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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Finding it hard to leave fab even though im now taken,I've never cheated but the urge to keep playing won't go away,any advice would be much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding it hard to leave?

It's quite easy, hit the delete profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding it hard to leave fab even though im now taken,I've never cheated but the urge to keep playing won't go away,any advice would be much appreciated"

Will power, you need to delete your account and try & forget about FAB and it's bloody hard to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dump your g/f?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding it hard to leave?

It's quite easy, hit the delete profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its not that easy to delete though tbf lol,maybe I can persuade her to do a couples profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mwahh mate you eiether need to let her know or delete it cheatings not nice and can destroy a person inside. in my opinion a loving relationship better then just sex, thats just my opinion mind xx

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Don't leave, bring her along and I'll join you both for a threesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not that easy to delete though tbf lol,maybe I can persuade her to do a couples profile"

Better than lying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice,she's only 21 and she's a naughty welsh lass,never cheated behind a girls back but if I can persuade her to play as a couple then im staying lol

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Perhaps time to reassess the relationship?

If you REALLY liked her and were still in the honeymoon period surely the urge to play away wouldn't be so strong?

If she's not what you want, be a man and do the right thing. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dump your g/f?"

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

There is no need to delete your account you dont know how things are going to work out in this new relationship so why not just hide it for a while to see how thinks work out ...if it does then come back and delete the account and if it doesnt u then have the choice to unhide your profile without having to start again ...good luck

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If you find it hard to leave you are kidding yourself as to your feelings for her. If you truly wanted to make a go of it you wouldn't even be here asking this question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all the advice,she's only 21 and she's a naughty welsh lass,never cheated behind a girls back but if I can persuade her to play as a couple then im staying lol"

Has she given you any indication she would be up for that?

If I'd just started a relationship and he suggested a couples profile on a swinging site, I dump him & run for the hills faster then you can say FAB.

I've been on this scene for 10 years, but it's still not something I'd be happy with in the early stages of a relationship, unless it was someone I'd met in the scene.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Perhaps time to reassess the relationship?

If you REALLY liked her and were still in the honeymoon period surely the urge to play away wouldn't be so strong?

If she's not what you want, be a man and do the right thing. x"

totally agree...i can honestly say that in the last 8 months i have not felt the urge to play at all, i am truely happy with the man i have.

yes we are both on here and we have a couples profile for the occasional times we wish to meet a couple but as for meeting alone it is something neither of us are interested in.

If you are finding it that hard to leave here or to exist here without meeting then you obviously dont like the girl enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mwahh mate you eiether need to let her know or delete it cheatings not nice and can destroy a person inside. in my opinion a loving relationship better then just sex, thats just my opinion mind xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a pile of crap another look at me thread.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"What a pile of crap another look at me thread."

every thread is a look at me thread in essence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not that easy to delete though tbf lol,maybe I can persuade her to do a couples profile"

Good luck with that...we might see you here single again sooner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a pile of crap another look at me thread."

And you couldn't resist it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Look at me post? This is my 1st ever post on the forum get a grip lol,im after some advice as I've never been in this situation before,gna just hide my profile and forget about it,happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look at me post? This is my 1st ever post on the forum get a grip lol,im after some advice as I've never been in this situation before,gna just hide my profile and forget about it,happy swinging"

You know that green arrow next to your name? That links to your other forum posts....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My 1st serious quote m8 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know that green arrow next to your name? That links to your other forum posts...."

Oh I never knew that before lol you learn something new every day

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By *ynonvalleyboyMan
over a year ago

merthyr

i have come back here after being in a relationship for two years. the site has grown overwhelmed with idiots and timewasters. the people who i met have also moved on so back tothe foot of the ladder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a pile of crap another look at me thread.

And you couldn't resist it... "

Like a moth to a flame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My 1st serious quote m8 lol"

Oh so your previous posts weren't serious? The people that took their time to reply to you were just wasting their time then?? We must have been as you ignored our advice then so chances are you'll ignore it again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just dump your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look at me post? This is my 1st ever post on the forum get a grip lol,im after some advice as I've never been in this situation before,gna just hide my profile and forget about it,happy swinging

You know that green arrow next to your name? That links to your other forum posts...."

Busted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hide your account but don't meet any one. Your newlady deserves to have the man she met not one who may cheat on her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you've really fallen for the lady with emotional feelings and sex appeal surely you don't feel the need to remain in the lifestyle as a singleton? unless swinging as a couple appeals to you and her or alternative avenues of the lifestlye as a couple..

Drop the swinging lifestyle subject in to conversation to gauge what her reaction will be.. If she's positive about it go for it..

Or just be honest with her and tell her what you enjoy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, considering you are struggling with the idea of monogomy at the earliest stage of your relationship, can I ask is the reason you mention a couples profile because you think group fun and seeing her get fucked would be incredibly hot, or you see her as an opportunity for you to shag other people without it being considered cheating?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding it hard to leave fab even though im now taken,I've never cheated but the urge to keep playing won't go away,any advice would be much appreciated"

Delete the profile and resist.

If you really can't resist then let the girl go, you're not ready.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, considering you are struggling with the idea of monogomy at the earliest stage of your relationship, can I ask is the reason you mention a couples profile because you think group fun and seeing her get fucked would be incredibly hot, or you see her as an opportunity for you to shag other people without it being considered cheating?

Well said

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