do it in a year .will you ever do it

some people don't want to be verified, it doesn't mean they don't meet. "
but of someone sent them a veri cos they showed up etc the tick would be there regardless .poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I haven't had a meet for about 18 months.

Do you class me a time-waster?

well on your Verified Genuine Profile

no one has added anything yet .so we would never email you.as for a time waster only you can answer that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men try very hard to get a meet ! But don't manage it !! For some time ! Don't mean they don't want it !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone isn't verified after one year do you think they are a timewaster.

or should they not have that long to be verified.

Yes should we

- hang them

- put them in electric chair

- lethal injection

Bit harsh simply ignoring them or passing by world be suffice surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm no longer playing so I must be a time waster then OP?

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By *ysteryboatMan
over a year ago

Brighton

the lack of verification doesn't mean that the person is a timewaster - perhaps they're really, really selective and haven't found anyone they find attractive on this site yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had 1 meet since I've been on here, on and off looking for meets throughout but by no means a time waster

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

Never saw anything saying it was compulsory to show verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are not verified on this account but we had another account before taking a break with a good few verifications..... Taking our time now as were looking for the right ppl to have regular fun with xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone isn't verified after one year do you think they are a timewaster.

or should they not have that long to be verified."

Many reasons why someone may not be verified after some time.

Here's one.... I had a couple's profile and had several meets through it, I'm now single and not yet attempted to dip my toe into this game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone isn't verified after one year do you think they are a timewaster.

or should they not have that long to be verified."

How unlike a couple to come up with a stupid statement like that. And before the forum nazis jump on me single guys have a hard enough time without this kind of nonsense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't had a meet for about 18 months.

Do you class me a time-waster?

well on your Verified Genuine Profile

no one has added anything yet .so we would never email you.as for a time waster only you can answer that one"

Says more about you than anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What shit verifications are and sometimes they are fake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have limited sympathy for the OP's argument. For example, when I'm looking to meet (as I was earlier) and I get messages from people with no veris, I do tend to immediately downgrade them on the scale of "likely to turn up". If they've no veris and been on a year or more then they get seriously downgraded, particularly if they seem to be angling for a meet.

True, not everyone is here to meet. As some have said some are just here to chat and some may be a bit timid. But those people usually say so on their profiles.

I take those with no veris after a decent period of time, with profiles that claim to want to meet, with a serious pinch of salt. And I don't want to gamble my free time on a somewhat unknown quantity, as much as anyobe is known on here anyway.

It's basically playing the odds in your favour. But no they shouldn't be deleted or killed etc...that's a tad harsh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm no longer playing so I must be a time waster then OP?"

longer playing

I have been told about a great site its face b""k

why be on a swingers site if you are not a swinger .as for time waster you need to ask? lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have limited sympathy for the OP's argument. For example, when I'm looking to meet (as I was earlier) and I get messages from people with no veris, I do tend to immediately downgrade them on the scale of "likely to turn up". If they've no veris and been on a year or more then they get seriously downgraded, particularly if they seem to be angling for a meet.

True, not everyone is here to meet. As some have said some are just here to chat and some may be a bit timid. But those people usually say so on their profiles.

It's basically playing the odds in your favour. But no they shouldn't be deleted or killed etc...that's a tad harsh."

thanks we are not saying kill them off

just saying as swingers that go to clubs

and meet lots of swingers gen people are getting pissed of with it ,

if it keeps going that way the site will just stop walking can people not see that

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

"I'm no longer playing so I must be a time waster then OP?

longer playing

I have been told about a great site its face b""k

why be on a swingers site if you are not a swinger .as for time waster you need to ask? lol"

people have made friends on here, so like to keep in touch with them here. Others like to use the forums and chat rooms. Just because they are not meeting at the moment, it doesn't they're time wasters, or should be on other sites like faceache.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm no longer playing so I must be a time waster then OP?

longer playing

I have been told about a great site its face b""k

why be on a swingers site if you are not a swinger .as for time waster you need to ask? lol"

These forums and the chatroom mean theres more to the site than somewhere to meet people- like facebook its a social network for people with similar interests and thinking. I'm a straight bloke but over the years I've had lots of chats in forums with Bi and Gay guys on a huge variety of subjects- I'm not interested in any sexual contact with them- its just banter, am I wasting their time???

Finally, just because someone has no verifications it doesn't mean they haven't previously. When someone cancels their account, any verifications they left vanish with them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm no longer playing so I must be a time waster then OP?

longer playing

I have been told about a great site its face b""k

why be on a swingers site if you are not a swinger .as for time waster you need to ask? lol

Finally, just because someone has no verifications it doesn't mean they haven't previously. When someone cancels their account, any verifications they left vanish with them."

yes you are right .

but if people are not swinging (meeting

people will stop going on the site for swing) and it will be just another social network site.do you not think

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

people will always use the site how they wish, just ignore or block the profiles. I dont see no issue with it. There are plenty of active profiles with people who have regular meets. Dont let it bother you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm no longer playing so I must be a time waster then OP?

longer playing

I have been told about a great site its face b""k

why be on a swingers site if you are not a swinger .as for time waster you need to ask? lol

Finally, just because someone has no verifications it doesn't mean they haven't previously. When someone cancels their account, any verifications they left vanish with them.

yes you are right .

but if people are not swinging (meeting

people will stop going on the site for swing) and it will be just another social network site.do you not think"

Theres 1000's of people on the site, even if 10% of them stop meeting it won't make much difference.

I know lots of swingles who are now couples and are taking a break from meeting others, doesn't mean they're not interested in the swing scene, chatting to friends and even still going to socials being advertised on the site. They might start swinging again, they might not but if they're ostricised from the community for not playing the chances they'll start agin are minimised

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"people will always use the site how they wish, just ignore or block the profiles. I dont see no issue with it. There are plenty of active profiles with people who have regular meets. Dont let it bother you."

it does not bother us . we have been swinging for over ten years been on about 5 swingers website in the time.

and seen how they all go the same way.

starts with swingers telling swingers about a site .

then you get people looking for a lets just say quick wank then more and more of them then the swinging people leave the site then you have a site full of people just wanking over cams .

we have seen it more then once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, but what your suggesting will lead people saying about fabswingers "don't go on there, if you don't get a verification within a few months they delete you".

And then the site will go down the tube.

No, just ignore those without veris if it annoys you. You can filter them out on searches anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some profiles have been on here over a year no pics nothing but a few of them are spare profiles just in case they need to use them if their main profile gets banned. and others just aint been lucky and even more just dont like veris. you cant insist someone sends you a veri lol.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I'm no longer playing so I must be a time waster then OP?"

I've just had a year off (have been on here 5yrs) but still like posting and reading on the forums, mostly inane drivel

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By *rand slamMan
over a year ago

coventry

Since being back on the site I've been lucky enough to have a couple of meets I'd love to verify but can't till I get my first so its not that some people are not genuine its just that one crucial verification there lacking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not necessarily, if they are in the forces and get posted overseas, they have little chance of meeting and accessing the site.

Then there are some who meet at clubs and just use the site to keep up with friends they have made.

Then there are some who set up a profile in a state of d*unkeness and forget they have done it.

Then there are those who set up a profile and put words to the effect of 'I'll fill this in later', thinking women will be fighting each other to get to them, doesn't make them a timewaster, just delusional

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