FabSwingers.com forum: First time anal

By *rKingsman OP Man
51 weeks ago

sutton

Hey, can anyone recommend a good toy to use on myself for anal? I really want to get into it but of course I’m very tight

Any help is appreciated

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
51 weeks ago

near you...

Lovehoney has a decent starter pack. Don't forget the lube

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By *rKingsman OP Man
51 weeks ago

sutton

"Lovehoney has a decent starter pack. Don't forget the lube

Yea I was looking this morning but there’s too many options lol oh yes the water based lube of course

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By *rKingsman OP Man
51 weeks ago

sutton

Any other advice?

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By *urreyGuy19792Man
51 weeks ago

Egham

Make sure you're really chilled out and relaxed, and that you're unlikely to be disturbed. If I'm even slightly on edge then it won't work!

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By *rKingsman OP Man
51 weeks ago

sutton

"Make sure you're really chilled out and relaxed, and that you're unlikely to be disturbed. If I'm even slightly on edge then it won't work!"

Okay thank you… I have heard everything needs to be relaxed but that’s easier said than done

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By *rKingsman OP Man
51 weeks ago

sutton

Any more help? Would be appreciated

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By *avid 50Man
51 weeks ago

kendal

make sure you're first experience is with an older guy who has patience it takes a while before you can enjoy the thrusting

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By *icki222TV/TS
51 weeks ago

Lincoln

Totally agree that being relaxed is the key.

Lovehoney do some really good beginners toys. Take it steady, use lots of lube and above all if it hurts, STOP. It’ll take time but you’ll get onto bigger toys. Enjoy lovely xxx

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By *usie pTV/TS
51 weeks ago

taunton

The control takes a while to learn, when you have mastered that and ready to try a real live cock I think you will find that easier and much nicer than a toy but I would advise starting off small. When trying to insert something you need to push out and it slips in, it sort of opposite to what is natural lol.

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By *rKingsman OP Man
51 weeks ago

sutton

Thanks for all the advice everyone I’ll definitely take it all on board x

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By *olbornsubguyMan
51 weeks ago

london

Advice from a gay guy here:

1. Clean out first. No need to go crazy. A small rubber bulb douche is fine. Plain warm water - nothing fancy in it.

2. Lube. Lots of it. I prefer oil based like Vaseline but it’s not suitable for condoms or latex toys. Silicon lube is good but a pain to clean up. Water based if you must but you’ll need to keep reapplying it.

3. Go slow. Gentle fingering first to relax. When you enter, don’t push straight in. If it starts to hurt, stop - but keep it there. A minute later the muscles will relax and you can go deeper. Repeat as needed.

4. P*ppers are a big help here. But obvs don’t mix with viagra and get advice if any heart conditions.

5. Enjoy

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By *rKingsman OP Man
51 weeks ago

sutton

Thank you for the advice

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By *eltoncol2025Man
51 weeks ago

Melton Mowbray

Just take some cock in it it hurts to start with but gets better and feels so good

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