FabSwingers.com forum: What surprised you about your first meet?

By *lasgow2 OP Couple
7 weeks ago

Glasgow

Was it what you expected or completely different to how you thought it would be?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ere4It3000Couple
7 weeks ago

Belgium

I will follow this forum.. we haven’t had any kind of meet yet so will be good to hear…

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *heeky12399Man
7 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

It was kinda exactly what I thought it would be. It was a group social but one of the ladies and I were chatting before it all. She mad it clear she wanted more than a social before she arrived. As the social was finishing and others left. She whispered I hoe you're staying and me and another guy had some fun with her

this was like 5 years ago now

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lasgow2 OP Couple
7 weeks ago

Glasgow

We've been to clubs and did some stuff on webcam but never had the courage to ask someone to meet.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *osh bitch n hornyCouple
7 weeks ago

Warrington

Our surprise was we were talking to a couple in a club. They asked us into a room for a foursome when we got in the room the other lady said oh I don’t play sorry it’s Andy ended up a threesome. We should’ve walked away really.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *enguinMan
7 weeks ago

Herts

Mine was on my lunch break and was a very spontaneous meet, was only meant to be a public tease but she invited me in…

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *effrey45Man
7 weeks ago

Lytham

From first chatting on here to a quick phonecall she was sucking me off all in the space of an hour

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ohn 66Man
7 weeks ago

South Birmingham

My surprise was that I'd expected to be nervous, but it all seemed so relaxed (and exciting at the same time)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *randMrsLPCouple
7 weeks ago

london

How far my Mrs went

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ldster400Man
7 weeks ago

stockport

I surprised myself how easy it was to suck my first cock, down on my knees straight away.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rtfull-doggersCouple
7 weeks ago

mowcop

The girth x lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eroLondonMan
7 weeks ago

Mayfair

"I will follow this forum.. we haven’t had any kind of meet yet so will be good to hear… "

•

I suspect in your case it's all down to location and providence: it will happen, rest assured. Your profile stands out otherwise. Others could take inspiration from yours. 🩶💌

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

"Was it what you expected or completely different to how you thought it would be?"

I was surprised by what a very dirty old man he turned out to be… and by how my wife responded to that…

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orphia2003Woman
7 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

How quickly it happened. Chatted overnight whilst at work. Met next morning.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ere4It3000Couple
7 weeks ago

Belgium

"I will follow this forum.. we haven’t had any kind of meet yet so will be good to hear…

•

I suspect in your case it's all down to location and providence: it will happen, rest assured. Your profile stands out otherwise. Others could take inspiration from yours. 🩶💌"

Ohh thankyou for the kind words Nero, we are just taking our time to make sure we meet the right people for both of us and indeed with location, providence, planning most definitely needed.. but excited for things to come, one day

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *onnatvsussexTV/TS
7 weeks ago

littlehampton

By how wide his cock was and what a mouthful it was

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss_Juicy79Woman
7 weeks ago

Edinburgh

It was different a risky summer evening car meet in a carpark near some flats

went there 3 times after too.

Wouldn't do it these days far too risky

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hoenix_1Man
7 weeks ago

richmond

Surprised how it lasted 3 hours. An then an hour after she essaged snd asked me to go to her house and I left there after lunch the next day

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *exyScientistsCouple
7 weeks ago

Castlebar

It was supposed to be a coffee but went a bit further than I thought 🙈

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *gooddayforfunMan
7 weeks ago

rhyl

My first meet I went to a blowbang not much shocked me I was just surprised I 1 lasted so long and 2 the sucking skills of the lady involved

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *moothstaffspeepsCouple
7 weeks ago

Stafford

How completely bisexual we actually are

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *izandpaulCouple
7 weeks ago

merseyside

An absolute, 100% gold plated disaster.

A social with what seemed on FAB as a lovely, level headed, 'normal' couple.

A local pub, late afternoon, should be fine.

All excited, knots in tummy, ready for the start of the great swinging journey.

Grab a table in a quite area of the pub and wait for the entrance door to swing open.

And fuck me, did it swing open !!!

That's when it all started to go downhill...

A couple turned up, it was obviously them. She donned a red PVC number, 4 sizes too small, like a sausage in a tight red skin.

Maybe they couldn't count as their ages didn't seem within 20 years of that stated.

He looked like my grandad and reeked of old fags.

From there we noticed she was pissed, had poor dental care, he wheezed, had a smokers cough and his oversized suit had never seem the inside of a dry cleaners or a wet one.

Due to the amount of alcohol downed she became louder and louder, heads turned, the odd chuckle and we couldn't wait to run away.

We are nice people and felt an obligation to stay a bit longer, bad mistake.

As the old saying goes, you live and learn.

Did we learn, not sure what exactly but we did learn.

Happily, we carried on, surely we couldn't meet a pair like that again and to be honest, we never have, seen a few at clubs and parties but we have learnt to give them a wide berth.

If at first you don't succeed and so on..

Don't give up people, as in life, you always live to fight another day.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lasgow2 OP Couple
7 weeks ago

Glasgow

"An absolute, 100% gold plated disaster.

A social with what seemed on FAB as a lovely, level headed, 'normal' couple.

A local pub, late afternoon, should be fine.

All excited, knots in tummy, ready for the start of the great swinging journey.

Grab a table in a quite area of the pub and wait for the entrance door to swing open.

And fuck me, did it swing open !!!

That's when it all started to go downhill...

A couple turned up, it was obviously them. She donned a red PVC number, 4 sizes too small, like a sausage in a tight red skin.

Maybe they couldn't count as their ages didn't seem within 20 years of that stated.

He looked like my grandad and reeked of old fags.

From there we noticed she was pissed, had poor dental care, he wheezed, had a smokers cough and his oversized suit had never seem the inside of a dry cleaners or a wet one.

Due to the amount of alcohol downed she became louder and louder, heads turned, the odd chuckle and we couldn't wait to run away.

We are nice people and felt an obligation to stay a bit longer, bad mistake.

As the old saying goes, you live and learn.

Did we learn, not sure what exactly but we did learn.

Happily, we carried on, surely we couldn't meet a pair like that again and to be honest, we never have, seen a few at clubs and parties but we have learnt to give them a wide berth.

If at first you don't succeed and so on..

Don't give up people, as in life, you always live to fight another day.

That's terrifying but also quite funny

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *urenutsMan
7 weeks ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

Being nervous before the meet. Then how relaxing the couple made me feel

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ornyCouple2049Couple
7 weeks ago

Cockermouth

Met a guy on an app, he met us had great rapport, I went to the loo and he and J were kissing so all good, went back to the hotel and the image of all the things they did that night is burned into my memory and I often use it for self pleasure material. It was awesome. Especially her mouth full.of another guys cum.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *onderWomanWlvWoman
7 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Errr what surprised me was how much personal info he blurted out post-coitally. I did not realise it was going to be a sex and therapy session 🫠

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ikesEmBigMan
7 weeks ago

Bromley

How much I came

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ant...stay...awayCouple
7 weeks ago

South Wales

We clicked almost immediately and to this day they set the standard for everyone else on here ❤️

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
7 weeks ago

Leeds

Probably the fact it was a catfish, or the fact there was a baby in another room which we were not told about, then the brother barged in.

Safe to say socials always 1st from then.

Mrs

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eautyabcCouple
7 weeks ago

bridgend

Our first meet was with a guy who played by our rules and had great fun

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *adtaffladMan
7 weeks ago

Rhyl

How hot my mates Mrs was

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ike_looking_forMan
7 weeks ago

Cumbria

Was from another site and we chatted, arranged to meet for a drink, the suprise was it was only one drink then back to my hotel room and went for most of the night - she stayed in the room later that morning as I had to go to work and got sent a few very distracting pics over the course of the morning - went on to be FWB for quite a while

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *obbiKentMan
7 weeks ago

maidstone

How much of his 9in cock I could take in my throat (gf watched in glee)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

I was surprised he turned up....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

Not my first ever fab meet but one of them a few years ago turned up at least years older than claimed and nothing like his pictures ... polite drink in pub and left.

Taught me importance of a social first.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oralltherightreasonsCouple
7 weeks ago

WELLINGBOROUGH

Was surprised how comfortable the wife was fucking another man and sucking his cock in front of me, but also how there wasn't a feeling of jealousy at all either.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eroLondonMan
7 weeks ago

Mayfair

I was pleasantly surprised that when I undressed her for the first time she was genuinely, truly and unequivocally a woman.

Due diligence paid off.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oodles09Woman
7 weeks ago

Newark

How quickly i felt at ease and how I immediately knew that it wouldn't be the last haha!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eediousMan
7 weeks ago

Smallville

"Errr what surprised me was how much personal info he blurted out post-coitally. I did not realise it was going to be a sex and therapy session 🫠"

Guess you have a therapeutic “maiow”! Embrace that.

One more thing in your arsenal in addition to Scrabble!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eediousMan
7 weeks ago

Smallville

How much of an anal enthusiast she was.

Wanted that more than anything else.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *llGoodFun76Couple
7 weeks ago

Angus

Just why I waited so long to dip my toe

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oelDorianMan
7 weeks ago

vanaheim

The only thing that shocked me was how some men don’t even bother using condoms

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ein-guyMan
7 weeks ago

East Cowes

I was approached by my current fwb who suggested I joined fab....and 2 days later she asked if she could give me a BJ. We've been exploring each others boundaries ever since

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nsaneronMan
7 weeks ago

PO7

We had talked about her getting fucked and sending me pics of it. For a long time she thought it was just fantasy.

On my birthday I was in a meeting. My in my pocket started going mental I couldn’t look at it. After I came out of the meeting I was blown away by all the images. Then a text to come home and reclaim her back as mine

An amazing first time

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iredhand2Man
7 weeks ago

Sale

My first meet was with a local hot wife couple. What surprised me was just how relaxed everyone was. Hubby didn’t join in but certainly took pics for their entertainment later.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *unny usernameMan
7 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Meeting with a guy who introduced me to his lady friend, without warning he started to suck my cock

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rwgMan
7 weeks ago

Ammanford

Being greeted at the door with a beer and being told she’s upstairs , have fun

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eeshellsCouple
7 weeks ago

Reading

"How quickly i felt at ease and how I immediately knew that it wouldn't be the last haha!"

Same for us. We've been very relaxed.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icentiousCouple
7 weeks ago

Up on them there hills

How long we discussed each other before the reason we met (D/s exploration).

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *arkJonesMan
7 weeks ago

Bangor

That she was gorgeous and actually seemed to want to fuck me ..did wonders for the confidence.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *entdingdongCouple
7 weeks ago

Gravesend

just how much we both enjoyed it guess we were lucky or just honest with each other

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rs GGWoman
7 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

Amazing connection (which we still have). Mind blowing sex. But overall, love that we're still friends almost a decade on. Set the tone for the rest of my meets.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *idssissyTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Nr cricket ground birm

That it happened and I managed to give oral

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

27 year old Charlotte was a Dave with a beard and winkles

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *luebell888Woman
7 weeks ago

Glasgowish

"Was it what you expected or completely different to how you thought it would be?"

I thought he would turn up but he didn't

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ENW coupleCouple
7 weeks ago

west lancs

It was almost spontaneous. Within a week of taking the step into swinging

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inkywife1981Couple
7 weeks ago

A town near you

We met a couple and it was their 1st meet also, and we all ended up getting d*unk to calm our nerves but had a great time though only thought about safe sex the following morning !

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orningGlory555Man
7 weeks ago

Wells

I attended a club for my first meet, I was surprised just how comfortable I felt being naked in front of quite a large number of people

And my first meet away from clubs was amazing too, I was more nervous which I was taken back by, but the couple were very chilled and we had a great night.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uenevereWoman
7 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

[Removed by poster at 25/05/25 21:29:19]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *haringisCaring1208Couple
7 weeks ago

Lurgan

We’d a brilliant first meet, exceeded all expectations if we are honest, but the most surprising thing was actually after the meet. We didn’t realise how much we wouldn’t be able to keep our hands off each other…it was unreal. Same after every meet since, best part of playing hands down

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *irty workmanMan
7 weeks ago

lincolnshire

Nerves

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oung40Man
7 weeks ago

thirsk

mine was not expected, was doing a photoshoot for a couple!

she got a little close to me as I was taking pics and she ended up grabbing for me! husband approved and ended up in a bi mmf

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inAndTonic21Couple
7 weeks ago

Merseyside

How much j wills enjoy if after 22 only being with my husband

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *annessaTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Denham

My first ‘married’ couple - she had a dick as well.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inAndTonic21Couple
7 weeks ago

Merseyside

"How much j wills enjoy if after 22 only being with my husband

That was meant to say How much i enjoyed it after 22 years of only being with my husband

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *randMrsLPCouple
7 weeks ago

london

how quickly mrs moved the goal posts - eg

from say defo not intercourse during her nude massage to getting her frist fuck from a stranger with no condom almost as soon as i left the room - this was our first full encounter into me being a puka Cuck

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *arnelianWoman
7 weeks ago

Ely, Cambridgeshire (moved here April '25)

How quickly I felt relaxed and comfortable to be naked with them.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ami4321Man
7 weeks ago

wrexham

How quick the nerves disappeared and how much fun it was (bi meet)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ndypandy69Man
7 weeks ago

Telford

First was probably one of the best ever. No drama, hotwife meeting for a social drink. Turned up, looked livelier than any pics, in a summery dress, bare tanned legs and heels. Things got tactile and thanks to it being a corner a corner of the pub with high back seating, things got very steamy. She said she worked in the area Mon-Thurs and rented a flat. We went there, and she said she had called her husband as she drove and told him she would have company! He ended up listening on the phone as we fucked! Had many lovely encounters with her, including him watching

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *anthertargetMan
7 weeks ago

weston-super-mare

Met a lovely relaxed playful couple. Really enjoyed the evening. Got a slap on the ass from the husband during the encounter which made me chuckle

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ollie_JCouple
7 weeks ago

Italy

The full cat litter tray in an empty living room

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
7 weeks ago

near you...

How fast we went from just chatting to playing. One minute we were discussing what we saw on Netflix and then it all kicked off x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *he_turtle_movesMan
7 weeks ago

york

The standing naked in a hotel hallway listening to them having a domestic.

Thank goodness I've learned to see the red flags

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread